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DavieCakes 2 Reviews 777 reads
posted
1 / 16
High Volume vs Low Volume Ecorts

All:

Can anyone define WHAT separates a "low" volume escort from one who is "high" volume?

What is the determining factor? This is a very gray area not well defined. I have seen many
ladies advertised on BP who claim to be "low volume", but have no idea what this means.
How many men is she talking about seeing in a day, week, etc???

The assumption is that one client a day or every other day would be "low" volume. Likely,
this would be more along the lines of "recreational sex" rather than career sex (I think),
and would likely include house wives whose husbands are away for extended periods, such
as truckers, pilots, railroaders, etc (and the wives get lonely).

What if a lady sees 2 per day or 4 men in 2 days? How would this be classified?
It would appear to be "high" volume, as such a lady is in it for the money and depends
on that money for her support.

Is there a "medium" volume?

What about 20 men in a one month period?? High, Medium, or Low???

 
All help appreciated...

Tylor See my TER Reviews 448 reads
posted
2 / 16
Good question

I really think its all a matter of personal opinion.
From what I've seen other girls do I would think one a day or less is low volume.  
To complicate things, what if she only sees 10 men a month, but does it all in 2 days in a hotel? She's seeing less men then what some would consider the minimum for low volume but doing it all in 2 days. At that point all the benefits of low volume are gone but numbers wise she can claim low volume. Because of things like that I don't think there is much value in a claim of high or low volume. Its more about how she schedules and handles business.

DavieCakes 2 Reviews 492 reads
posted
3 / 16
High Volume vs Low Volume

Thanks for the reply.

It's a question that has been on my mind for a long time, which is one of the reasons why I try not to get
too close to any of the escorts. Too many unknowns out there. (i.e. too many men, too many new men
of whom the escort knows -nothing- about (total strangers) and too many unknowns about a clients' sexual
history. From what I gather from most of the forums, most escorts take on ALL comers, so long as they
bring an envelope full of money.....and of course, they take on "repeats" and "regulars" as well. There are
few limits among the ladies and find this a bit scary, more so after having ready many of the TER reviews
as to what goes on.

Somewhere, there has to be a written definition within the industry that better defines "high"
 vs  "low" volume.

Are there ANY ladies out there who just take on a specific clientele (or "regulars") rather than accepting
strange men, or ALL men?  

I have talked to many people on several forums besides this one before I posed the question. No one
really has an answer.  

Excluding the housewives and part-timers, who probably are in fact true "low" volume ladies, I often
wonder about those who do it as a form of full-time employment, live off of it, and have made it a career
of sorts, and have allowed themselves to become totally dependent on the money they receive for
what is essentially "paid rape".

For instance, a lady who sees 20 different men per month....would you consider her HIGH or LOW volume?
Does so throughout the month, usually 2 or 3 days each week and she lives off the income she makes
from the clients. Comes to 4 men in 2 days, usually at least 2 per day, sometimes one or two more
in a day, or maybe just one on the third day.  

Seems to me, this would qualify as HIGH volume with a fair amount of turnover. Comment or
thoughts?

Considering the lady sees 20 men per month, that comes to 240 per year. That is a LOT of sex (she has
intercourse with almost all of her clients). To put this in perspective most married couples over 40 have,
on average, sex about 4 times per week (remember, thisi s "average", or once a week. Low sex due
kids, work, stress, etc. Source for this was a Pfizer survey (the Viagra makers) when they established
the "6 pill per dose" standard a few years ago. Sex 4 times per month, 1 Viagra pill for hubby and 2
left over...they felt this was both sujfficient and generous.....

So, most couples over 40 are not high volume based on Pfizer's survey findings. Escorts -- different story!

It's a point worth discussing....and would be interesting to know and find out.....

DavieCakes 2 Reviews 404 reads
posted
4 / 16
Re: "paid rape"

Julia:

Sorry you didn't like the term "paid rape". It's a legal term that you can probably find in any legal dictionary.

