with a girl a few years ago.  The hard part is delineating time on versus time off.  Even though you've taken her on a perceived vacation, she is still going to want to have time to live her own life.  The key is to establish those times.  If you are able to occupy yourself during her off times, you should be able to have a good time.

I've been fortunate. I've had some really amazing experiences traveling with friends in the hobby. Do it!

Traveling!

I love traveling with my clients! The adventures I've enjoyed were business trips for men. I had from 8-9 a.m. to 5-6 p.m. to myself. Afterwards, we would fool around, have dinner, watch a show or go dancing and of course nibble on one another later.  

If this is a leisure trip, consider taking a break between 11-3. Sleep in, have breakfast in bed, part ways for a couple of hours, then pick up where you left off after 3.  

Have a great time!

a young lady agree to a six day trip with me before she retired from the business.  After meeting regularly for several years, we knew each other quite well and had enough trust built up to make such a trip possible.

If you value memories and expierences, and are also able to take pleasure in knowing that she is having a fun and enjoyable vacation as well, then your time together should be priceless.

Give her enough space; perhaps by allowing her to sleep in peacefully in the morning while you get breakfast ready or just read a book on the balcony.  Or, maybe she is used to sleeping alone at night and would be uncomfortable with excessive hugging or touching while she's sleeping.

I’ve done these with several - not all at once - just one at a time!! 😀😮
I would be glad to try a 5 days or more trip, but, I just can’t fit that in biz/work-wise.
“Good rapport” is a start, but IMHO there has to also be a real “liking,” not a faking relationship (obviously).  For me, it is sometimes blurry if she’s an escort, a friend, a semi-lover etc. or all.
I guess I’ll hafta keep trying until I get it right/understood  
My $.02

Many more wonderful escapes with opportunities for desire and intimacy
Flirting voyeur
Awesome memories
Be respectful and engaged
Xo

“If you’re worried/wondering about the lady’s sleep etc., it ain’t fun for either one of you.”  It’s a ‘two-off that line in an movie - something like “if you’re in love you don’t need to say your sorry.”  If you’re ‘having fun and comfortable you don’t hafta think about the agenda/game-plan.”
With my ATF I/we never discussed get-away game-plan - it just flowed - just like all of our few-hour get-together.  I knew how good we had it, but, it’s been awhile and all of this discussion brings back memories....

People like different things!  I couldn’t do a 2-3-4 day get-away w/someone who doessn’t Like what I like and vice versa. Personally, I have limited likes! 🙂 I like my “limitations!”  I ain’t never going skiing, snorkeling, mountain climbing etc.  I also ain’t never going w/o my wine and scotch!  So, a teetotaler,  who wants to go skydiving and I are simply incompatible! 😮
I had a great weekend getaway with a lady who had not really done/liked what I do.  I ain’t about sittin around - I’m all about doing things, and entertainment, and fine dining w/fine wine.  She said I wore her out with non-stop fun - and I ain’t talkin about sex! 😀😮
All this talk makes me start thinkin about my next getaway - I’m over due....

I wanted to take my ATF on a 7 day cruise but my wife said absolutely not.

I used travel extensively with a former client.  We obv had a great connection and had booked several overnights before hand.  It was truly a win win for both of us!  Key would be making sure you express any concerns, expectations, proposed agenda, etc beforehand so no miscommunication. xx

My favorite trip was with a client visiting from abroad who was coming home to the U.S. and really wanted to do something special.  He read I liked hiking so he let me pick the destination and the itinerary and it was just a complete blast- every day going off on a hike then coming back to the resort to play, dine, hot tub it up, drink, hang out with other couples -- for a first time meeting it was an extraordinary experience.

My least favorite trip was supposed to be a week long stay in Las Vegas with a new client - I flew home on day four, unable to withstand the drama, the massive coke binge that was happening and other assorted fuckery.  This particular trip made me swear off more than three days with anyone I hadn't met before for a LONG time.

The trip that was probably the most unpredictably bad was an island resort vacation taken with an eight year client with whom I'd traveled before for shorter jaunts- it was on the heels of his divorce so I should have known we were in rebound city but lets just say that his expectations of the trip didn't gibe with mine and we didn't speak for a good year after we came back LOL.
I can laugh now, and we're okay, he's now happily out of Hobbyville, and in love with a new babe - but it was really, really devastating to lose his friendship, our relationship - and sincerely, it could have happened to anyone, neither of us were in the wrong, we just weren't on the same page.  And this was my best and most favorite client for a really long time, we just got on like no other.

So I would say it can be so so so amazing!  Traveling as a provider/client together- man, you get to stay someplace luxe with a person you really like, have fun, have great sex, carouse together, adventure together and make memories to last a lifetime.  

But....vacations can ruin a real couple LOL.  Vacations can ruin friendships period.  You never know what its going to be like until you are in the situation.  So just have a great sense of what kind of traveler you are and what kind of traveler she is (not knowing can actually present some real problems lol) --- go for it and keep your wits about you lol.  It can go either way but mostly, I think it tends to go good when you're on the same page.

you have done a couple overnights with your regular in the past. A shorter trip like a weekend together would be a good way to see if you "click".  

