Hi everyone!  I'm still looking for that submissive female provider in the triad area.  Can anyone make a recommendation at all?  Thanks for the help!!

I'm sure most providers don't read this board often. Create a to do list and email those ladies one by one telling them what you're looking for. I am sure you will find what you are looking for faster that way. Happy New Year.

XOXOXO

Ok so just so you know I got absolutely no clue about sub/dom interludes.

From the comedy and maybe some porn yada yada yada I think I got the jist of it.

So I was just thinking as I was reading that could it be the perfect sub gal can't
reply to your request unless it is given in a very commanding way?
You know, "Hey Sub, are they usually referred to as sub?) I demand you let me
know where you are and how I can get in touch wih you". Something like that might
work!

LOL, I bet the Dom women would like to kick the ever loving crap out of me for sounding so naive!
Just not into it but live and let live. I am actually so surprised I am in the company of a woman under any circumstances being demanding never really crossed my feeble yet agile mind!

I mean I haven't a clue about most anything and this stuff even less than most, it
is just that if the sub is really behaving she is supposedly really quiet, right? Do what she is TOLD, not asked! So though annoying isn't she fulfilling her role perfectly by not responding to you? In that case how does she get her well deserved donation? I am just so confused.

If I am on the right track here maybe a more forceful command for the sub to announce
herself might get you success in your pursuit.

I Concur

Shifterp OUT!

You are bringing in the New Year EXCELLENTLY!!  Thank you for all you insightful humor.

Well one day I found myself standing in my backless leather chaps, leather mask snuggly formed to my ever balding dome, cuffs with frilly, feathers...whateva, clipped to my trusty Dom utility belt ready for giving commands, swearing out insults. Then to my left and down was my sweet little doggie. First it seemed she was scared and then she started laughing, you out loud, little doggie belly laughing!

Next I decided to take a long look at myself in the mirror and dog-gone if she wasn't right! I looked absolutely re-dic-u-lous!!!!!!!!!!! So I chuckled a little myself feeling foolish something awful and removed all my DOM stuff.

So I figure I gave it a try and it is just not for me, although I got no beef with anyone who can pull that off.

I still think that Dom fella ought to command a gal ring him up instead of requesting one of them get in touch. I mean to get one of those Dom gals to get in touch wouldn't it go better if one told all about what a snivveling, worthless, stupid dumb piece of non-worthy crap who needs to be punished is more likely to get a call back than "hey a Gal into being Dominate ring me up"? Or is he the sub, man I am so confused!!!!!

Remember the biggest sex organ any of us got is the one standing on out shouders. I just think he ought to use a little verbal DOM foreplay to entice the ladies! Anyone Anyone Bueller, Bueller?

Anyway, like I said and have shared I know close to nothing about this lifestyle so I concede I might be completely off  the charts off base on this one! just figured I would give my two cents worth.

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

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No I don't beleive that's how it works for most Dom/sub relations...  A sub that is free is always hoping to connect with a Dom and if the meeting goes well then it turns into a thing of beauty!

If a Dom is looking and asks then a sub is expected to reply, He asked so it's okay...

Each relationship is different.  A Dom and a sub get together and make their own rules.  What's okay and what's not etc...  In this case He is a Man looking for an escort that is submissive so the donation isn't an issue; He will pay the asking amount for what He wants.

Sense this is such a hard thing to find, having a place like this to discuss it is Awesome!

I am a sub at heart...  But don't be fooled, just because I am submissive doesn't mean that just any Dom could be in charge of me.  Like I said earlier, it can be a thing of beauty if the Dom and the sub connect on the same intellectual level.  It can be played with so the adjustment suits both...

This is just how I look at it because of the way I feel inside and because of the experience that I have had.  It is different for many...