I heard it during a court case some years ago when a hooker claimed she was "raped" and the case
was thrown out because she accepted money for her services. Prostitution was thus considered "paid
rape" which is further defined "as a woman accepting money for sex and agreeing not to resist"...

mona38 See my TER Reviews 320 reads
posted
5 / 16
There is no magical number that will satisfy anyone....

Every man and woman are here for their own personal reasons.  You will not find a perfect answer, but if you go with the flow and allow yourself to enjoy the ladies who you are most attracted to and enjoy your time with, then your answers will most likely magically appear.  

Most men do not worry about how many we see in a day/week/month.....they only want to know that his/our time  together will be unforgettable. Not if his time is on the "High tide" or 'Low tide".  

I hope you find time to relax your mind and enjoy the fine ladies of the Carolina's!! The rewards are endless....

Smiles Mona:-)

DavieCakes 2 Reviews 280 reads
posted
6 / 16
Re: Good question

Tylor:

I answered this one earlier, but the gist of my question on the subject
of volume had to do more with some of the ladies I'd seen and for which
I have never (and likely won't) submit reviews.

Some of them, while nice, appeared to have really been used up!

Tired and blood shot eyes from lots of heavy client work. Heavy smell
of testosterone in the hotel room. Obviously "high" volume stuff.

At some point, I really got more concerned for the ladies than I was
for getting a service which is what precipitated my original question.

Anyway, this is a discussion board, not a complaint session, which is
why I brought up the topic -- hoping to learn something. Instead, I got
bitched at by at least one so far. Not a good start....nothing like taking
a well intentioned question out of context.

D

DavieCakes 2 Reviews 235 reads
posted
7 / 16
Re: There is no magical number that will satisfy anyone....

Hi Mona:

Thank you for the kind reply.

So far, I am not impressed with either the escort biz nor the replies.

Aside from meeting a few ladies every now and then, I also like to know
about the nuts and bolts of the business. I am curious to know, which is
why I brought up the question in the first place.

Thought there were some smart folks out there who might know.....

or who could help make sense out of it.

The "pay for play" part is OK. I just want to know more about it....

D

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 405 reads
posted
8 / 16
The subject of your reply alone is the perfect answer imo. -e-


END OF MESSAGE

NoDamnWay 272 reads
posted
9 / 16
Low volume speed daters crack me up!

If you're hanging out on BP the difference between low volume and high volume does not matter. "Low volume" has become nothing more than an exhausted marketing term. Nothing more. It's a term frequently used by ladies that advertise on a daily basis, often offering "specials" as well as availability for 15 and/or 30 minute encounters. Sounds kind of contradictory, don't you think? Do you believe in low volume speed daters? I don't. Especially if they're hosting incall at a hotel. Don't fall for the marketing.

Normally I would say it's none of a client's business how many appointments a lady takes in a day. BUT in the case of a woman advertising that she's low volume, if she mentioned it then it becomes fair game to ask her to elaborate on what that means to her. I personally wouldn't ask about that type of thing, but to each their own. Would you believe her anyway?

Try this though. The word "upscale" is another overused marketing gem. Go to BP and put that in the search box and see how many results you get. Out of those results see how few you would actually be willing to click on. Out of those, see how many selfies you find taken in a bathroom mirror at a cheap motel with a room in the background just screaming that maid service has been declined for the last three days. And then tell us why the heck you're on BP in the first place. You're looking for a needle in a haystack when there are plenty of needles right here! Wait...that didn't sound right. Screw it. Y'all know what I mean

GaGambler 280 reads
posted
10 / 16
Have you considered taking up a new hobby?

You are either too pious, or simply too stupid for this one.

And Julia didn't even begin to bitch you out. I OTOH will be more than happy to tell you just how fucking stupid, arrogant, and clueless you sound about this.

