Let's say I hung aroynd here for a while with no travels. If you only see reviews on a lady from a fewbmontgs ago, do you still see her?

How many gents are steering clear of reviews?

PReferred by me not to, however once in a while may keep a client's trust that I havent gained 50 lbs lol

I'd still see a lady who hasn't been reviewed in several months. That alone isn't a deal breaker for me. As far as writing reviews, I've been steering clear, for the most part, over the past year. Somehow, I've lost interest in doing them. Over the years, I've found that some of the most accurate information comes from PM other fellow hobbyists anyway.

R

Ruud, how you been my friend?

I over the years have found even though I have 40 reviews, pitiful few for some, more than others.......I have found when
I run across a gal that just knocks my socks off, spins my head, hardens the other one, makes me weak in the knees, makes me goofy.......

I find I then tend to see that one gal over and over and over till they move, die or decides they do not like my company anymore.

So it isn't that I m not hobbying, do when I can but writing 10 or 20 or 80 reviews of the same gal just kinda seems pointless.

Anyway, good to hear from you Ruud, been awhile.

Take care.

Shifterp back to the present!  Oh I usually read the reviews and wait for a few so I can see a pattern when deciding to go and visit and spend some quality time with a woman I have not experienced before. That plan in a word.....WINNING!!!!!!!!! Oh yeah being able to get to be friends with the good guys when you run into one here helps too. When you run across a good dude with character and integrity then you can share notes and go off their recommendations. Just got to be careful cause there are many more terds than good dudes. Just like there are lots a gals to avoid and some really great awesome incredible ones.

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Just not my thing.  It's got nothing to do with being in the Carolinas, though.  Just never been much of a kiss and tell kind of guy, even in this game  I understand fully that it is the purpose of this site, that guys depend on them and many ladies want (or need) them, so I try to oblige when asked.  Though, I much prefer to use back channel to inquire or answer discretely.  And, as was pointed out by Shift, when you see the same lady that you like and connect with, over and over, how many reviews can you write?  By assuming the same for ladies seeing regulars, one wouldn't be surprised at a couple months with no new reviews.

So, to answer your question, no, it really doesn't bother me if a lady's last review was a few months ago, unless there are other concerning circumstances.  Asking around discretely, usually clears that up one way or the other.

When TER keeps kicking back the reviews you wrote.  Picky picky.

I've never written reviews much.  I did when I first entered the hobby 5 or so years ago, but I quickly stopped.  Most of those I choose to see are well reviewed.  I wouldn't be adding anything except an update confirming the other reviews.  I did write reviews initially, but since them I've only written reviews when I saw someone who only had a handful of reviews total, or one or two situations where I thought I was adding some additional insight.

Not writing reviews for me had nothing to do with anything legal, and I'm still not really concerned about reviews in that regard for various reasons.  So I'd be comfortable writing a review if I saw someone who didn't have any for a couple of months just to say "saw her recently and she still looks like her photos, and I had a great time".  I just didn't do that before because other people were.  Or I'd do it if I were asked to write a review by the girl herself.

 
As for reviews and their impact on whether or not I see someone ---  Reviews give me an idea of what to expect in regard to both appearance, performance, and personality.

If someone has a lot of reviews, and then suddenly none for a while, I wonder if they took time away.  I can usually sort of figure out if that's likely or not by searching ad postings, schedules, etc.  And I have a good handle on which ladies are active in the area, whether they're mostly local, travel here frequently, travel here once in a while, or haven't really been here before.  Even if I'm not really interested in seeing them, I know who they are.  And I know who is around and available even if I'm not looking to see anyone for a while.  So it usually doesn't take much effort to figure out if she has been active and just doesn't have a recent review compared to having not been active for some time.

Depending on the length of time, I may worry about how accurate the photos are.  But if she has a gallery with dated albums and it's clear that there is an album from that ("reviewless") time frame, I can use the old reviews to some extent.   If the older reviews suggest that the older photos are the girl and are a good representation, I can sort of go from "Ok, she is the girl in the old photos and they were a good representation of her.  And these new photos appear to be that same person in the old photos... OK, I'm fairly confident I know what I'm getting physically (whether there is change or not to her figure/weight)".

The other thing that can change over time is performance.  If all of the old reviews are very good, not having a review in the past couple of months won't sway me much as long as I can confirm appearance like I mentioned above.  If they had hit and miss reviews, I'd probably wait for a review to pop up before moving any further.

If I'm interested based on past reviews and photos but she doesn't have recent photos posted, then I'm a little skeptical.   In that situation, I may contact her and ask if she has current photos.  I've done this and have gotten "in the gallery on my site" (which were photos that I knew were old) and I've also been sent some photos.  Not having any won't 100% rule it out, but providing some photos goes A LONG way.  Even if she just snapped a couple with her cell phone and sent them via email.  They don't need to be provocative or anything.  I just want to have an idea of what her figure looks like and how it compares to the older photos.

So my suggestion would be post updated photos regularly and date the albums.  They don't always need to be professional.  I think I speak for many when I say that we often prefer regular photos because that's more of what we'll get (no air brushing, unnatural lighting which makes the photo look great but isn't realistic, etc.).  Don't get me wrong, I love a good professional set as well.  But the intent is more to say "hey, this is how I look these days".   And if I know you regularly update your photos, a lack of recent reviews is not a big deal if the recent pics are good and the older reviews are good.

I've been doing great, my friend. Playing hard and staying safe Hope you're doing well. Sent you a PM

R

No reviews, no vip!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  LOL

[email protected] works

SP back to the present!

especially in this hobby!

That's odd and quite frankly wouldn't really give someone good info. unless it's months after the first one. (She may have improved or digressed).

You can come see me any time w/o writing reviews ya' old fart!

J/K hehehe

I never send photos over my cell phone, especially to someone I do not know. Someone can actually get information from the digital photo. I wouldn't suggest any lady do this for anyone unless she really knows the guy.

I update my photos monthly. Did a set at the end of May, June, and July... my body hasn't changed much, but my hair has, so I just cut my head off of those, hahaha.

My short hair photos are from two weeks ago on my site.

I am a firm believer in updated photos.

I don't like taking cell phone or self portrait shots, though I may take a few from my webcam as it's awesoooome! ...and I can't get the 'look' in a few shots from a photographer as I can when I'm patiently taking photos from my puter.

In fact, hmmm... maybe I'll do some of that.

Courtney

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