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Re: If you want GFE..
mistressjessica 721 reads
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I sincerily hope you are ready to treat me like the lady that I am..

GFE means.. you talk to me like you would the woman you love and worship...

It also means for two people to be in a relationship there must be chemistry...

Even if you are lucky and there is chemistry and we have an real conversation..Once you get to the bedroom. I fully expect you to be good looking, in shape, have good hygeine, have brushed your teeth, assuming that you have taken care of them...

Oh, wait a few more things..

You had damn well treat me like the goddess I am. This does not give you permission to abuse me and have your way with me becasue you feel an urge...Unless I give you permission.....

The last time I checked A girl friend was between two people who wanted to be there...

I love what I do and I love the people I meet. but I hate a jerk.. Maybe if you got burned you should either do more homework on your lady friend or look in the mirror...

Previously, to becoming VIP on this site. I had used the reviews as a means of determining. If a lady was truly a GFE or a poser. Thank you any and all reviewers. That take the extra moment to put comment. So that someone without VIP can make an educated choice about a provider. I have  never heard this from any intelligent provider. But, from ladies that wish to use subterfuge as means of making attempting to make a buck.

When I say poser. I am referring to any provider that places G.F.E. or infers this in the course of their ad. Simply to lure you in. This runs rampent on CL, BP, CV, and every once and a while on Eros.

You then make plans to see said provider. You place your hard earned donation. Where and how the provider requires. You show that person respect and have meet or exceeded the reference requirements. Your personal hygiene is above reproach. Only to get comfortable.

The without warning suddenly instead of your companion acting like a  true "Girl Friend" would. With a sense of romance or lust. DFK, BBBJ, and normally "couples" like interaction.
You end up getting. Light pecks on the lips. A woman who isn't even remotely into the action you donated good money for.  With the same old Bull Shit excuse.

"Everyone has different definitions of GFE." Ecuse me that is f'n BS.  Unless, someone has been raised in a convent. There is no way. That a provider does not know the difference! In being a true GFE and not! I've had variation of that pulled on me before. It has been a while. I usually only have to get burned once. In order to not make that same mistake twice. But that shouldn't be an issue to begin with.

Now agencies are mixed bag.You kind of have to go into any agency call with your eyes an mind wide open. I've had excellent results from some agencies in Greensboro area. Those are listed here on TER. Then there are some  agencies that aren't so honest. That tell you she is GFE.  Then you get there an the providers says no shes not.  No one needs to deal with drama like that. I've left when this has occurred. Paying a penalty for false advertising is BS!

I know that I am not alone in this sense of right and wrong.  I know there are some providers that give amazing G.F.E.  To such an extreme that you think your in P.S.E. session. While some others do provide G.F.E. However, for reasons best know to themselves. The prefer to keep this information low key.

Like so many people today.  If you don't truly enjoy doing your job. Then find another vocation. Some are doing that job as a means to ends. An do so with a great deal of self worth and commitment. Those are the kinds of providers I want to know. Those are the kinds of providers that should be in this business. The posers need to go work the streets. In stead making things difficult for the rest of us.

as long as the hygiene is not off or some skin rash or something weird. I have been with providers that were gfe but things did not look or smell right and I passed, have even had to just flat out leave. But if a PROVIDER is just plain not attracted to me I understand, just tell me I am not your cup of tea and leave the guy with his donation in hand. That YMMV is a bunch of crap. I use to say it but not anymore. When I see YMMV I stay away. If a guy is not into a provider I have come to realize it is best to leave and tell her she is not for you. Instead of staying and giving her a  review based on your not being attracted to the provider.

Honesty is the best policy. Yeah, if the provider is . . . lacking in the freshness area. Its time to go.  Or worse yet. They assure you that they are gonna have some sexy lingerie on.  Which ends up being a bra and panties from Wallmart. That will certainly play into the disappointment!!!

I don't think I have ever used the term GFE in my site or in my ad. Sometimes I think I am more PSE.
You sound very frustrated so I suggest you get in your car and come to Raleigh and let me show you "How I do it!"

I love what I do. And I am ONE of the Best.
Ever hear of the HME experience? One of my reviewers called it The Honeymoon Experience.

Some of my friends have told me I should be a Teacher!! Teach a class. That would be interesting.
I know I'm good, the best, better than most, because I give you ME! And I treat you like a lover.

I was fortunate and flattered this Saturday. A friend that I had met 5 years ago in Chicago found his way down South!! And he wanted ME, again!! I get it.

I hope you find a few Women who make you feel like a man. I know that sometimes we don't always fit into your head...could be our age or body type. I'm 53, petite and 34B. I'm not curvy and busty or a bombshell. But I am f'n sexy and can rock your world!!


Maybe GFE stands for
Go F Elsewhere!!

