Passive/aggressive bullying is what it is. Snap back, "it's really none of your business!" (Unless it's your mom LOL) be prepared for the, "I was only kidding OMG" which should get a, "yeah, well I wasn't" from you. I suspect it will stop that kind of BS really fast. Sounds like you're too nice. People often mistake kindness for weakness and unfortunately you have to put them in their place. Just my .02

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"Angry face Durham Drew"? Calling me names already ... don't make me break out my whitelist. LOL
The "I'm just kidding" is the usual Bully retort. Don't buy it. Plant both feet in their ass to ensure they get the message. You're not a person to be messed with. The next time try a, "You're kidding, Well ... I'm not kidding, IT'S NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS!" I think you'll like the way it makes you feel.

These are clients bothering you?

This kind of behavior is not only demeaning, but also misogynistic. Put ass holes like this on your black list. A lady should be treated like a lady, with respect and kindness.

I really enjoy that fact that you are so sweet and nice, I hope that you don't let a few idiots change that for you.  

Re: Ole dog, I like your style. LOve it, in fact.

How about visiting Raleigh.

If a lady doesn't reply I assume she's 'busy.' If she does, I assume she has time to chat. You contol either course. Its not that complicated.  

Posted By: SexyStasia

I don't like to gripe, but I'm putting this out there. I strongly dislike when someone (even "jokingly", though it never really is) says " lol you have a client? Or play date? Haha".. when I say via text or anything really, that I have to go and I'll chat a tiny but later. The clingy, insecure vibe it gives off is utterly disheartening and quite a turn off. *sigh* ...it happens too often.  I have a life, like everybody else. Work, school, family, any recreational activity.. laundry etc.. I can be doing anything without my phone in hand. I'm often taking a shower or just being alone, unwinding. Anyhow.. happy hobbying.  
 -Stasia

Seems like any other form of dating. Clingy dates are very unappealing.  

the examples you provided don't quite seem to rise to a level that justifies the outrage and dismay expressed in your post and replies from the community.  Yes, the clients should be sensitive to the feelings of the women they see.  If they aren't, tell them to fuck off and don't see them.  And those women -- if this is a business they choose to be a part of -- need to understand that sometimes grown men trying to appear cool and worldly are going to come off sounding like nervous 16 year-old boys whose most memorable sexual experience was jerking off in the boys' restroom during recess.

Might want to rethink the nationality change.  The dude's board name is that of the Japanese Admiral who planned and carried out the sneak attack on Pearl Harbor!

Like you treated me?  It's too funny that you would even say that seeing as how much of a misogynist you are yourself.