Question for the girls:

I should have you explain that to my wife. I don't think she would believe me if I told her that.

But you being married is just A-OK with me!

xoxo,

Steph

I'm not married ... been there, done that ... This way of life is much, MUCH better AND sleeping in the middle of the bed is one of lifes little pleasures.

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret

and as much as I enjoy having you as a pleasure in my life, and I am very glad that you have someone you must go home to.    LOL  
   
 Seriously, though, I see myself as someone who helps your marriage instead of hindering it, and that makes me very happy!  
   
 

.... a lot of married men do that and for some it's might be they don't want to lose it but a lot think we'll be bothered if we see the ring. Lol....I can see your "ring band tan" (is what I think). I might even prefer he be married (gonna make a low guesstimate that at least 50% area) since he won't or shouldn't have too much time incessantly email. pm or text haha (I kid .... kinda). But yeah uh nope wouldn't bother if he was married because I don't ever plan to push P4P boundaries and definitely won't think less of him for "hanging out" with me.

So that's why they don't text me back .....
But she said she "liked me" LOL

We'd be in big trouble if it were an issue.  

I spent thirty plus years not being able to wear one because of work and then caught it on a stair rail. So no ring this year. In my first p4p I got robbed so I probably won't wear it UN less I am comfortable. M 2¢

Maybe it should bother me.... but it doesn't! I prefer it when our time is over, the warden calls you back.
I have had enough issues with men turning stalker-razzi on me- that the wife is like an insurance policy against that issue. (not saying it always works, but it USUALLY does.)

.... with text companion lol.

Yup ... some confuse kindness for weakness. Others confuse kindness for love.I get it and have seen it from a client's eye ... just because I give the small gifts (who does not like to get a gift?) and tip in cash. does not mean I'm "falling for you"... it just means I'm not an asshole I get the P4P concept and I like it. I'm not here to fall in love LOL I'm just here to "fall in". I had a young (stay away from the young ones) provider (21) start to cry because I bought her flowers for a 1.5 hour session. The owner of the agency told me she was "new" to the business and I figured a little kindness was in order. I got stood up for my next appointment with her so it must have worked LOL At least I don't have to worry about her falling in love with me.

Not at all!!!  I expect most of my friends are married and actually prefer it!  It makes me feel more comfortable that someone will be less likely to cause me issues.  Besides I am married too!  I welcome when guys share this info with me.  I am a very open person an love to help give advice or just offer a listening ear when my friends want to talk about certain happenings or aspects of their marriage.  No worries my friend!  My husband and I don't believe monogamy is healthy or natural and I feel many more marriages would be happier and healthier if more shared this view.  I think you will find most providers share in this ideology.   I always tell my friends that they can feel comfortable sharing as little or as much as they like with me and have confidence that they will not be judged.  

I completely agree with Julia!  I feel that I help marriages instead of hinder!  Several of my friends have told me that after we hang out they have a sexual energy that follows them home and thus they start having many more hot encounters with their wives so everyone is happier!  I find this true for myself too!  Once I started seeing friends more often I found I was turned on much more of the time!  Some of my friends would ask- don't you get tired of it?  Heck no!  I want it even more the more I get it!