Want to try the hobby , but not a lot of stuff on here in hickory that is new... what girls are safe? so on and so on....any help or advice would be cool

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thanks for the recomendation

Suzie in Gastonia (Charlotte) is good too, only 45 minutes away. Other than that I drive to Charlotte, Greensboro and occasionally Asheville.