This is related to a thread below: why is a 60 year old guy who favors young ladies 18-26 creepy. I remember a story....she's young enough to be your daughter/yea, but she isn't. I have no trouble "making a connection" as some say. WHY is it creepy?

and didn't want to step on any toes so I decided not to comment on the thread. The guy I'm dating in my personal life is 60 years old and I am 23 years old. I find him extremely sexy. To me, age is just a number.  This hobby is about living out your fantasies. If Birdluvr wants to see an 18 year old , he should. She is of age. In America, once you're 18 you're an adult. There is nothing wrong with sex between two consenting adults. However, if the girl doesn't want to see him, there should be no fuss. Her body, her rules.

agree, thats what 51% of this hobby is all about. Fantasy! Being able to meet and greet people that you would never really get a chance to in real life.

Thank you all for your common sense approach to this matter)
This is a HOBBY/FANTASY board and has no relationship to a church/state sanctioned relationship between a guy of my age, or a guy of any age, and a younger lady.
That post was done TONGUE IN CHEEK for crying out loud---the lil lady in question, as I clearly stated, has her likes, and no harm done, other than to regret that I am outside her age range and will never have the pleasure of her company. Yes, her body, her rules, I have NEVER violated that rule with any lady that I have seen, 18 or 45 years of age)
Yup! I'm kinda, sorta "creepy" having helped 2 lil ladies get through college, pay for surgery that one needed, fixed a wrecked vehicle so one could get to work, helped one with mortgage who was about to be evicted, gave another support when she was leaving the profession for a straight job and had no food/diapers for her baby until she got a regular pay check--AND left it up to them to pay me back, or not. I never demanded anything that they did not want to do. Some attempted that, and some took the support and ran, and I didn't care too much, hurt, yup, but they probably were not able to really come up with the payment. I was happy with the memories they provided me with as payment)
All these lil ladies were way below my age.
O, in case some of the nay sayers didn't know it---we are sending 18 year old lil girls to war now, soooooooooo if they are old enough to get maimed and killed, they(18 y/o's) are old enough to enjoy the company of mature guys who really appreciate their company.
HOWEVER, I have given up on 18 year olds, as I just had the PLEASURE of the company of a much older lady this afternoon---19 and soon to be 20 this month----ROTHFLMAO!!! Review to be submitted this weekend, as she wishes, since she is brand new to this HOBBY and is very happy to have the company of creepy older guys like me who treats her like the treasure she is!!!
Dance with a lady of whatever age you enjoy and, in turn, looks at you with loving eyes that are blind to YOUR age)

at the "much older" 19 year old lady. Good one. Glad you had fun!

19...not too old for me

... about "she's young enough to be your daughter" (in some cases granddaughter). Is the only reason I could think of why some would find it creepy. I've always been comfortable in the company of those much older than I so ... not a big deal to me.

Re: I am guessing he probably ain't poor. EOM

Hello Tim,

You're right my bf is not poor BUT he'll tell you that I have never ever asked him for a dime. If that were the case, I wouldn't be here. He has already tried to pay me to leave the business. We enjoy each other's company. He is very good looking man. He looks better than most guys in their 30s and 40s.  I haven't dated a guy my age or close to it since high school. Yes money is great but it's not everything.

XO,
Kera

I don' t like to put specific ages on here  but if you put yourself out there and someone comments back their personal opinion and is not on your side don't get upset and drag it on!  Were all different!

I also don't like when all the facts are not stated as the original post sounded like it was someone in their 40's trying to see an 18 yr old.   I think 18 y/o's are too young and an over 50 yr age difference seeing an 18 y/o is strange.  Please note I did not say 20 y/o.  That's my opinion.  It is about the fantasy and 18 is the legal age.  Pedophillia can also be argued a fantasy  ( I didn't call anybody a pedophile, so don't get your panties in a twist) but I believe that answers your question of WHY many people on that post found it creepy. If I had a 16 y/o daugther I would have to worry.  

This was put out there and I received many PM's and emails from providers and hobbyist.  I would have kept this one to yourself.  Also the original post had no age range like your adding (18-26) and the guy was older than 60.  The post was about an 18 y/o who does not see over 40+ Gentlemen.  The age of 18 is the problem for me not the "old enough to be her Grandpa part".  I'm in my late 20's and have seen men in their 70's.  Some people would say thats creepy.   I don't see any 18 yr olds chiming in as they probably don't know they even have reviews on a thing called TER but I would like to see a comment from an actual 18 year old provider.  CC

Well CC you're HOT!!!!

Goodness I KNOW that is not really the topic but I am a really an out of the box
kinda guy! Plus I never miss a chance to deliver a sincere compliment do a
deservin person. That's Hot!(Paris Hilton reference)

My hobby life started out with gorgeous, sexy woman who was a little older than me. Oh what a great experience that was. Since then what great time! Consider myself the luckiest guy in the world because of the great women I have been able to spend with.

