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New to the hobby here and yet to have my first experience. I have selected a provider that interests me, and have sent her 2 contact emails within the past 10 days (about a week between each). My emails were professional, courteous, included my real name and simply stated that I am new and am interested in the screening process so we can meet. I have not hear back. The provider has good reviews, so...Should I follow up with her again or take that as a sign she's not interested and move on?

Thanks

RDU

kinda rude of her to NOT answer you at all, its possible she does not see newbie clients. I would say move on. Im sure you will find someone else that interests you. Good luck in your search and welcome to the "hobby".

AND polite enough to at least answer your email requests!

And count me in that bunch please! ;-)

xoxo,

Steph

Check you're email carefully, address, spam folder and trash. My nerves caused me to get the address wrong. You can't go wrong with the help that has been offered here all ready. ;-)

.... 2 emails there's no way she didn't get at least one of them. Probably pointless to send her a pm or text her or leave a voicemail.  She definitely could have at least answered you but it's been time to move on a long time ago.  Btw newbie friendly (w/ screening of course) and answer email and pm's promptly lol.

I've only been in the hobby since last Fall but I started by seeing providers who were newbie friendly. I'm on P411 so once I got a couple of approvals that helped to open the door for seeing other ladies. But with that being said I have had one provider who has completely ignored several messages - no response at all. And this was after I had the approvals.

So I shared that story to basically say "Don't sweat it".  Try someone else, there are plenty of nice ladies who will work with you.

Good luck, be safe & have fun!

Having good reviews doesn't mean every lady is polite and professional, there are plenty that aren't! She should have at least acknowledged your email, and if she isn't newbie friendly said so. No big deal. I wouldn't waste your time, there are more fish in the sea!

Just a suggestion from a fellow newer hobbyist, due to the anonymous nature of email and the amount that some people get (and types of 'throw away' accounts people use!), many major providers are automatically flagged as spam by major email inbox handlers.  I ran into this with a provider recently and I've been enjoying this hobby for a couple of years now.  I was using a free email service provider called gmx which was getting flagged as spam from gmail and yahoo.  I didn't know until one of my regular providers stopped responding all of a sudden and I sent a text.  After a quick call she confirmed a couple emails ended up in her spam folder.  I switched to outlook and haven't had issues since.  After the switch, I reached out to a provider who had never returned my emails from a few months ago and she immediately set up a date.  After our time together, she admitted to never seeing the original emails and figured the same thing had happened.  Maybe try a different email service if you're striking out with multiple providers?  

Anyway, just a suggestion, hope it helps and good luck!  

~M
 

Posted By: rduanon
New to the hobby here and yet to have my first experience. I have selected a provider that interests me, and have sent her 2 contact emails within the past 10 days (about a week between each). My emails were professional, courteous, included my real name and simply stated that I am new and am interested in the screening process so we can meet. I have not hear back. The provider has good reviews, so...Should I follow up with her again or take that as a sign she's not interested and move on?  
   
 Thanks  
   
 RDU

First, a big thanks to everybody who responded. I appreciate your feedback. I had not thought to check in the spam folder, so after reading the responses, I checked. Sadly, there was no reply from the provider in my spam folder either. I guess I'll continue to play the field. Thanks again folks!

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