and I understand she wants to be safe but she wants way too much info.  I mean if you can provide credible references and date-check etc, then why all the need for other.  She needs to send me her address, drivers license, work number, etc. also.  Not to mention she's located in Norlina.  Really?  you want us to expose ourselves to that kind of scrutiny and then drive an hour to hour and a half one way to visit.  Ain't going to happen.