My son is about 25 and appears to me to be quite naive and shy about girls. Had a couple girl friends over the past few years, one of which was an unsuccessful long distance romance (big surprise!) My impression is that they were mostly platonic relationships. I know that when I was late teens early twenties that I knew nada about sex as a shared experience and pleasuring a woman as opposed to a pick up. Had to learn it on my own as most of us have. I think back now how valuable it would have been to have had an older, experienced woman show me the ropes on how to please a woman and get a return invitation with a gold star from my next date with a non-provider.
Here's the thought that keeps running around in my head. Should I find an appropriate provider and make him a gift of a couple sessions, with the provider being in on the instructional requirement? He's a good looking, 6' 2", 220 lb., very bright 25 y.o. with a great heart but his confidence and self esteem could be higher. The money from me's not a problem, but if I tried to arrange it anonymously, he'd almost certainly figure out it was me because he doesn't have friends that would give him those kind of presents! I've even though about talking with him about it and getting his reaction.
Am I totally out of my mind? Has anybody done this?
I agree that young men are really bad at sex and would be well-served by having a good sex teacher.
But, it doesn't sound like you have a close and open enough relationship with your son to surprise him in this way. You could probably drop hints that seeing a hooker isn't such a big deal.
Maybe you could pay a provider to "accidentally meet" him at some place you know he frequents, even if it's just a restaurant. She could "pick him up" and take it from there. Then, he doesn't have to know it was a gift.
Jack Nicholson tried to do this for Morgan Freeman in 'The Bucket List."
While I'm not ashamed to admit o I've given some really hard core advice to young people I would draw a line at doing something like this with you're own son. And this is coming from a fella who recently advised a high school kid that helps me part time with my buisness that his "first time" doesn't need to be with a girl he cares about. Told him to find some chick with a bad reputation and get some practice then dump her that way he wouldn't fall in love with his first piece of ass and regret it later. Not exactly some mister Rogers shit but served me well as a young fella. Don't do it dude!!!!!
Although I find myself agreeing with the commenters who say "don't do it." I find myself wondering what I would have thought about it if my father had done it for me, at say, age 21
I can just remember myself at that age with lack of experience and lack of sexual confidence. There have been a bunch of movies about older women taking younger, inexperienced lovers to teach them, but that's moves. Another poster is absolutely right that it takes time (and getting burned a few times) to differentiate between love and lust-induced infatuation.
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