Posting personal information on a public forum just doesn't seem right to me unless that person has given the okay to do so, and if Melissa did tell you that she was fine with it then kudos to you for asking her first.  
   
 If a person has been "outed" in the past or if they live in a smaller area, information like this can be too revealing and risk someone finding out or realizing who they are.  Unless a lady posts her face openly, most of us don't want to be recognized by anyone other than who we choose to meet after screening them.  
   
 Just a thought for everyone to keep in mind...