Without asking before hand? I ask because I am GFE to SOME! That means by my own choice I will either accept or not accept a gent who wishes to see me for GFE. Some places that I advertise- I only offer FS. Reasoning is, I do not like to kiss everyone!So, if I really dont enjoy it- neither will you. And, I do like what I do, so that makes companions appreciate and enjoy my time more. I do not like to have an appt. for GFE with a gent who has hair all over his face because it pricks me, and is very aggravating. I also my not like to kiss a gent due to his age range! Just being honest. I do like to kiss a well groomed, clean cut man. So, please if contacting me do ask if I cater to GFE, and if when we meet, you are not up to par on some level of grooming in my eyes, I do not have to see you for that GFE session. I am very well groomed at all times and picky about you being well groomed as well. I do have different rates for GFE as well because kissing is not something that I like to do with everyone. It is really personal to me. Some guys like to kiss with gum in their mouth- No No! So, this is my choice, and it is also your choice as to who you wish to see. I respect that. Just respect my preferences as well.

Well, IMHO, you either are GFE or your not, your either an island girl or your not, you do cim or your don't, etc.... In your case, sounds like you are not GFE most of the time and thus shouldn't advertise as such.

Gals who provide this or that service to some but not to all generally get themselves into review hell because if reviews say you do this or that but then you don't, you'll see some really shitty reviews from those who believe they got shafted.

IMHO say what you mean and mean what you say!

No, I can either offer a gent GFE or I cant! Not either I do GFE or I dont. What sense does that make? I dont want to kiss guys w/ bad breath, gum in there mouth, 70+, dry, cracked lips. However, if a gentleman does carry himself appropriately than I can carry out such acts as expected! As my reviews state from those who have had GFE experience w/ me, they were completely satisfied! Thats like if you walk in the door and go down on a lady w/ bad hygiene- you probably wont perform DATY whether that be her having too much hair, not enough hair, a smell you dont like, a taste, whatever- your preference- right? Just as mine! I have really shitty reviews- WHERE? Shafted? No, everyone has left good remarks. Here and on other sites.

So, if you have smelly breath- No GFE
Facial Hair- ( Beard or mustache) No GFE
Over 70- No GFE
Sores- No Service

Happy New Years!

I cant seem to find a bad review. But, I am glad that you are directing attention to them. I have good reviews! Nothing bad. Go V. I. P. and maybe you can see all the rest of the juicy details! Lol And, I have also been reviewed by the top reviewer on TER, someone with over 700 reviews and some very respected gents on this board as well! And, I do not mislead anyone. My site states the same as I have stated on here! I let guys know before hand and they do not have a problem with that! I had a guy shave right before coming to see me because he knew thats what I liked. So, either you come the way I request up front- or dont cum at all!

Happy 2010!!!

-- Modified on 1/6/2010 3:16:09 PM

I always say what I mean And mean what I say!

Can you imagine?!  Rimming is even more personal than kissing, I think!  I am definitely a "kissing slut."    I hate to disappoint anyone, but there are just some assholes (literally!) that I cannot get that comfortable with!

I just find it so peculiar that anyone would actually *expect* rimming.  It's even more weird than *expecting kissing.*  I guess it's easy to get carried away, if you live in a giant city with a steady stream of porn stars coming in and out all of the time, such is the case in NYC, my home.  

This thread is just too stupid to get into, on so many levels....

Sorry that I mistated, or you misunderstood what I wrote... I'm not suggesting anything at all about your existing reviews.  I'm not even trying to say what you should like or not like and with whom.  I only intended to point out that basing whatever service you perform on what you think of the client after you meet him has the potential to cause inconsistency in your perceived services resulting in "review hell" from those who saw a previous review but didn't get that level service and were expecting it.  I know that in the ATL, the phrase YMMV showing up in reviews usually a red flag for inconsistency.

Anyway, have a happy new year.

Ya, wish I had never got suckered into responding.. lol

You ladies are free to set what ever guidelines you
want and feel comfortable and secure with.  If a guy
don't like what you are offering they can look for
someone who does.

When will you get back down to Charlotte?

love and fortune favors the bold

I have to agree with Preciouz on the GFE issue.  I think that a hobbyist is mistaken if he goes into an appointment with the mindset that what occurred with another hobbyist will automatically happen with him.  The providers must have some degree of discretion in these matters.  Reviews are guidelines not scripts!  Personally, I enjoy believing that the service I receive from a provider has more to do with connection I make with her than an obligation on her part based on prior reviews.  If I see that a provider does not engage in activities that I enjoy I will pass her by.  Nonetheless, just because she performed a certain way with one does not guarantee that I will benefit from exactly the same.  I like to EARN it if I can.

I think the majority understands how I feel, and noone was suckered into responding. I will see you all at the meet n greet I hope! You guys just sealed the deal, and all you rude gents, plz dont look up my skirt!

Preciouz you dont remember me i believe you are a great person my gf was in raliegh and she called you for help on certain sites and you gave her a list of them, even though she could have been a potential competitor your confident,honest and  you are a  good person and helpful, knowledgable resourceful, too.

Any one that would get offended to a non gfe session, wouldn't get offended your just really too nice to hurt anyones feelings. and I am betting that you are gfe to alot but probly not the men that chew tobaccer or some other distractions of the mouth... helitosis yeesh

Some clients you wouldn't believe the way they talk bout girls just saying awful remarks and girls are really careful when they do say something that may or may not offend clients... but providers get more flak i think, because since we get donations and money we shouldn't have any complaints, we should do this that and the third is the common though. * but i know that no poster to this topic gave you flack and all of them were pretty nice... considering. well alot of people are nice compared to the small towns im in.

anyways i never post on here and thought i'd open my big ole mouth, see ya happy 2010.

I remember you girls, and thank you! I would help out anyone who needed help~

Frankly,I'd be insulted if I chose a provider and when she took a look at me decided that I was too nasty to have a GFE session with. Especially if the website or whatever medium of advertisement says something about GFE...

Obviously, a lot of guys on this site just want to pull the whole "knight in shining armor" to the ladies here.

I state this info on my site, which you should read before hand, so it is your fault if you read my site, and still came with a hairy face, not groomed or whatever! So, then you will be turned around. This is not to embarrass anyone here. I had a gent try to kiss me with gum in his mouth. I will  only turn you around IF you did not listen or read and came as I asked you  NOT to.!!!! Would you do DATY on a girl with bad hygiene????? No, you would put your head down, and come right back up- liable to walk out- her feelings would be hurt too, but IT IS LIFE!!

Just face it, some people are not considerate enough to perform basic hygiene before an appt. Would you see me if I went three days w/ no bath? Huh? Would I be wrong for not taking a bath? Say I didnt believe in deodorant- Would you still wanna cuddle and kiss? Come on baby!! Lol Well babes, neither do WE! Okay! Walk a day in our shoes. Its all about respect and for some of you- you think its okay to lose that respect when dealing w/ us, and that should not be the case!

Be polite. I always shower and brush before a date sometimes at her incall before the action. I just ask that when I travel south of the navel that I dont get overwhelmed by the chicken of the sea. It cuts both ways. Please be clean, shaved, douched, and not smelling like an ashtray, Its nice to have toenails that wont nick you and fingernails that dont have six weeks of grime embedded. Also a nice touch is to cut the phone off during our time. Most guys want to find a steady reliable pt gf. Its a good thing when that happens.