I started out with a older thingy and then tried a little younger, same age yada yada yada.

I am kind of a middle of the road guy but stay there with flexibility. Having said that what is right for me might not be for someone else. Well try that for awhile!!!!!!!!  LOL

Murder, rape, genocide, use of chemical weapons.......ya feeling me?

What I mean is I got an open mind and love freely, Hey The Dude Abides!

Howeva....Steven A Smith reference....down right creepy is just down right creepy.

I am mentoned a few times I am one of those recovering people. Be 29 years in May if I do not drink or drug or die. I went through a kind of metaphysical love the universe and accept whatever stage for awhile. As I get older I find I get more conservative as I hear most folks do.

Well that happens cause being out there and having experiences that make you think twice about that line of thinking happens.

In the 12 Step movement that helped me sober up and still does we have a 5th step. I am not breaking anybodies anonymity cause using no names. Anyway, with this all loving acceptance thingy  had a going I accepted to hear a guy's 5th step. That means he wrotes down all the terrible crap he did and tells someone. So I am ready and willing to say, "Hey that is ok, I did that too, no need to bother yourself about that anymore". Then dude blurts out he banged a chicken! LOL I was almost ready to blurt out, "hey no sweat we all did that"! OPPS!

My point is I am getting at is there is a kink I guess is a way of saying it, you know like a woman dressed up like a chicken, BUT NOT A REAL CHICKEN!

So there is fantasy and then there is just creepy! Now I am over 50, just  LITTLE so it is getting harder to have that older thingy! 18 just for me is just too young, creepy. I just have so little in common with anyone that age.

Now I know there is a great gal around that is 18, think maybe she turned 19 by now. From what I have seen she is very mature for her age so sometimes there are exceptions.

Part of what I really like is not just the hot sex, hell yes I love having my eyes roll backwards and my toes curling! I also love stimulating conversaton like wasn't MASH a great show! Ok a gal a little younger, Married with Children Rocked, right? What am I gonna say to an 18 year old gal? Really?
Suck it, just don't seem right.

So anyway, there is my opinion. Also flipping stuff is always interesting when trying to prove a point. I promise you Carson you would have a whole lot better time with me than wih an 18 year old boy! He hasn't studied for years and knows who the hell Dr Grafenburg is! Sure he can do things I can't anymore but I know things he doesn't even know he don't know yet!!!!!!!!!

Till next time sports fans,

I Concur with myself AGAIN!

Shifterp OUT

That everyone else has.  Someone got the last copy, damnit.  Rules suck, so I loose them as often as I can.  What a circus this thread is ....... and great fun too.  Shifterp!  I keep coming back ...... cause I don't wanna miss shit.  Imagine ...... us .... judging the likes of us.  Ain't life funny when one looks in the mirror and sees the same thing that bothers them in someone else?

Yup! Rules suck and I say screw whoever ya want as long as they're of age.

This bs about what does a 70 year old see in a 18 year old is funny as all get out. This is TER not chemistry.com. I doubt the guys here are looking for a wife. I'm going to have my hot cocoa now. Happy Sunday.

XO

I guess I'm creepy too. I enjoy men that are old enough to be my father. FML!

How is it creepy for a 60-70 y/o gent to have the desire for a young woman with a tight body one more time (100x) before they throw in him in the hole and shovel the dirt in.

If your catcher's mit is getting worn out as you age and continue to get it pounded on that's your problem.

Anybody playing in this game and pointing the finger at another for anything is a joke !

Well said. The last time I checked this was a heaux board. You pay for play - If I were a older guy I'd probably want to fuck some young thing too. Life is too short.

you might be surprised

Some values can't be compromised and I would tip my hat to her ......... otherwise I would bend her over the toilet and bounce her head off the tile while laughing my 68 year old ass off.

When the two hotties that darted into the parking space in front of the older lady trying to negotiate the turn were asked to move, they said "We're just faster than you Granny."  After the the older lady backed up and plowed their sports car through that parking space and into the one they could have pulled into (in front of it) Granny got out of the car and told them, "I just have more insurance than you".

Money talks and the BS walks!

I love the way you think, Woman!!  And look for that matter.  Have a wonderful weekend, or what's left.

OK, I started this and have a lot of fun reading your thoughts and I really want to meetyoukera (REALLY)....I don't search for 18 or inexperienced, but I've had more luck/fun/great times/chemistry etc. with younger ladies. I simply prefer under 30 ( really don't mind 28 yr olds) than over. I totally accept the ladies' rights to choose who to see. I don't think my being with a 21 yr old is creepy. If she does, she shouldn't see me......but, if she doesn't, I'm on my way to her. No different than preferring thin to BBQ.