God Bless you my dear. Wish, more providers could be this straight up.  I do understand that they need to play things close to the vest. To protect themselves. But, woman such as your self are what keeps my hope of finding a G.F.E provider. That meets my personal specs as it were.  

I general like my woman to be tall and busty. Although, athletic builds are just as attractive. However, if I read of several reviews.  That all say the same thing. About her GFE, enthusiasm, and her general sense of sensual exploration. That is even more attractive then her height or breast size!

Sexy, rock your world would  be an understatement.  I thought I had experienced everything until I met you.....

I sincerily hope you are ready to treat me like the lady that I am..

GFE means.. you talk to me like you would the woman you love and worship...

It also means for two people to be in a relationship there must be chemistry...

Even if you are lucky and there is chemistry and we have an real conversation..Once you get to the bedroom. I fully expect you to be good looking, in shape, have good hygeine, have brushed your teeth, assuming that you have taken care of them...

Oh, wait a few more things..

You had damn well treat me like the goddess I am. This does not give you permission to abuse me and have your way with me becasue you feel an urge...Unless I give you permission.....

The last time I checked A girl friend was between two people who wanted to be there...

I love what I do and I love the people I meet. but I hate a jerk.. Maybe if you got burned you should either do more homework on your lady friend or look in the mirror...

Amend Ms Jessica!

I can assure you that my personal hygiene was an is above reproach.  Part of the reason that I am hobbiest. Is due in no small part to my demanding schedule. I've dated a variety of different people over the years.

I can honestly say that 80% of the ladies.  That I have had the pleasure of meeting. Were genuinely attractive. That is to say, there photos were accurate and recent. However, that 20% and they know who they are. Are just straight out shady. There the reasons that decent providers. Feel the need to put. Picture 100% accurate. Or if it isn't me its free! Granted that tends to run ramp-id on CL, BP, and CV. Eros at least you can depend upon.  98% of the time if a provider is advertising on there. They say what they mean. An genuinely mean what they say. Takes the guess work out of figuring if its real or BS.

You are also correct. In regards to people doing the right research as well. If it wasn't for TER. I honestly would have thrown in the towel in regards to seeing providers period. Learned some hard lessons over the years. Call it being naive if you wish. But, if your gonna advertise being GFE. You damn well better be.

However, Ms Jessica is also right if you or your client just don't have any chemistry. Then you should just walk away. No harm, no foul!

It is just extremely frustrating. To have been jerked around. I am not an unreasonable person. Things come up, people get sick, and transportation breaks down. That is just the way life is some times. Then a provider should make sure to get in touch with said client ASAP. Let them know. "I'm stuck in traffic or I'm gonna have to cancel".  However, you say your gonna be city from this date to that date. You exchange e-mails go through the trouble setting up references and go through whatever hoops the providers needs to feel safe. You do all this days in advance. Then tell your client somethings come up. That is acceptable once maybe twice. But, pulling it a third time is just BS!

and in awesome shape
If you can't do this...get out of the business.
This is not Pretty Woman f'ning Richard Gere...this is about the Average Joe, clean and respectable who wants some DFK and BBBJ and would love to be touched and carressed and wants it to feel natural...not mechanical.
He might be 50 lbs overweight, balding, beer gut, hair on his back.....you get the picture  :)
No one is asking you to marry the dude...
You get to spend time with HIM and he shows his appreciation by gifting you hundreds of dollars.

Be real here. I'm just a girl. The girl next door. The Coach, The Mom, Grandmother, neighbor, friend. And there have been hundreds of Gentlemen who desired me.  :) They come to me looking their best. Manners and politeness, respectful and professional.....and they want to treat me like a Queen. What do they want in return?? The same. And they get it.
And I, never DO anything or anyone I don't want to. I would be the first to throw in the towel, return the gift and part ways respectfully. For me, it's not about the money.

Do I love my gifts? Hell yeah. They pay the mortgage and allow me to be independent. BUT....I will never let the $$$ become determining factor.
He is.

The male I was describing wasn't all of those carateristics in one man... LOL
He might only be 20 lbs overweight...and he may even weigh 350. Maybe, maybe not. But my point is that it's not like we entertain GQ's and we are America's next top Models....

I remember one fella I was kissing and it wasn't going so well. I love to kiss but I have my ways!! So I took the time to kiss him my way and from there our kissing came together.

:)

Wish, there were more providers that acted this way. I know times are tough. But, when we the clients are looking for an escape. Looking for our girl friends to takes away from our troubles. Miss Sexy Carolina at least talks the talk and walks the walk!

It goes hand in hand with being a "true" G.F.E. Some people are and some people aren't.  Just like some people have to find fault. While everyone else get it all the same.  No harm, no foul.

It just the way some people are wired. Not all providers are GFE for a variety of different reasons. Just as some people don't have spell check and use a dictionary. As opposed to lazy bastards like me. Who need spell check just to get through the day! LOL

Glade you didn't miss the point though!

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