of common sense or propriety on both sides of the fence.  Rule #1 Never assume anything in this hobby

Just curious. I moved to CLT from the North 3 years ago. I really don't hobby close to home but lately, have had some opportunities to go for it. When filling out contact forms, I list my real name. Now maybe my last name to some people will let them see that I am Jewish. But in the form I do let the provider know that I am decent looking, athletic, professional, don't look my age, and am a gentleman. I have been trying to see a provider but cannot get a response back. Does it matter to you gals what religion a guy is? I know some woman will not see African Americans. Looking forward to your comments.

Your demeanor and your actions and of course your generosity make a difference with moi!

First of all I am no woman but I did play one on tv.......

Second this might be a better question or set of ideas to want to be bantered about on the religion and politic board.

First thing I thought when you said you were kinda hiding your ethnicity was humorous....

Ok to share it?

I was seeing you in a bar cozying up to a woman and her saying "do you like me or is that a gifiltifish in your pants"???? Pretty sure I mispelled that g word. It was still pretty funny right?  hehe

So to your questions, just too tough to take a stand here. Gonna upset someone no matter how you go.

One way to answer is to say simply, some can, some can't, some shouldn't.

Another way is to say one day this dude was in court. The prosecutor described the dude was guilty as sin. The judge pondered a bit and said, "You're right, you're right"! The defense attorney stood up and lambasted the judge in this way, "Judge how can you conclude my client is guilty when you have not even heard my defense"? Judge scratches herself(see caught ya, you were thinking the judge was a male scratching his scrotum..didn't ya?)???????  hehe

Ok so the judge ponders again and blurts out to the defense attorney, "You are right, you are right"! The stenographer jumps out of their(meterosexual term) skin and says, "but Judge they BOTH can't be right"!!!!! Judge scratches herself a pretty long time, maybe a skin condition, and she declares proudly,
"You are RIGHT, You are RIGHT"!!!!!!!!!!! gavel bang, gavel bang.

So what is the stupid point already? The point is people have their perspectives. Me personally I have them, absolutely 100%! Will I share all of them here out in public view? NOPE! Why go through the hassle? Some people are going to agree with what I like and think and some people are gonna think I am the most close-minded terdball who ever drew a breath, then there will be the ones who just do not give a crap and got better things to do with their lives than care what I like and do not.

So the answer finally is YES religion is a qualifier to SOME. Some might read how you describe yourself and think you are a bit arrogant, others would be intrigued by your confidence. The bottom line dude is what you will find in the hobby here there and everywhere is about what you will find in every other part of this crazy world. THERE ARE PEOPLE THERE!!!!!!! YIKES!!!!!!!!!!

One other tidbit. Dude went to a new place, dude he met says hello. They get to talking, get around to how incredible the TAR HEELS are gonna be this season in basketball that starts Friday night on a ship for goodness sakes. Kick Michigan States butt, GO HEELS! Ok on point, so new dude asks his new buddy what the people are like in this new place. New buddy simply asks, what were the people like where you just came from? New dude tells him and new buddy tells him ,"well that is pretty much what you are gonna find here".

Point is you only find what you really want to find, you will keep looking till you find what proves out what you think is true. making any sense here?

Now if you want to get together with a fantastic woman and have a fantastic experience you can most certainly find that here with some of the beauties that hang around this board. You can most likely find if you look hard enough can find a gal who says, yuck, I do not see the type of man you are. It happens!

Easiest way to proceed is just keep it simple! Find one, give the info she requests, if she says no, say NEXT! Keep that up for awhile and before you know it you will be in the company of a woman who can, will and wants to make your toes curl. Of course that is only if that is what you are really wanting to prove to yourself.

Shifterp OUT and since I wrote this stuff, I concur with myself!!!!!!!!! hehe

Religion or race for that matter don't matter to me...not sure why it would.

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If I had to classify myself I'd lean towards agnostic. So someone else's religion means about as much to me as... a rock!

