I think its mostly because society has such a bad light on the hobby and alot of the time it is mistaken for banging street hookers and STD's blah blah blah.  Now when you say get invited to a football party do you mean like "hey we're having a party come on over" or "Im having a party, heres $$ come over for 2 hours"  Dont take that personal but those are 2 totally different situations.  If Im paying for your time then I dont wanna share with my friends regardless of how close they are.  Of course happy-time is all mine, but some us also pay to be the center of your attention.  If you ever wanna stop over for a BBQ though just let me know hahaha!  

but why in the world would I pay a woman three hundred bucks an hour to play cards?

As far as OTC activities, I have gotten to be friends with many ladies in this biz and do a lot of things together, both in her circle of friends and my own. I don't have the least bit of shame about having a "hooker on my arm" but if your questions is "would I pay for it?" then the answer is a resounding NO.

For the record, I am happily divorced and my own boss, and quite frankly don't care about what other people think about what I do, they can either accept it or not. Their choice.

and I will gladly take you to an event. You just have to go along with my older sister role and keep your hands to yourself.

I have been fortunate enough to....

..  Most people in my life, know what I do.. Therefore no need to hide, or sneak or most importantly LIE..  . Some know exactly, some know just adult industry. I have been fortunate to have a circle  that accept 'Lil' Bit' for exactly whom she is... Have plenty of friends whom I can talk to regarding the hobby.. .Very few people are open minded to accept it... Some are jelouse, some are haters.. You just gotta chose wisely whom you chose to share with!!

As far as  clients, i have a pretty fair share that would love to go in public, and/or go to intimate dinners etc... Like in big cities, alot of the clients are single men, who dont have time to date, and dont want the drama of a traditional relationship.. A lady like US ladies, is exactly what suits them!!!

I have also been fortunate to have alot of lady friends who work, so its always refreshing to be able to speak freely, without worrying about slipping up about work....

This is a wonderful way to have great and open relationships, at whatever level your at..  

Happy Hobbying..