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If a girl has a review where the guy says, "seen a black male walk out of her room, but allher ads say No Black Males, may have been her pimp". He continued session but said she seemed distracted. Is this a HUGE red flag? The companion has about 7 decent reviews and none that are really bad. Just thought i'd ask someone who was a lot wiser to this
I'd avoid. Too many great choices to take a chance on a bad session. Actually a bad season would be the best case scenario.
Would you still see her if the review said"seen a white male walk out of her room" but all her ads say "no white males"? Would this be a red flag for you? As a clean cut professional black male with a phd, multi million dollar business owner, I admire providers who have the nerve to put in their ads no black males. Let me stress, this includes black and other minority providers that do this too.I would not see most of them anyway. It just saddens me that often men like me are judged before people even meet me. Until it happens to you, you will never understand how it feels to be stereotyped for being born a certain color and based on the actions of a few.
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but, you seem to lack self confidence. I am minority my self, don’t have Phd or multi-million dollar business but I don’t or ever have worried about bigotry.
I am fully aware that, I cannot change bigots in my life time or yours.
I do not have to claim anything, it's fact. Also, the purpose of b eing forth coming in my post is to show, regardless of your status in life, often all men of color are treated the same. Also this is not a self confidence issue. Intellectually, I think you miss read my post. If you also note in my post, I state I would not see most of them anyway and even mention women of color too. The point of the post is being prejudged before someone even meets you. Considering you only have three reviews, do you have enough experience to truthfully speak to this issue? Also, the post was not about changing bigots in my lifetime or yours. I think before you chime in, at least take the time to read a post before you assume what the post actually says. You know what it means to assume? I hope you do at least.
I am fully aware that, I cannot change bigots in my life time or yours.
Personally if I saw another guy leaving, black, white, or even one of those guys from Blue Man Group, I'd bail. Never know if its a setup, robbery or worse. Even if its just another client still pretty bad in my book. We all know there is no exclusiveness here but dang we don't really want to know about it!
I concur 100% with you. It should not matter what race or color the person leaving is. For me, it is a safety issue or I do not care to see a provider after she has had a previous appt. that is why I make all appoints very early. To put it another way, irequest their first appt as early as possible, this helps me in being first in most cases IMHO!
Yep! We all know it happens but who wants to see the proof? I usually get ladies to come see me from a little ways off, at least I know there's some time in between. Plus it's a much better illusion.
Fair to say I'm not a morning person!
xoxo,
Steph
Thought i may have goten a smart azz response...but didnt realize id get the likes of Jesse Jackson or Al Sharpton..lol...take that racial pliff crap somewhere else
Great response by a regressive when dealing with real world issues. Your response to thiis issue is hog wash at best. Not only that, but it really shows your intellectual level as well. You are the one that brought this up in a post and even mentioned race and since you did not get the response you thought you would get, you resort to name calling. I guess brother Al & brother Jesse are in the business of protesting on a f*** board now. Is it possible you could be an inbreed that has a defective gene pool that hinders you from any form of intellectual thought? Based on your response,the answer to my question is very easy to figure out!
With your credentials, you most likely have access to more pussy than the rest of us. There are women here who won't see me either for reasons I can not control. We can't be loved by everyone.
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First, i was born and raised in the great state of nc! However, the handle we chose for ter is very revealing, Oldted. The original intent of my response to another post was not to seek sympthany. If you would have taken the time to read it , as well as comprehend it, perhaps, your response would have been different. I am very clear in what I wrote.. However, out of respect for seniors, thank you for your response, sir. Good day!
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At that that's my take on his post. And handles are chosen for many reasons...
I understand why you are offended if the OP was racially profiling a man as a pimp because he was black.
Steph
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The nurse forgot to drop by the room with my meds yesterday.
I understand why you are offended if the OP was racially profiling a man as a pimp because he was black.
Steph
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I'm jealous of your daily sponge bath!
I am an inbreed now...lol...you wont ever understand equality because you my friend spend your life looking for racism.....discuss another post if you cant me asking a simple question about what someone else reviewed
Read your response. It states in part "...discuss another post if you can't me asking a simple question about what someone else reviewed." Enough said!
If ANY color male walks out of her incall location BEFORE an appointment , I would have suspicions that it's her pimp.....nuff said.
Why did you make this a race thing?
"Would you still see her if the review said"seen a white male walk out of her room" but all her ads say "no white males"? Would this be a red flag for you? "
YES, that is specifically what the question/explanation got at originally.
The girl's ad stated that she didn't see black men. The guy saw a black man leaving her room. If her ad. was truthful, then he wasn't a client. Which begs the question, who was he?
Considering the hobby we're talking about, it's very reasonable to think that he was either a pimp or protection. Not because he's black, but because we can rule out that he's a client if we believe her ad.