Some women are more capable of "high volume" than others. I used to date a girl who claimed that she got better as the day went on, and that the first guy of the day didn't get her "best" as it took her a couple of sessions to get "warmed up" for the day. I know other women who think that three guys a week is two too many.

You really need to get a clue before tossing around remarks like "paid rape" on a board full of willing participants, I bet you at least half the women on this board wanted to bitch slap you for that comment. You must have caught JLS in a good mood, or she REALLY would have let you have it.

FoxyNC See my TER Reviews 265 reads
posted
11 / 16
Eh......

Posted By: NoDamnWay
If you're hanging out on BP the difference between low volume and high volume does not matter. "Low volume" has become nothing more than an exhausted marketing term. Nothing more. It's a term frequently used by ladies that advertise on a daily basis, often offering "specials" as well as availability for 15 and/or 30 minute encounters. Sounds kind of contradictory, don't you think? Do you believe in low volume speed daters? I don't. Especially if they're hosting incall at a hotel. Don't fall for the marketing.  
   
 Normally I would say it's none of a client's business how many appointments a lady takes in a day. BUT in the case of a woman advertising that she's low volume, if she mentioned it then it becomes fair game to ask her to elaborate on what that means to her. I personally wouldn't ask about that type of thing, but to each their own. Would you believe her anyway?  
   
 Try this though. The word "upscale" is another overused marketing gem. Go to BP and put that in the search box and see how many results you get. Out of those results see how few you would actually be willing to click on. Out of those, see how many selfies you find taken in a bathroom mirror at a cheap motel with a room in the background just screaming that maid service has been declined for the last three days. And then tell us why the heck you're on BP in the first place. You're looking for a needle in a haystack when there are plenty of needles right here! Wait...that didn't sound right. Screw it. Y'all know what I mean.  
   
   
 
While I agree with the most of your posts, I will rebuttal one point.
Any lady giving 15-30 minute "specials" or even regular packages, b-n-g's, or any healine that screams "available now"- most certainly in my mind is NOT low volume.

However, using a hotel as an incall is NOT the earmark of high volume.
(maybe a motel) However,  
If a lady is truly low-volume, I don't see the financial investment in an apartment as an incall- for only a few customers.
Unless she is getting a few who really are stuffing the envelope.

A few one or two hour appointments a month isn't exactly the income flow that will support a private incall.
So, I must contradict that rationale that all providers who use hotels are high volume.

Ask me how I know...
I have chewed on that bone many many times...
But for as few appointments as I get in a month, I just can't substantiate sinking my sparse profits into an private incall, it just wouldn't be worth it.

Foxy

P.S. I once heard low volume explained as "as long as you don't see a guy leaving when you're arriving or one arriving when you're leaving is low volume." Haha!

There is no set number, and I do remember a poll on that very subject on another forum, it was well over a half dozen pages long.... Very long debate.

-- Modified on 5/3/2015 1:16:15 PM

NoDamnWay 192 reads
posted
12 / 16
Re: Eh......

I wasn't suggesting hosting incall at a hotel was a sign of someone being high volume in itself. The hotel comment was meant only in reference to those that advertise quickies. Because it would take more quickies than longer duration appointments to justify the added expense of a room, so that "low volume" claim ends up flying out the window!

clarkw.griswold 72 Reviews 217 reads
posted
13 / 16
Not another stupid Post...

I'm with Julia, find another fucking hobby.

missariarocchi See my TER Reviews 258 reads
posted
14 / 16
Are you the same kind of dipsh who thinks 99 percent of us

Have daddy issues?  

Seriously dude everyone runs their business differently and as long as we enjoy it and it's consensual then it doesn't matter what high volume vs low volume means to the crowd. Its another coined term to make some jock strap feel special because he's 'the first of the day' or 'the only one for the week'.  

