Are there any genuine providers that visit the OBX?  Been out of the hobby for quite awhile now.  I have refused to pay deposits as I suspect they are all ripoffs or potential ripoffs.  Am I wrong?

Not sure what OBX is. But one thing that never changes is never pay a deposit. If you have been out of the game for a long time I might do it once to get a reference. Most guys will agree paying a deposit always ends up in regret in some form. Best of luck.

OBX is Outer Banks NC

OBX isn't near any areas that ladies visit for work.  Do your homework and look for red flags and know even ladies in the coastal areas will have to travel to get to you.