select a lady to visit??   Yeah, there is a lot of info, reviews, websites, pics, posts......  What is the clincher???   I find the more I learn the harder it is.

I dont't usually see them.

Of course Roadie, you are right about the reviews, websites, pics, etc., so the clincher for me is to see how we communicate in the initial stages via PM, email, phone, etc. If we "click" with some fun, flirty & light-hearted dialogue I know it's going to be fun because we both feel more relaxed. If the provider is straight to the point, impersonal & generally indifferent........I move on.  This has paid big dividends for me personally as I have not had a bad experience if I stick to the ladies who participate on the board. That's why I appreciate the board participation by the ladies so much. I realize it is not fool proof, but it has sure worked for me.

just see them all! lol

For me the lady should have either Tonka, or Toy somewhere in her name.

Well guy that was my original mission on this  board.  Trouble is, that most every time in some way shape or form the words "I gotta do that again" comes to mind.

...let your boner I mean mood for the flavor you crave at the moment be your guide.  Blonde and skinny, athletic and dark, or bbw and caramel *coughs*.

Yeah Roadshow how to go about picking? Is there really any better place for a fella to feel like a kid in a candy store?

For me WHEN I have VIP status here on TER is the 2nd part of the review ratings....THE PERFORMANCE!

Isn't that what it all about Alfie?

I fondly, no I don't, I recall one of the most dazzling, amazing, incredible physical bodies I have ever been in a room with. Got there off a recommendation from a hobby friend. Gorgeous face too! Gal was a physical trainer and she was truly blessed.

After about 30 minutes I was about ready to give 911 a call cause this gal apparently was dead!!!!!!!!!!
Ok she wasn't really, doing a lot of backing tracking in this post, huh? It just seemed like she was dead and NOTHING I did stirred any sign of life from her AT ALL!

Oh I tried, look I have a skill, with this gal I might as well have been watching corn grow, that seemed like what she was doing!!!!!!! It was really a ego buster and I vowed driving back to my home THAT was the last time I was ever gonna have THAT happen to me again. It hasn't.

I am looking for a gal who wants to play a great game with me! The game is "I can make you feel better than you make me feel"! If successful then a mutally satisfying romp in the hay will happen instead of clock watching and the wonderment of seeing how well a gal can craft an upsell!!!!!!  LOL

The point is keeping the main thing the main thing focusing on the performance ratings will almost never let a man down.

Ok lets back up!!!!!!!  LOL  I do take a look from time to time at other boards and postings for the ladies! I will almost never decide to make the call if I cannot find enough info on a woman to almost guarantee my toes are gonna be curling soon after I get together with a gal.

Sometimes it happens when I am just looking over a gals website! If the gal I am referrring to reads this post she knows who she is! Most times one has to go about it in the educational route. Ok I do! Got to remember trying to describe how things fall into place for me, right? hehe

So I start running all the names and pics through the funnel and wind down to reviews. Got to check if there are enough reviews to make sure there is a pattern of excellence. Then I will take a closer look at the pics and we might be getting somewhere.

So bottom line the clincher is at the end of the research is this just a woman I have to be with? Just a simple question! This is followed by an attempt to see if I can get through their screening. Then on to see if the fantasy that has been brewing is matched and exceeded by the reality of spending some quality time and companionship with the chosen gal.

All boils down to what Helen Keller wrote once, "Life is a daring adventure, or nothing"!

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!!

ROTF  Mocha  is there a hint in there????  Even a dummy like me can pick up on that. lol

shifterp a man with the excellent skills you have??? And she was dead.  I am shocked.  You shouldhave done CPR.

I read the reviews and really they are all good, at least the ones I am seriously looking at. The websites are insightful.  I love a good website.  But I see a single pic that speaks to me and I go gaga. Or as has happened in the past few months a comment is made that is hot or deep or humorous.  And I say to myself "Self"  - That is what I call myself  - Self you gotta meet her.  Thus far the system works.  Of course I think we are working with high quality.  So there aint bad choices.  

But I was thinking about this and had to know what you guys do.  And now I know I am certifiable.

Mocha honey.  Your a lot of things.  Being  Innocent isnt one of them.  lol. (rolls his mustache)

Hmmmmm and just how shall I do that?? You know me...always something new up my sleeve!! Wink!! Countdown is on my dear!! Tick Tock Tick Tock!! Woo hoo!!

Just a side note Gentlemen.....Variety is a fabulous thing and it's just what the hobby gives you. All of us ladies bring our own unqiueness to the table and that's what makes us ALL special in our own way. When you find that one (or ones) that you truly connect with where you have the chemistry, physical attraction, maturity, intelligence, sensuality and friendship, the sexual chemistry between you will then be phenomenal!!! The sexual heights you can reach together will be limitless!! Having that one lady (or ladies) that may be your "home" per se being tried, trusted and true, is perfectly okay and quite a compliment to us as well. Search and you shall find!!!

So enjoy us all gentlemen....that's what we are all here for!!! Wink!!

Muah!
Toy

All I can say is I did my best!

I was able to find out from some other hobby friends they had the same experience.

Darn shame with a body like this gal has she could be a hobby superstar instead of a one and done er!

I am up to 5 pm's now! Wish folks would email till I get VIP status again!!!!!  LOL

Shifterp OUT!