The simple answer is providers lie about their weight and age to get more business. The complex answer is that there are a multitude of body types in this business and you can not accurately gauge what someone will look like based on their weight. Every woman is built differently, she could be 15 pounds overweight but she has huge breasts, a small waist and large hips. If that woman posts her real weight everyone will assume she's unattractive and fat even though she's not so that woman may fib about her weight a little bit. I don't really think 15 pounds is that big of a deal unless you are looking for someone with not an ounce of fat on them. Or she may actually be the weight she was listed as but carries her weight differently. We all have different shapes and body sizes and weight is pretty much an arbitrary number unless it's 30 or more pounds over. Anyone who has served in the military and had to deal with weigh ins and tapings should have a good idea of what I'm talking about.
Seems like most ads aren't factual about weight. Most times is says 125 count on 140 plus. Not everything can be doctored on photos. I am very weight concious with the type of woman I like to see. Why do escorts and agencys have to lie about weight? It is very apparent when meeting the lady. If an agency I am hesitant using them again. If an indy I will pass on a repeat. Maybe it is just me and everyone else is ok with the deception..
and I mean no disrespect but 2 things I lady will not be forthcoming with is age and weight. Not saying all will fib but in general many will ummmmmm doctor it a hair. So if she says 125 and looks 140, I aint leaving. lol
I totally agree Roadshow2! Plus, if someone is so obsessed with the numbers (weight, height or age), they are totally overlooking the real person and possibly missing the opportunity of creating that connection that leads to the creation of an ATF, or at least a memorable experience.
Play safe and enjoy!
Roidblob
I dont mind a few extra pounds/ Lets face it a, lot of us arent exactly svelte.
Nothing wrong with it unless you were expecting less
All women lie about their weight, eventually. Most men cannot visualize what the actual weight looks like on a woman. It's just human nature. How can you tell she lied? Do you put her on a scale? When you expect a slender woman, you get a slightly pudgy woman, or do you get a full-fledged BBW? Mind you, 140 is NOT a BBW, even if she is only 5 feet tall. Your being bothered by that is how I feel when I see a C cup woman advertising that she is super busty, just so she can be in the category that has the least number of women in it. Then again, maybe she's delusional. Maybe that's it?
To give a constructive answer, have you tried telling the agency that you will never call again if they send you someone who does not exactly match your desire? If she's an indy, do you go into great detail about how important it is to you that she be a certain weight? And last, do you turn around and leave when the lady is not the same as her description? That seems to be the advice most men each other, from my reading the boards. If you like a woman whose body is near anorexic, be sure to say so. I wouldn't look twice at one, but then, I don't go muff diving either
........your other points I thoroughly agree with. BBW range is a diverse one imo (smaller/"small" bbw, average/or "full-fledge" bbw, SSBBW etc).
I don't know. When I weighed 140, I was horrified and felt like a big blob. LOL I can't imagine being that idiotic now. I had a little tiny bit of tummy, perky little breasts, a waist that was 12 inches smaller than my hips, hair down to my butt cheeks, and beautiful legs. Men looked at me everywhere I went, but I never realized it until it was too late. My husband said I was fat. I should have slapped him and struck out on my own. No way is 140 close to being a BBW. I was a size 12, for heavens sake! If I could weight that again, I'd be as happy as a pig in a peach orchard. BBW begins at size 18, but that's my opinion too.
No, they start at size 18, and rarely, a 16. However, my daughter says that stores for young women have now begun to place sizes 12 and 14 in the plus size section. That is a sad comment on the body image young women have of themselves, especially considering that the average American woman is a size 14. I wear a petite size because I am short. Petite sizes only go up to 14, and sometimes 16. I try on Jones New York, or almost any nice business clothing, and the arms are so long they hang 2 or 3 inches below my fingertips. A skirt goes to mid calf instead of just at or above the knee. I feel like a plump munchkin.
From my perspective, BBW is more about the proportional measurements of bust to waist to hips, including height and weight considerations. Dress size has little to do with it. And, would be hard to consider someone who wears petite sizes a BBW.
I guess I like a woman with curves and both of you have very good curves indeed.
And, no, Cary, you are not a plump munchkin, but a beautiful fun-sized woman with curves.
Thank you!! Hope you're doing well these days, sexy man!
......as their smallest size and I shop everywhere online and in-store (though much more online as it's less of a headache).
I've always been around a 14, 15/16 (15/16 or 16 usually).
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Where do you usually shop? I didn't mean for this to be a pissing contest over what sizes stores designate as plus size. As I said, I think it depends upon the store, and the agea of the people to whom it markets its clothing. You can start as low as Target and Walmart and work your way up. All of them begin the plus size sections with 18, sometimes 16/18. A 1X is usually an 18/20, but sometimes 16/18. Misses sizes end at 14/16. Juniors end at 11/13, and plus size juniors are higher.
I had a plus size stepdaughter, so that's how I know. The average plus size woman is a size 18. That rack is almost always sold out first. I still think it's sad that although the average size of the American woman is a 14, many of us are intent upon doing whatever it takes to be a size 0.
I was that size, at my smallest, but only because I had a very physically demanding job. I wasn't my prettiest then though. My face was too gaunt.
I've always been around a 14, 15/16 (15/16 or 16 usually).
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The simple answer is providers lie about their weight and age to get more business. The complex answer is that there are a multitude of body types in this business and you can not accurately gauge what someone will look like based on their weight. Every woman is built differently, she could be 15 pounds overweight but she has huge breasts, a small waist and large hips. If that woman posts her real weight everyone will assume she's unattractive and fat even though she's not so that woman may fib about her weight a little bit. I don't really think 15 pounds is that big of a deal unless you are looking for someone with not an ounce of fat on them. Or she may actually be the weight she was listed as but carries her weight differently. We all have different shapes and body sizes and weight is pretty much an arbitrary number unless it's 30 or more pounds over. Anyone who has served in the military and had to deal with weigh ins and tapings should have a good idea of what I'm talking about.
Oh wow, the old Fat Boy Program lol. And that brings to mind muscle is heavier than fat, so the weight might actually be higher than she appears.
i gained 10 lbs when i quit smoking im 133 lbs I would prefer to be 120 but it is what it is a long as my pics portray me as i am i dont care what anyone thinks. ive always said theres an ass for every seat applies here as well.
just be honest.
holla out to my gal pal Steph! luv ya girlie!
xo
Nic
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I agree some people cary weight better than others. However show acurate and up to dat photos and a true size. Let the buyer make their decision on good infos. Cuts down on the dissapointment and bad feelings.Haven't seen you is a while Julia.
And you are such a good photographer! When are you coming to NC?
xoxo,
Steph
I weigh a lot MORE than I look. So I hesitate to put my weight at all. My kids are the same way. Solid. When they were little someone would go to pick them up thinking they were little nothings and go UGH! oh my gosh this kid is heavy! We are just built solid that way. Now I am soft but not flabby. I have curves but I am not BBW by any means. But I'm also not model thin. I'm just average; not fat, not skinny. My thighs are a little bit thicker than I would like them to be but even they are not fat. But I don't hide those in my picture either. You get what you get. LOL.... If I were going to Photoshop the quality of my body would be a whole lot better. You see everything, even scarring.
I am 51 and state so in my ad. I've been accused of lying about that saying I look much younger. That's the most asinine thing I've ever heard. What woman makes himself older?
Just look at my picture. If you like what you see call me if you don't, don't call me. But my actual age and weight can be contradictive to what you see in the picture. Of course that is a matter of opinion also.