I have had a provider also done this. One time she said she needed cash to pay for her weekly hotel stay and she needed it ASAP, and she said she'll do 1hour for a much lower rate. I said 'ok', because it was a bargain. If you feel forced, then you don't have to see her. I consented, because she seemed in need of help and the price was a bargain. If you want her to 'stop', PM me and I can tell you some subtle things you can do. good luck.
I'm considered a "lerker" for sure but I feel that I should share my concern. I have seen this provider 2 times. The second time I did so because I felt forced to do so. She called, texted and emailed numerous times. During my first visit with this provider I made the mistake of telling her I was married and need a no strings attached arrangement and felt she understood. To my dismay I have been contacted numerous times. I don't need to get caught being a hobbiest but don't know how to get rid of her. Have any other hobbiest found this to be the case? Should I post a review on this provider or what? Please give me some advice how to deal with this situation without bringing repercussions to my family life.
I have had a provider also done this. One time she said she needed cash to pay for her weekly hotel stay and she needed it ASAP, and she said she'll do 1hour for a much lower rate. I said 'ok', because it was a bargain. If you feel forced, then you don't have to see her. I consented, because she seemed in need of help and the price was a bargain. If you want her to 'stop', PM me and I can tell you some subtle things you can do. good luck.
She doesn't send rude emails just constantly pushing for appointments. I have stressed to her I have a famiy and I don't need any hassles. Would you post a review?
Well seems to me she is just trying to offer her services. Isn't that what the girls do, they are sales people after all. Maybe you misled her in some way. If I was you I would change my phone number and get a cheap hobby phone. That is the best way to be discreet. Also like Hailey mentioned you can use a reputable agency.
I am a fiercly private person. Gentleman always ask to be put on my mailing list or for me to contact them when I come into town and I explain that I Never make the initial contact....EVER!!!! Life can change from one appointment to the next and I do just fine with my method....I post a calendar several months in advance and advertise ... sounds like you need to deal classier ladies.
There have been several providers I have seen in the past and have never had someone contact me constantly. I don't want to change my number as my other half might start getting curious as to why. I have never posted a review before but do agree that I need to if it will help another hobbyist in the future or should I just give her name in this forum?
I have had several agencies do the same thing. In my opinion they are worse that independents. I have had to write forceful e-mails to ask them to stop.
This is the reason one of the first and most repeated pieces of advice is to get a prepaid phone and only use it when hobbying. Once the trust level is there, you can share the other number(s). This happens on both ends of the equation.
Sorry you had to go thru this, is a lack of Respect on her part for your privacy, Specially after you mentioned you have an SO.
You should make it clear to her that you don't want any (soliciting) Text or calls from her, that if you should have the need to see her you will contact her.
I always ask my Clients before they step out of my door, what is the best way to reach them for my upcoming trips.. as I respect their Privacy and know everyone has a private Life, be it a GF/SO I preffer to have them on my e-mail list, but not all of the Gentlemen here have SO, therefor Some preffer text or calls.
Hope you got your problem resolved,if not a review is definitely a good way to inform others to be careful with her.
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