I met a lovely provider the other day who helped me end a short, but much needed, self-imposed, break from the hobby. She texted me to say that she was on her way about an hour before we were scheduled to meet. I thought “holy shit … you must live far away” and I texted her back something similar to that. She replied “I like to be on time” I thought how nice, and different, that is!  
 
Anyway, about 30 minutes later she sends me a text asking if we could start early. Um … yeah. To top it off she shows up (early) looking gorgeous (Asian women ROCK in my book) and she says “I have something for you.” And gives me a small gift. It was something small showing me she listened to our email conversation earlier. I was blown away. After the session, we sat on the couch and I told her that she was far above most of the providers for showing up on time(and other things). She couldn’t believe it, but I assured her that “most” providers showed up late consistently … even the better ones. This girl had everything a good provider should have, fantastic looks, smart, flirty, really delivered in the bed room, arrived on time AND she said, “NO REVIEWS … PLEASE.”  
 
I found her by talking to another provider who recommended her and she was “fantastic”. Her reviews (she said written by the idiots who didn’t listen) were good, but they were not recent. In the past I would have passed her up. However, I broke from tradition and my normal way of looking at reviews to help me make a decision, because I really wanted someone good. I simply asked a provider who would “she” would recommend and I couldn’t be happier with my decision.  
 
Guys put a little faith into the good providers out there and ask "who is really good?" They know who is who. Just my 2 cents

You make excellent points! Thanks for posting that.  I too had a similar situation a couple of weeks ago and was "introduced" through another provider.  I will say conversely that I have a a couple of providers do a great deal of what I call "bad-mouthing" other providers and talking negatively about them.  I am not sure what the rationale is behind that unless they have some personal issues between them.  I know some ladies do that to try and put down others thinking it will help there business somehow.  And interesting as it is, I know from some of the details discussed there was at least a little thread of truth.  What struck a nerve even more was how some of these ladies talk about clients.  That is poor judgement in my opinion and causes me to never want to visit with them again.  

Did I forget to leave her review? OH NO! I really wanted that free membership to TER ... Um, NO. I'm keeping this one for myself. :

Thank you. Good providers don't have to talk about other providers and they never talk about "other" clients with clients. Shows a lack of class in my book.

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I know that some providers don't like to give referrals or talk about other providers because they want to maximize the number of times that you repeat with them.  I have a hobbying budget, and can see only so many ladies per month, and my regular wouldn't want me to skip her.  I'm safe, comfortable, fun, easy and money in the bank.  Why would she want to send me to another provider?

A budget! Now, that's a good idea! Maybe I'll have to set one of those up too. I'm getting better, but those providers who text, "Want to see me?" are hard to say "No" to sometimes. You know who you are ...

Did you just want to brag about a good appointment without posting a review? If she's UTR or not taking on new clients, that's fine, but otherwise you're just cock-blocking, bro!

You're welcome. It's simple really. It comes down to, 'If I can't have you. Who do you recommend?' I think it's a big plus to a lady for a client to say 'I trust your judgement and your taste enough to recommend another lady!' Granted it can't be done with ALL providers, but it can with the better providers. I think a lot of reviews are written like bad erotic fiction anyway. A positive change would be: Do away with the "details" section. I really don't care if you think your provider had a big O ... LOL

It wasn't just good ... my point (I forget I'm in the South sometimes) is that guys on TER would be well served if they ASK their better providers to recommend a provider who is really good rather than just reading reviews. I'm sorry that you feel "cock-blocked" by my keeping my word not to review (or name) her. I didn't ask her reasons, but I do want to see her again so I'm doing as she asked. I'd be happy to refer you to a good provider via PM.

Not news to me, but good tip for newbies. I'll add that the provider referral also gets you through screening faster!

"I think a lot of reviews are written like bad erotic fiction anyway. A positive change would be: Do away with the "details" section. I really don't care if you think your provider had a big O ... LOL"

I could've written this in one sentence; "If your favorite provider is busy, ask her for a referral."

The "useful" information was "ASK PROVIDERS FOR A REFERRAL" because you never know.
Btw I didn't ask my favorite provider, just a lady that was on my "to do" list and she came through. Did I just get lucky? Maybe, but I tend to think that good providers are a gold mine for information that we guys don't use. Just ask.

When it comes to this stuff.  Hard to do, though.  If I had an extra $10k to put together a wish list for central NC, it would start with:

Lil Bit would kill me in a 2 hour session ... Wheeew what a way to go tho!!! She's one of the "better" ones out there, but I haven't had the pleasure of meeting the others on your short list ... yet!

I don't recognize one name but wouldn't change anyone for myself. WOW

I've only seen Aria a couple times, but she is awesome.  Easily the most beautiful female that I've ever had the privilege to be with, and she's smart as a tack to boot.  Very professional and ... well, find out for yourself, but she is a must see if you don't require double Ds.  I have tremendous respect for Aria for her mind and body and if I had to pick one lady to recommend for someone else...

Ditto, Kelley White