Carolinas

Watch who you associate yourself with...................
justgivemeareason 73 Reviews 1055 reads
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Alot of hobbyist watch this board and they dont post. They see what goes on, they don't say anything cause they know they will get flamed or put on the local provider blackball list. Hint stay away from whinny, board hoarding providers, most hoobyist avoid them and they are always on the board complaining they have no business. that simple. I will get flamed for this post but I do not care. Check other boards you don't see whinny complaining providers,if you  whine do  it on the provider board.

You guys have a 100% GFE that visits every month and noone takes advantage of it... Ive been on the boards for some time now, love what I do, and am one of the hottest women here in Raleigh and yet noone desires to see me.. I have my certain regulars that Ive seen over 7 years now whom I DO see every time I come but as far as the rest of you, I dont know what gives.... Half of my life has moved back to Raleigh, so thankfully I dont visit just for work.. I am 100% GFE and super sexxy and lots of fun, and this is why Im adored.. Plus Ive got some pretty stellar reviews!!Look its all good if you dont want to see me, just please dont question why there is nothing but B&S here in Raleigh... Thanks for listening......

Happy Hobbying everyone..

But their wallets don't agree! Lol. It's not you..the economy SUCKS and people dont have as much "play money"

I desire her..and you..but you already knew that..
See you in Myrtle Beach In June right?

Again I was just ranting, ok.... I didnt mean to say there are NO good providers, bc theirs awesome NC ladies.. I hear of soo many ripoff's that I wonder when the real deal visits noone is intrigued... Its as simply as that, soo dam frustrating... ThankGod for family or Id quit the biz LOL....

BTW thanks Aubrey, cant wait to meet you!!

Raleigh, Charleston, Cola.. are either buzy or dead..either they all cancel or never show.. I only go if one of my regulars book a two hour so I can afford to go..

Like I said in my early post on this subject when AJ posted complaining..Guys don't complain about your city, if you can't be serious in your bookings..We all know things come up, but hey.. can we all just try to get on the same page...Love to all.. Just venting too...

I'll be there next week! Can't wait! Can't imagine what your problem is, you being one of the hottest women in Raleigh as you so nicely put it. Maybe you should travel elsewhere. Maybe you are just being impatient as you know it only takes a couple calls before you have a grand. You are the second person in a week to complain about Raleigh. I've never had a problem and enjoy Raleigh gents immensely. As you should know there are never any promises in this business. Trips bomb. It sucks but it happens. Good luck to you.

I hope its not a problem. I have had many emails about raleigh charlotte and Myrtle beach and it looks like it will be a good trip for me.
Oh and I am just an average gal over 40 and it seems I will do ok this time aroind.

TeacherTeacher856 reads

Guys will be cummin over with no problem.

Its a little different for you my dear vertically gifted goddess. You are one of those few providers. That stands out in a crowd. Both with your open mind and excellent reviews. As well as your statuesque physique.

Everyone likes a certain type of woman to one degree or another. While your arch type is very unusual in the Carolina's. Her services and or body type "might be" perceived as common place to one degree or another. Like a few people have already stated. There is 200 woman in Raleigh alone competing for a few clients. Times are tough all around in all areas of the job market as a whole!

If Raleigh is a drag, heed my weekly plead, COME TO GREENVILLE, SC.

do you have a new york accent and if so do you offer any half hour appointments?????????????

TeacherTeacher611 reads

I want to be polite, so here's a possible answer. I went to your website. And there are hot ladies in Raleigh that offer 50% of what you offer. Go look at Backpage and see your competition. And yes, some of the ladies that require less donation also have great TER reviews.

Weltschmerz896 reads

No disrespect intended, but I think your donation is a little high -- now, that's without having seen you.

I see girls at that donation and higher fairly regularly, but they are stellar looking in their photos and usually even better in person. You're very attractive, but all we have to go on for the first visit are photos and reviews. And I've come across better photos. Which aren't everything, but are our main impression regarding looks before seeing you the first time.

