its a shame that not one person can step up to the plate and make a recommendation on someone they have seen in charlotte so i wont waste my time and money. I asked for and got no responses.

When I can't get a reply, I go to the search method. A search of provider reviews in the 704 area code will yield you  a good selection.

I've never been to Charlotte, but I HIGHLY recommend one who works there. I met her when she came to Columbia.
Check her out and my review of her: http://www.brianaofnc.com/

You should give Kapri a call.