Even though I do like it saucy.

Off to a first time visit with a lady who lists her age as 20 and will not see anyone under 35....makes sense to me: ole guys are p4p.....under 35 are boyfriend possibilities.

Haha made you look, or maybe that is made you read!!!!!!!

I am recovering(alcohol and drugs), a libertarian, a diest and a preachers kid. I have pretty much felt like an outsider looking in my whole life. Doing that I have for as long as I can remember always tried to look at both sides of everything.

I have even to the point of being silly kept trying to do this. Seeing a situation SO clear and STILL trying to see the other side. When I was a little baby according to my mother I did not smile much and they called me, "judge". Maybe some of it stuck!

I am not sure about you Steveiair but I judge myself on pretty much a moment by moment basis. Yes I am my favorite subject as is everyone else it is just I know it and honestly admit it. Recovering people are known to some as egomaniacs with an inferiority complex! I Concur! You do the math.

Playing the middle, even if you are not trying to play them against each other is TOUGH! If you think about it like a foot on two skateboards going in opposite directions. If you play it out you get stretched out and fall off both skateboards.

The meaning in that story is AT SOME POINT one has to take a stand. You know stand for something or you will fall for anything!

Now having said that I am reminded on The Dude. Really been thinking alot about him recently, man. He said something like, it is like uh, you know just your opinion, man!

Everything I say, write, sign and shout, whateva, is just ME. Not for anyone else to follow or not, agree with or not, like or not. Just throwing it out there.

So for me I am talking a stand! That will have some love ya and some not. Remember Belushi in Animal House, Bluto........"It just doesn't matter, it just doesn't matter, it just doesn't matter"!

So for now in my life I am taking a few stands where before I always tried to get to the safety of the middle of everything! This kind of thing is what I am noticing as I get a little older, that is relative, right, to some I am already down right ancient!!!!!!!!

I will sign off with a quote from The Stranger(The Big Lebowski), "I guess that's the way the whole durned human comedy keeps perpetuatin' itself!!!!!!!!!!!"

Well put, well said Stranger!

The Dude Abides!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

Judging myself is a continuous requirement #10, judging others.....there in lies the joke.  Quite arrogant wouldn't you think?

There is a fine line of distinction Steve. My opinion, could be wrong, might be right, but mine and only mine.

What behavior I find objectionable is for me to a point.

I find for me wanting to spend some quality with an 18 year old doesn't work. For me.

That does not mean if another fella wants that he ought not. That decision is all his as is the benefit and consequences, if either show up.

I just find for me there is nothing more sensual and erotic and hot and sexy than a women who has had some life experience and is blooming into all she will be. I find MOSTLY women with more experience are more setled in their own mind who they are and I find that very appealing.

That does not mean there are not exceptions. I know there are. I just do not want to take the chance I am going to end up donating to a giggly little girl instead of a experienced siren!

I know if we turn things around a woman would have had a much better time with me at 38 than 18.

One concept I have heard about is live and let live. I see that in drinking and drugging too. For me I have given up my right to chemical peace of mind. I can't do it, what it does to my life makes it not worth it plain and simple. On the other hand I could care less if people that can handle it have a drink or a bunch of them, a mushroom or a whole cow pasture full. I can't maybe they can and to be frank, I really got other stuff more important to me that trying to figure that out for them.

Now being there to do what I can if ever asked, will do. Someone did that for me, actually a whole bunch of folks through the years.

Yeah, ten, continued to take a personal inventory and when I am wrong prompltly admitting it. I think what the Big Dude in the sky was getting at thru Bill and Dr Bob is if I am busy taking my own inventory my mind is occupied with that and leaves no room to be checking out what the other fellas and gals are up to and why.( still get a kick out of one being a proctologist and the other bascially an a-hole) Now there is a joke Steve don't ya think?

I said earlier there is an objection to a point. That point is a societal agreement among the adults in a culture what they will permit and what they won't. In other words any dude can bang an 18 year old but not 17 unless you marry them first in Wild and Wonderful West Virginia first! (joke W Va folks please do not take that personal.) Think you can do that in SC too!

Anyway, I endorse nor oppose any controversies. Know that just for me I will leave the very young to others who want to enjoy their time and companionship. I just prefer my women like I might if I could still drink wine, aging towards their feminine perfection. Thinking of some of the beautiful wonderful women I have been so exceptionally lucky to have shared intimate time with I am succeding in a glorious fashion if I do say my own bad-ass self!

And that is a fact jack!

So that sound more like the egomaniac that resides in me or the dude with the inferiority complex? Hard to keep up with myself sometimes!

I Concur as usual! Why wouldn't I it is my opinion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  hehe

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!