Your site has what appear to be recent and old photos. I'd recommend losing the old photos and perhaps getting even more recent photos. None of your current photos show off the new assets you say you have.

You do have great reviews. But I've learned the hard way that one, or even a dozen guys, may rate a girl a 9 in looks or performance while I'd rate her a 7 in one, the other, or both. And I leave afterwards thinking, what the hell were those guys thinking. And I read reviews. and I read other reviews by the reviewers to see what kind of providers they like and dislike so I have a better idea of where they're coming from. At that donation, I wouldn't be happy with anything but 9's in both areas. Now, you have them in your reviews. But again, I have hesitations.

Now, maybe if I saw you I'd think otherwise. But Raleigh get's a fair amount of visitors. And there are plenty of great local providers with a lower donation. So if I get the urge to see a provider, it usually doesn't take more than a week for me to find and set up a date with someone I'm very eager to see. And if I see someone will be visiting who I'm very interested in seeing, I have no problem waiting a couple of weeks.

I bet you would see an increase in business if you lowered your donation. Probably a significant increase. And a lot of gents would be more likely to see you. Then maybe they find out just how amazing you are and perhaps in the future if you raise your rates again they're willing to go along with it.

Typically when a product isn't flying off the shelf in a particular market, the retailer puts it on sale. They don't make as much on an individual sale, but the increased volume more than makes up for it.

You are actually upset about low volume. So increasing volume isn't a problem for you right now. why not lower the donation in raleigh, get the volume you want to be at, and be happy with what you're getting instead of disappointed in what you're not getting.

To be perfectly honest, I've looked at your ads almost every time I'm considering a date. But I always find someone with whom I'm either more confident that I'll have a good time with for the same donation, or who I feel I'll have just as good of a time with for less. For a lesser donation, I would definitely see you.

Maybe try running a Raleigh special during your next few visits and see if business picks up. If everything is as good as you say, you may get a few new regulars.

Again, I'm not saying it's not worth the donation listed on your site. But I, personally, don't want to cough it up to find out considering other options.

Please don't take that all the wrong way. I just wanted to try to provide some constructive feedback.

Timbow717 reads

Yep,1 Hour  $350.00 too high for Raleigh so it is rather simple reduce it to $300 or $280 for a special and I bet she would get business in that city.

There's nothing wrong with you at all. You're very lovely. There are over 200 women advertising on the Internet, just in Raleigh. It's a buyer's market. I think everyone is feeling the pinch. Don't worry though. Times will get better, and you will probably be one of the first to see it. :-)

Look Im not even gonna keep discussing this anymore cause Im about agravated as hell..

Truth is...

YES I am a top provider and YES I havent intrigued ANYONE new... YES I hear about ripoffs ALL THE TIME and YES Im the real deal and YES there IS great providers here in the area (I NEVER SAID THERE WASNT!!!)

You say Im too high for you and the area and I already explained how I lowered my dam rates to fit NC's economy (250 ISNT TOO HIGH FOR NC, NOW IS IT??) I have NO dam problem AT ALL getting what I go for in NYC sweety, and I realize this ISNT NY soo yes I lowered my rates accordinly...

Now I was just venting theres no reason to write a fucken book on how Im NOT as good looking as the rest that you see (sounds like a hater to me)..

You all dont want the real deal, no problem, its YOUR LOSS NOT MINE... Like I said, I do fine back home, and come here for family not work, I just try and fit in some play time to keep myself happy..

Ive gotta admit, someone who writes from an alias (Weltschmerz) gets NO credability in my book.. And should keep their comments to themselves...


Later...


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$250 for an hour is Ok.  Do you have Half hour rates. Just asking.

Weltschmerz623 reads

"over 200 women" aka A LOT of competition.

"It's a buyers market"

And what is one of the main things you do to compete in a buyer's market? --- right, maintain competitive , uhh... donations.

She has a market that, aside from old regulars, is going untapped. You want to move into a new market, you have to make your product/service known, available, and cost competitive with similar products/services.