First off this is NOT the general board.  Why the alias?  That is an alias is it not?   I have had ladies not respond to the form.  Maybe they are too busy. Maybe they feel I am bad news and not there cup of tea.  I was thinking it could be your age since you didnt mention it.  Some of the ladies want a more mature gentlemen.  Could be what you wrote, I dont know.  Spread out you web a little farther than 1 lady.  They will say yes or they will say no. But you will find yes's.

Shalom pardner

BUT I also cannot speak for other ladies.  It could be a simple case of disorganization or perhaps your screening form contained information that she did not deem appropriate (i.e. discussion of services etc)
You can always send a quick email explaining that you sent a form in and wanted to make sure she got it.

Now as far as timbow not wanting to fill out a form....you're response is not helpful.  Next time you want to interject make it count and explain why you wouldn't fill out a form...is it because you are better than everyone else and think you should bypass a woman's screening process?  do you email in the information instead?  (a good alternative)  or are you just one of those people that think you are the MOST important person I will meet with the most to lose...I assure you are NOT and find this sense of self worth in some hobbyist delusional and laughable at best.

I love the way you dont pull punches but I think you will find that Timbow is a very cautious dude.  I believe he doesnt want to leave tracks and that is the safest way to go for the hobbiest. BUT is not the safest way to go for the lady.  But he may just use email or a phone call and if she gets the information needed and feels comfortable then that would work, yes?.  

I find there has to be some trust.  I find that talking to the ladies and gentlemen you can tell whom you can trust usually because of the ladies track record.  And visa versa what else is she looking for but the gentlemens track record.  Its a hell of a lot better here on TER than on some other websites.  

And you my beautiful Emma are very trustable. Nothing but great things are said about you.

First as a professional (and yes I am employed and do work) I understand the need for discretion and caution.  As I stated an email with all the information on my form is sent via email, then yes I would consider that appropriate screening; HOWEVER I can say in all my time doing this AND knowing ladies that have done this where has the breech of confidence in information come from????  Yes 99.9% its HOBBYIST side...you don't delete numbers or someone hack your emails.....YOU don't cover your tracks.  I see it everyday and hell even been the victim of it.  Seriously try to call me...I don't EVER answer the phone, I do not call back numbers ...even if you leave a voicemail.  Everything is done via email and if you can't do that or send the appropriate screening information...I won't see you and chances are depending on the information contained in your initial contact...I will probably fuck with you.  The minute YOU start acting like I am not as important as you...I take offense to this.

I have some clients of great notoriety that have gladly filled out the information so much so I thought they were fucking with me and MADE them take a picture with the date on it.  So if I miss out on some po-dunk hobbyist that wants to try to bypass my screening....trust me I'm completely okay with that as they has already shown he doesn't care enough about me to follow MY rules.

Does it make a difference to who?

As the lady seeing someone who has another faith system, No, It does not bother me at all. In fact, I love, love love learning about new religions and others belief systems..
Budisim and Hindu are both very interesting to me..

For a while I read alot about the Jewish faith.. another one I find to be appealing..

Since most of my family is Ultra Southern Baptist. I am going to hell anyway. I might as well have fun..

I do get a kick out of my client who has seem me on several occasions but has had to cancel a few times becasue the Catholic guilt is too much for him to handle.

Back to the Filling out the form Issue.. Go Girl... You said it best!!!!!!!!!!!!

Girlfriend, I love it and especially the MY RULES!! Because I know that MY RULES are VERY important and if they can't be followed then I will quickly tell you good luck on your search because I'm not interested. I don't see every man that wants to see me, I'm very selective with who I share my time with but that's just me.....(wink)

when we are in the throws of passion they keep moaning " Oh God..Oh God".  And I tell them they don't have to call me that.   LOL !

ME cave man.  Me want Bertha.  Bertha Butt,  one of the Butt sisters,  Some men are soooooo visual.

Hell I've had dates with two pastors in my area...could care less. IF you are a gentlemen..thats all that matters

You can call me

"PASTOR SNATCH" LOL

ROTFLMAO and crying