Ok guys....get some balls and speak up. In the past few months I have noticed an increase of men looking for BBFS. I just would like to ask....why in the HELL would any man want to go BB?? Granted most of us women are probably MORE safety cautious then a women you may pick up at a bar....why take that chance?? AND if you do find a provider willing to do BB...why would YOU stick your penis in that! If she's doing it with you...she's doing it with every other hobbyist.

Is having BB sex become so important to men that it has taken over the importance of their health....their life?? Or the life of their SO??

To me, BBFS is like playing Russian roulette with one empty chamber. If I'm with a lady and she tries to get me to do it, I'm probably getting dressed and out the door rikki tik! Too much nasty stuff floating around for me to chance it.

I would like to know why a successful intelligent man would even consider it. Maybe denial.

Maybe some of the more "macho" men have the attitude that "it'll never happen to me, I'm too careful." Or, "I only pick clean, safe girls. I trust them." Famous last words.

This is real close to breaking one of the BIG rules.  Not mine, mind you, but the folks that have lots at stake, and find this topic troublesome.

We're good right now, but PLEASE be careful.  Thanks

Thanks for looking out Phil

I tried to be sure and not break the big rules lol. Hopefully others will do the same. Kisses

matter in the hobby these days. Don't know any other way to make it less troublesome than taking about it, but, like you say, rules are rules.

You walk the line. I like you!

Its just not worth it. I like the cover.  If I ever come across a provider that offers this,  I would immediately stop seeing that provider.

there was actually sometime ago a provider from fla that came to raleigh and was here for about three days and she offered BBFS for a staggering amt it literrally blew my mind that a provider would actually post for that. i went to her website and she even went so far as to even explain what method of BC she used.

And you hun are a HOTTIE! I just looked at your page for the first line WOO HOO!

And yes I walk the line..too many people take this "hobby" so seriously...want to bash everyone..and have to live on drama..if you can't have fun with this..or take things tounge in cheek...shouldnt be in it. EVERYONE should be having FUN! I know I am!

Now..back to the topic..also I was just thinking...why would the providers WANT to offer this themselves?? Do they not have enough feeling for themselves then to risk someone taking their life from them? As much as we pretend we all know each other..or how close close you feel to someone in the moment..none of us truly KNOW each other in this hobby. You never trust anyone..and you never get hurt. Period

I guess I am lucky. Have avoided drama, don't bash and if I have been bashed I dont't know it.

The truth is you find sometimes even the people you know that aren't in this hobby will surprise you, you don't really know them either.

Always play safe. Always for us!

there are desperate providers needing money in this recession, and will do anything to get a leg up.
I KNOW for a fact many skanks do it here in Atlanta. So then the rest of us get expected to do it...

Unfortunately, this is not something that's new.... nor is it confined to just one area of the country.... It's happening all over the place....

There is a demand/interest and there is a supply to accommodate.  And no amount of discussion, chastising, criticism or judgement is going to change that.

Providers and hobbyists (me included)"gamble" and take risks every time we "participate" with another... The hobby in itself is one big risk but we still engage in it - safely and discretely for most of us, but nonetheless, we still engage.

I don't condone the "bare" thing but I'm not naive enough to realize that it does not happen or that I may not be approached at some point regarding my interest to engage in it with someone I either don't know or barely know.  Yes, I've been approached on a number of occassions - by providers and by dancers in VIP.  For some, when the opportunity of $$$ is staring them in the face...... a lady (as well as the gent) may take the risk with someone they think is "safe".

I also don't judge those who engage in this activity as well.... It's a personal decision between 2 supposedly consenting adults.  Right or wrong... that's between them.  Just because I don't do it, I'm not the one to say what's right, wrong, good, bad, safe, unsafe for someone else...

I'm still a hobbyists - just the same.... And my concern is about me and the particular lady(ies) I want to spend time with.

I know it goes beyond that... but that's something I have absolutely no control over - so, I don't worry about it.  Too much other s#!% to think about.

Providers like you and the others I've met and spent time with or simply become acquainted with just need to be aware (if you haven't been until this point) that there is the likelihood that you will be approached. Don't be surprised, simply be prepared to respond accordingly and move on.

Z

for some unfathomable reason some people are more
of a risk-taker than others.  Think Bill Clinton and Monica Lewisky, John Kerry and Donna Rice, John Edwards and Rielle Hunter, Steve McNair and Sahel Kazemi, etc.  Men with a whole lot to lose.  I learned early on know what limits you are willing to take and take the responsibility for your health and safety and others, because as the saying goes ".. behind closed doors...".

love and fortune favors the bold

the sun can be a real bitch. Be careful out there.