I'm so goddam skinny, I only have one side. I think it's the left side. I have a pair of legs that look like they belong on an upright piano, and over the past few years, I've developed a slight pot belly. You know what? It's all okay. Those couple of extra pounds are bought and paid for. They're worth their weight in gold. I still exercise regularly, and aside from looking a bit like Charles Manson, I don't think I'm doing too bad for 58 years old.
And the ladies? I have seen ladies of many body types and sizes. I've had wonderful evenings with some petite ladies, and solid, muscular ladies, as well as large lovely ladies. Every single one of them has had her own "something special" to offer. I happily accepted those offers, and have had some oustanding evenings.
Not long ago, a 110 pound woman found out I am a size 16-18. Her comment was, "What does the b*tch weigh, 300 pounds?" I had to shake my head at the poor jealous thing. If only she knew it takes a lot more than a thin body to make a man happy, both in and out of bed.
Now I am familiar with the phobia many women, and even men, have about gaining weight. What they fear most, they revile or spurn. Having weighed 103 pounds before I had my two children, I remember that fear. It was generated by a father who adores teeny-weeny Asian women, and who called me "fat" at 130 pounds. (Mind you, 127 pounds is my optimum weight at 5'1").
I wonder how the human psyche can be so skewed. I don't suppose the woman I mentioned will ever be an estimator. 300 pounds would probably bring me in at around a size 36-38! Ohhh what a little round ball of dumplings I would be! LOL
How do you feel about your own body? Have you ever dealt with body image problems?
Do you think an escort should be one body type only?
Not sure if you're asking the guys or gals or both. So I'll respond. Yes, I recently became very aware of my high (for me) weight. I took up road cycling along with a little bit of dieting and have lost 23 of the 40 lbs I plan to lose. Yes, the ladies have noticed and it feels good. Should all escorts be one body type? LOL, that would be really boring wouldn't it. No, they should be the weight and build they want to be. If you think you're sexy, you probably are. AND no matter how sexy you think you are, you're not sexy to everyone.
As someone that's lost 33 of the 35 pounds I set out to lose, I'd say that thin is in! I know how much better I feel, and I've heard that I look better too.
I don't want to be rude to the bigger folks out there, but I don't want to have sex with them either.
I was just a measly buck-five before my only child. I owned my little A cups and I felt sexy.
I weighed my heaviest (excluding pregnancy) at 145 (5'1"). I felt sexy then too with big boobs and a big ass. Although I was considered unhealthy over 30% body fat.
I am at my happy medium right now at 120 and I feel sexy there too.
I have always felt sexy no matter what size I was. I even felt sexy when I was prego's.
But what is most important to me is movement. being able to run, play tennis, bike, put my legs behind my ears, touch my toes. U also am thankful to not have the health issues that come with obesity. Diabetes and heart disease to name a few.
One way to look at this. How about the well known TBD provider Kirsten who was a BBW. She must have dealt with the issue full front. In fact she had an operation to get rid of the problem, which only gave her even more health problems.
To me the key here is healthy.
If you are healthy and happy, seems to me that is most important.
LOL I can touch my toes and put them behind my ears too. Lots of good sex has a way of keeping one limber, along with Yoga conditioning. I can still run, (don't like tennis), do push ups and sit ups, and ride a bike. Being big does not mean one is not healthy, necessarily. There is no doubt it affects our health in a negative way. However, it does not totally incapacitate us.
Glad to hear that you are that limber and active. Hopefully you will be able to take off some of the pounds that seem to concern you before any of the many side effects hit you. Best of luck to you
I'm so goddam skinny, I only have one side. I think it's the left side. I have a pair of legs that look like they belong on an upright piano, and over the past few years, I've developed a slight pot belly. You know what? It's all okay. Those couple of extra pounds are bought and paid for. They're worth their weight in gold. I still exercise regularly, and aside from looking a bit like Charles Manson, I don't think I'm doing too bad for 58 years old.
And the ladies? I have seen ladies of many body types and sizes. I've had wonderful evenings with some petite ladies, and solid, muscular ladies, as well as large lovely ladies. Every single one of them has had her own "something special" to offer. I happily accepted those offers, and have had some oustanding evenings.
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