Some girls always want to take on new business, others want to see their regulars only and advertise when they want new clientele but none of us are being 'forced raped'. Come see me, I have a lovely strap on and I will be glad to demonstrate forced rape. I'll even pay you to enjoy it.

Oh and also some ladies have kids or full lives which are factors in the blood shot eyes and tired demeanor. I know I was dead to the world after finals and working a full time job so don't be such a dick making assumptions about your 'observations'. Stick to porn or soliciting dancers thanks  
Posted By: DavieCakes
Thanks for the reply.  
   
 It's a question that has been on my mind for a long time, which is one of the reasons why I try not to get  
 too close to any of the escorts. Too many unknowns out there. (i.e. too many men, too many new men  
 of whom the escort knows -nothing- about (total strangers) and too many unknowns about a clients' sexual  
 history. From what I gather from most of the forums, most escorts take on ALL comers, so long as they  
 bring an envelope full of money.....and of course, they take on "repeats" and "regulars" as well. There are  
 few limits among the ladies and find this a bit scary, more so after having ready many of the TER reviews  
 as to what goes on.  
   
 Somewhere, there has to be a written definition within the industry that better defines "high"  
  vs  "low" volume.  
   
 Are there ANY ladies out there who just take on a specific clientele (or "regulars") rather than accepting  
 strange men, or ALL men?  
   
 I have talked to many people on several forums besides this one before I posed the question. No one  
 really has an answer.  
   
 Excluding the housewives and part-timers, who probably are in fact true "low" volume ladies, I often  
 wonder about those who do it as a form of full-time employment, live off of it, and have made it a career  
 of sorts, and have allowed themselves to become totally dependent on the money they receive for  
 what is essentially "paid rape".  
   
 For instance, a lady who sees 20 different men per month....would you consider her HIGH or LOW volume?  
 Does so throughout the month, usually 2 or 3 days each week and she lives off the income she makes  
 from the clients. Comes to 4 men in 2 days, usually at least 2 per day, sometimes one or two more  
 in a day, or maybe just one on the third day.  
   
 Seems to me, this would qualify as HIGH volume with a fair amount of turnover. Comment or  
 thoughts?  
   
 Considering the lady sees 20 men per month, that comes to 240 per year. That is a LOT of sex (she has  
 intercourse with almost all of her clients). To put this in perspective most married couples over 40 have,  
 on average, sex about 4 times per week (remember, thisi s "average", or once a week. Low sex due  
 kids, work, stress, etc. Source for this was a Pfizer survey (the Viagra makers) when they established  
 the "6 pill per dose" standard a few years ago. Sex 4 times per month, 1 Viagra pill for hubby and 2  
 left over...they felt this was both sujfficient and generous.....  
   
 So, most couples over 40 are not high volume based on Pfizer's survey findings. Escorts -- different story!  
   
 It's a point worth discussing....and would be interesting to know and find out.....  
   
   
   
 

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 174 reads
posted
15 / 16
I always enjoy

the ones who claimed to have seen 3 guys in past 6 wks, but have 8 reviews in that time period, for that time period lol. True story on this board. I won't name names because she tends to go BSC on ya if you call her out.

All I know is low volume doesn't have back to back appts. To me, 2 a day or less.... That is just me. Got to figure in I also don't work 2 days a week.
 
Posted By: DavieCakes
All:  
   
 Can anyone define WHAT separates a "low" volume escort from one who is "high" volume?  
   
 What is the determining factor? This is a very gray area not well defined. I have seen many  
 ladies advertised on BP who claim to be "low volume", but have no idea what this means.  
 How many men is she talking about seeing in a day, week, etc???  
   
 The assumption is that one client a day or every other day would be "low" volume. Likely,  
 this would be more along the lines of "recreational sex" rather than career sex (I think),  
 and would likely include house wives whose husbands are away for extended periods, such  
 as truckers, pilots, railroaders, etc (and the wives get lonely).  
   
