I am a lurker, occasional hobbyist, with a question.  What kind of jobs do most of the men who hobby have that makes them feel safe giving information on email?  Email is always recovarable, and if there is an agency arrest, all the computers are seized.  If the whole point of this is discretion, why do so many ladies and agency's require clients use the most indiscrete method of screening?  I have a job where I am not well known; however, if there was a scandal it would be news, and I imagine most people making six figures are in similar jobs.