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RE: Seeking opinions
Gizmo04302009 18 Reviews 586 reads
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The same thing happened to me my first time. I was so nervous and I think that might have had an influence on Mr Happy being not so happy. I have had very many happy times since that first night and Mr Happy responded properly each and every time. If you liked the girl I would call her and tell her you would like to see her again. It can't hurt to try. All she can do is say no thanks.

I have been reading this Board now for about a year. Recently I decided to take the plunge and meet one of the well reviewed Raleigh area providers. She was a pretty and charming younger lady, her early 30's if I remember correctly.

The problem that I had was nothing "functioned" the way I wanted it to. I am referring to myself. The young lady tried well past the point that our time ran out. She was very kind about it but I sensed that she was a little irritated by my inabilities. Should I have told her upfront that I might have a problem enjoying the time I spent with her?

She was very nice and told me to call her anytime. I am just wondering if this is common among older men in the hobby. How do you ladies deal with it? Should I be hesitant about calling her again? Should i be seeking older providers that might have already experiancd this?

Any advice would be appreciated.

Posted By: OlderGrayNotSoWiseGuy
I have been reading this Board now for about a year. Recently I decided to take the plunge and meet one of the well reviewed Raleigh area providers. She was a pretty and charming younger lady, her early 30's if I remember correctly.

The problem that I had was nothing "functioned" the way I wanted it to. I am referring to myself. The young lady tried well past the point that our time ran out. She was very kind about it but I sensed that she was a little irritated by my inabilities. Should I have told her upfront that I might have a problem enjoying the time I spent with her?

She was very nice and told me to call her anytime. I am just wondering if this is common among older men in the hobby. How do you ladies deal with it? Should I be hesitant about calling her again? Should i be seeking older providers that might have already experiancd this?

Any advice would be appreciated.
Hello OlderGray, it's okay things like that happend, and it doesn't have to be because of a mans age..It could be a number a reasons why!! Sounds to me like the lady you saw was very nice, I would call her back if you enjoyed her....

Just my thoughts
Good Luck

xoxo Miss A

First of all, don't hesitate in calling her again.  It does happen and is just a part of life.  I doubt the provider was irritated AT you.  It can be frustrating when a provider is trying her best to please you and just can't seem to get there- I feel like I haven't done my "job" the couple of times the same thing has happened to me.  I just wouldn't want to feel like I'd disappointed a client- even if I'd tried everything!  Unfortunately, sometimes our bodies just don't care to cooperate.

In response to whether or not a head's up is a good idea...  I always appreciate it when I'm made aware of any potential issues (even if it's just so I don't take it personally!)  :)  You may not be comfortable with being open about it though- which is fine.

Good luck your next time around!  :)  Happy Hobbying!

If you enjoyed her company and want to see her again. Call her. Let her decide if she wants to see you. I think you will be surprised and she will say Yes.

You guys like it when we give directions right? We like it too. Don't be shy.. She will not be shocked or surprised and it will indeed inhance the experience for both......

Good luck, Keep us posted..

Guy,
Yes, I was having the "droops" with the pinchy guy latex raincoats:((
I was turned on to the female raincoats by a provider and I have never looked back!!!
Get em at one of the big drug stores in feminine hygiene section---not male section???? Planned Parenthood,  on line undercover, you add the rest, as don't know if I say that total name on line, does end in dot com, etc.
IT's just like going back to the 70s when there was nothing at all between you and her:;P
Also, there is the chemistry thing that is harder to overcome, I don't know what it is, but on occasion,, even tho she is boo full, nothing works???? WTF!
Don't give up, there are some absolutely wonderful ladies you will get to share time with if you keep trying. I have had ladies tell me that they are seeing this problem more, especially among married guys , newly divorced, etc. who never had to use the pinchy, sensation killing guy raincoat
Don't let this one time get in your head, s**t happens:))

The same thing happened to me my first time. I was so nervous and I think that might have had an influence on Mr Happy being not so happy. I have had very many happy times since that first night and Mr Happy responded properly each and every time. If you liked the girl I would call her and tell her you would like to see her again. It can't hurt to try. All she can do is say no thanks.

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