 What if a lady sees 2 per day or 4 men in 2 days? How would this be classified?  
 It would appear to be "high" volume, as such a lady is in it for the money and depends  
 on that money for her support.  
   
 Is there a "medium" volume?  
   
 What about 20 men in a one month period?? High, Medium, or Low???  
   
   
 All help appreciated....  
   
 

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 160 reads
posted
16 / 16
Re: Are you the same kind of dipsh who thinks 99 percent of us

Aria, I'll also pitch in money so you can demonstrate your strap on skills so he can be clear on "paid rape" but, if he "likes" it doesn't it become consensual non-consent ?
 I'm soooo confused!

Posted By: missariarocchi
Have daddy issues?  
   
 Seriously dude everyone runs their business differently and as long as we enjoy it and it's consensual then it doesn't matter what high volume vs low volume means to the crowd. Its another coined term to make some jock strap feel special because he's 'the first of the day' or 'the only one for the week'.  
   
 Some girls always want to take on new business, others want to see their regulars only and advertise when they want new clientele but none of us are being 'forced raped'. Come see me, I have a lovely strap on and I will be glad to demonstrate forced rape. I'll even pay you to enjoy it.  
   
 Oh and also some ladies have kids or full lives which are factors in the blood shot eyes and tired demeanor. I know I was dead to the world after finals and working a full time job so don't be such a dick making assumptions about your 'observations'. Stick to porn or soliciting dancers thanks    
   
Posted By: DavieCakes
Thanks for the reply.  
     
  It's a question that has been on my mind for a long time, which is one of the reasons why I try not to get  
  too close to any of the escorts. Too many unknowns out there. (i.e. too many men, too many new men  
  of whom the escort knows -nothing- about (total strangers) and too many unknowns about a clients' sexual  
  history. From what I gather from most of the forums, most escorts take on ALL comers, so long as they  
  bring an envelope full of money.....and of course, they take on "repeats" and "regulars" as well. There are  
  few limits among the ladies and find this a bit scary, more so after having ready many of the TER reviews  
  as to what goes on.  
     
  Somewhere, there has to be a written definition within the industry that better defines "high"  
   vs  "low" volume.  
     
  Are there ANY ladies out there who just take on a specific clientele (or "regulars") rather than accepting  
  strange men, or ALL men?    
     
  I have talked to many people on several forums besides this one before I posed the question. No one  
  really has an answer.    
     
  Excluding the housewives and part-timers, who probably are in fact true "low" volume ladies, I often  
  wonder about those who do it as a form of full-time employment, live off of it, and have made it a career  
  of sorts, and have allowed themselves to become totally dependent on the money they receive for  
  what is essentially "paid rape".  
     
  For instance, a lady who sees 20 different men per month....would you consider her HIGH or LOW volume?  
  Does so throughout the month, usually 2 or 3 days each week and she lives off the income she makes  
  from the clients. Comes to 4 men in 2 days, usually at least 2 per day, sometimes one or two more  
  in a day, or maybe just one on the third day.    
     
  Seems to me, this would qualify as HIGH volume with a fair amount of turnover. Comment or  
  thoughts?  
     
  Considering the lady sees 20 men per month, that comes to 240 per year. That is a LOT of sex (she has  
  intercourse with almost all of her clients). To put this in perspective most married couples over 40 have,  
  on average, sex about 4 times per week (remember, thisi s "average", or once a week. Low sex due  
  kids, work, stress, etc. Source for this was a Pfizer survey (the Viagra makers) when they established  
  the "6 pill per dose" standard a few years ago. Sex 4 times per month, 1 Viagra pill for hubby and 2  
  left over...they felt this was both sujfficient and generous.....  
     
  So, most couples over 40 are not high volume based on Pfizer's survey findings. Escorts -- different story!  
     
  It's a point worth discussing....and would be interesting to know and find out.....  
     
     
     
   
-- Modified on 5/10/2015 11:17:25 AM

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