Again, you can complain about NOT getting $$$.5 (which is the same as getting 0). OR, you can be really happy with getting $$$ or $$.5, which is an infinite percentage more than 0. If you go to $$$ and see 2 of your regulars (and you'd be more likely to see more of your regulars at the reduced donation), plus 1 new friend... that's $$$ x 3. Do the math for yourself and see how much further you come out ahead.


Ever hear the story of the optimist, pessimist, and the realist? goes something like this:
3 people were on a sail boat that was adrift with very little wind in the direction they wanted to go. The optimist said "ahh, it will pick up sooner or later. You guys wanna play rummy?" The pessimist said, "oh no, we're stuck. And we're running out of food. this is it, it's over." The realist got up off their ass and adjusted the sails.

it's really kinda simple. You can change nothing, and hope things pick up or come on here and post about it every so often to let off some steam. Or, you can make some changes and see how it works. If it doesn't work, no harm no foul, 0 is 0. If it does pick up, great.

You can blame it on the recession, you can blame it on the clientele in Raleigh. If you blame something on someone or something else, you give them all of the control and only they have the power to change it, not you. But if you take some ownership of the situation, it's within your grasp to change said situation.

Cary is right, you're a very lovely girl. But I can think of 4-5 local providers off the top of my head who have just as good of reviews, who are just as attractive, and have a lower donation. And that's not to mention the number of ladies who visit Raleigh.

Again, I'm not saying it is "you." I'm saying it seems you're not doing a great job of competing in the Raleigh market (actually, you said that yourself); what I'm adding is that it may be more within your control than you think.

Look Im not even gonna keep discussing this anymore cause Im about agravated as hell..

Truth is...

YES I am a top provider and YES I havent intrigued ANYONE new... YES I hear about ripoffs ALL THE TIME and YES Im the real deal and YES there IS great providers here in the area (I NEVER SAID THERE WASNT!!!)

You say Im too high for you and the area and I already explained how I lowered my dam rates to fit NC's economy (250 ISNT TOO HIGH FOR NC, NOW IS IT??) I have NO dam problem AT ALL getting what I go for in NYC sweety, and I realize this ISNT NY soo yes I lowered my rates accordinly...

Now I was just venting theres no reason to write a fucken book on how Im NOT as good looking as the rest that you see (sounds like a hater to me)..

You all dont want the real deal, no problem, its YOUR LOSS NOT MINE... Like I said, I do fine back home, and come here for family not work, I just try and fit in some play time to keep myself happy..

Ive gotta admit, someone who writes from an alias (Weltschmerz) gets NO credability in my book.. And should keep their comments to themselves...


Later...

Weltschmerz960 reads

let me apologize, I did not see that you had reduced your rates to 250 for Raleigh. In fact, I just went back and read all of your posts in this thread and still do not see where you posted it. I also checked your site, and do not see it there.

I do not read every post on this board. But, I'll be the one to apologize for not knowing you lowered your rates to 250. I obviously missed it at some point.

I would certainly see you at that donation. You may actually be the next provider I see.

as far as my alias goes - i have met providers who have recognized my username on the board (because it's similar to the email address I use for the hobby). That experience was actually very pleasant. But I'm wise enough to know that with a board where there are often disagreements, that positive experience could have easily been negative. Thus, I do not post under my real username anymore. I always use this alias (and only this one) to post, regardless of the topic. And I would hate for something like this to get in the way of you and I having a wonderful time if I were to see you.

Timbow799 reads

I do not see where she said $250 either prior but it is a good move :)

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Alot of hobbyist watch this board and they dont post. They see what goes on, they don't say anything cause they know they will get flamed or put on the local provider blackball list. Hint stay away from whinny, board hoarding providers, most hoobyist avoid them and they are always on the board complaining they have no business. that simple. I will get flamed for this post but I do not care. Check other boards you don't see whinny complaining providers,if you  whine do  it on the provider board.

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