 I would strongly suggest talking (a Lot) before you take the trip to make sure you are both on the same page. It would suck if she wanted to get some side work in and you thought the trip was all about you. I'm talking about the "too good to be true" offer that she might get in the hotel bar during your alone time. She is not your GF even if you pretend that she is. Five days is a long time to spend with anyone ... even if you like them.

Have fun

I have traveled with several of my clients for more than just an over night.  As the lovely ladies above have mentioned those trips can be good or bad.  It depends on your idea of what a vacation is and each person's expectations.  I say go for it after several talks to make sure you re on the same page.

and don't overthink.  You mentioned knowing her for some time and having a good rapport.  I have had great experiences going away and one really bad experience.  What  made the experience bad was how the 3rd say in to a 5 day trip in the Caribbean, he told me he wanted me for himself to be his lover.  Then he became possessive, jelaous and nasty because I told him how much I enjoyed being with him but wasnt able to give him the exclusivity he wanted.   I lost the client over it but  this happens when 2 people arent on the same page.

On trips with other clients, we had a blast.  I think ita best to just relax and be easy going and understanding.  It is important to be clear with her on what you expect but let the rest happen organically.  If your rapport ia that strong the ability to express your desires and needs will keep things smooth.

Enjoy every moment!

Thanks to all for your advice.  Trip is set feeling very good about arrangements.  Check back in a couple weeks for the results.

A bit of an extended delay in this report due to the TER shutdown...    we finalized plans. She told me the donation was whatever I felt comfortable giving her.  I flew her first class (she was surprised as we hadn’t discussed this).  
So, flew my lady to our vacation spot, met her at the airport and took her to our hotel.. as it was a cross country trip for her, offered her some private time to relax and unwind, to which she told me “no way - I’m here to enjoy a vacation and see the sights with you!”  That set the tone for the next 3 days.  We had a blast together being tourists all day and lovers all night (and she is insatiable - she was ready and willing every  morning and evening) I had her undivided attention the entire time.  I hated to say goodbye at the end.
The epilogue - several weeks after this vacation, I was in her area and we got together for an evening.  Her first comment to me was “can we do another trip together sometime?”  We’ve now done a total of 3 so far and are planning our 4th later this year.    
She’s intelligent, articulate, beautiful, sexy, and so much fun to be with.  A 1 in a million!

where were the trips to and what sites to see?  I was in school for many years and working internships and other part time jobs but now school is complete.  I am ready to do short weekend three day trips.  I need suggestions so I can mention this to my seasoned gents who can travel anytime they want and have comfortable budgets.

Iam mostly stuck in the RDU/RTP/NRaleigh area i Absolutely love traveling! Not just local states I love out the country! I love the time spend together! Iam single so I get lonely! Nothing turns me on more then traveling. I love dinner dates! I feel like when I get book for a hour is not enough! I always end up spending a little more time then a hour! I hate being in a rush! So anyone love to travel with a exotic lady IAM HER!!

Thanks, but my lady deserves most of the credit for the success of our vacations together.  We have much in common, but she makes things so easy.  She’s beautiful, intelligent, and most importantly honest with me.  That’s the most important aspect of our success.  I know she’ll tell me if she’d rather do something else.   It makes things so much easier, and we truly enjoy each other’s company.  We really are friends.

Once when I first started. It was fun - part was destination, the rest was local. We had one fight. lol!

The rest, the longest I had was a few 3-day trips. You just kind of have to go for it, because you really just never know what's going to happen if you want to start out with multiple days.

I've heard someone say schedule the 5-days and start out with the 2 days to make sure you don't want to choke each other (in the bad way, lol.)

Another thing is to have a place for her and you to retreat to, or if they want to leave for a few hours don't babysit them about it. Let it be free with no guilt if one or the other needs a great - and no taking it personally - and no showing the other you're taking it personally.

Keep it lose and don't follow each other into the bathroom if one has to poop.

(Sounds gross, but y'all are going to have to poop at some point - one reason you might want to get two rooms, or at least two separate bathrooms. Boundaries. That's a little deep and people actually do follow us into the bathroom when we shower, brush our teeth, go pee, all of that stuff. Or they sit right outside of the bathroom while we're getting ready. It still feels like they're observing you.)

Boundaries and don't be inseparable the first two days, and then start separating. Start practice coming and going / separating for a few just a bit the first day or two so when it happens on day 3 and 4, neither think, "uh oh, what's changed? Did I do something?" because by then it will be normal.

You just know - keep it free, low key, loose as a goose, and "alllll good."

Have fun!

X,

C

Oh! And if she wants to sleep in or take a nap, let her - you might have kept her up all night and - well - I say just get separate rooms and she can come slip into bed w you sometimes at night if she wants to snuggle. When one chooses, it's always better than feeling obligated. Sleep is soooo important for these things. It is literally the most important contributor to a good or a bad trip in my opinion. So worth letting them have their needed sleep

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