Of course there are other options. Hotel repair man. Friend who was in the neighborhood and stopped by for some other reason. Food delivery guy. Drug dealer dropping something off. She's a drug dealer and he's picking something up. I mean, there are all sorts of options. But considering what we're talking about, none of them are going to be particularly flattering of the man. But again, that's not because of his race. It's because of the overall situation and the information provided.
The guy who posted only mentioned that the guy in question was black because it showed information that conflicted with the ad. and led him the believe the guy was not a client.. and is someone else.
It really wasn't about race. If anything, it's more derogatory toward the women in the business since the first thing the guy went to after a man who was believed to not be a client left her room was that the man was her pimp. He could have been anyone to her. He could have just been a friend keeping her company on a trip.
All of that said... too many options to risk any situation in which you feel uncomfortable.
Black, white, Asian aside, a lot of those girls have pimps, dealers, boy friends they hang around with and it is best just to avoid them.
Thx...this is the kind of info im looking for
Wow, can't think outside the box can you? Oh, I forgot, that defective gene pool thing perhaps is at work! Lmao!
Bman76 of course. Sorry for confusion.
Truth is if that matters to ANYONE is this: we all have preferences.
Some people add an emotional response to our choices, preferences.Dumb immature aholes whio need to grow up and take responsibility for their CHOICES about how to fee about other peoples choices.
THAT is GROWN up BIG BOY MATURE shit! get jiggy with it!
I want to make this very clear, if anyone wants to listen and rise above the slop in the mudpit. If.
I have my preferences, ABSOLUTE, mine and only mine for me.
If I shared them here SOME PEOPLE WOULD CHOOSE to take my preferences and take offense.
Dumbasses. I know who I want to bang, you do not have to bang them SO WHY DO YOU CARE?
And if I do not want to bang who you like BASED ON WHATEVER, WHY DO YOU CARE???????????????????????????
It is my smallish weiner I will stick it where I want it! Please stop being so fixated on my smallish but curvy wiener! PLEASE STOP IT IS CREEPING ME OUT!
I mean no offense but they are going to choose to take it that way,
Example, I am a meat eater. A Radicalized Vegan is gonna see me chomping on some Prime Rib and be horrified.
What does MY PREFERECNE have to do with that VEGAN?
NOTHING! The Vegan's response is based on her/his previous experiences and what they think my preference means to them and about them. Ain't about me AT ALL! About what they are telling themselves bout my preferences mean to them! NOT ABOUT ME, you getting it?
Here is the way out of that madness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I DO NOT GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOUR PREFERENCES, be it what you want to eat, bang, spend time with, your choice of TV shows ANYTHING, ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I personally have celiacs disease. If I eat gluten I break out all over and it SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!
I DO NOT GIVE A FU.. if you eat gluten!!!!!!!!!! You eating gluten don't cause me to have any type of physical reaction at all. I DID NOT EAT IT. If you are having an eamotional response to someone else's preferences that is YOU CHOOSING TO DO THAT! Make a different choice.
THE WAY OUT IS OTHER PEOPLE"S PREFERENCES ARE NONE OF YOUR F...ing BUSINESS!
If YOU CHOOSE to make it your business take the responsibility of YOUR CHOICES!!!!!!!!!! Period.
Color, sex, creed MAKES NO DIFFERENCE!
I will say this, PAY ATTENTION!
IF others preferences cause a strong reaction from YOU, GIVE UP THE HOLIER THAN THOU SOB STORY!!!!!!!!!!!! You let their preference bother you! Guess what CHANGE YOUR MIND and do not let their preference bother you and it WONT!
They can be The Big Dude in the Klan and if you do not give a shit about their preferences IT WONT BOTHER YOU! Or they could be the Leader of the Black Panthers.....SO WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Grow up and take responsibility for WHAT YOU SAY BOTHERS YOU and CHANGE it if you do not like the way it makes you feel.
You aint ever gonna change them so change what you can YOUR MIND.
You want a sob f....ing story! I was adopted, even the woman who birthed me did not want me. I grew up in an alcoholic home, am an alcoholic and a drug addict, short, smallish wiener, not much hair left. Renters stole my washer dryer and stove when they were being evicted Monday.
Boo-hoo! None of you understand! WWWHHHHAAAAAAAAAA WHINE WHINE WHINE!
Total and COMPLETE BULLSHIT! Yeah you do not understand but you got your own story SO WHAT?
IT IS NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO ME BUT HOW I CHOOSE TO PRECEIVE IT AND WHAT I DECIDE TO DO ABOUT IT!.
What I do is thin about how sexy my ATF is and how great a time we are gonna have the next time I am lucky enough to spend some time with her. Not other peoples like and dislikes! None of my f...ing business.
I got my preferences and I LOVE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am keeping them and if you got a problem with them I sincerely hope you catch alcoholism so you can hit bottom and get some help with your issues.
Your preferences do not effect me at all unless I choose to let them. ANY OF THEM, race color creed, food sex partners, NONE OF IT?
I suggest you do not let others preferences bother you.
If you do I got this for you *** that is the worlds smallest violin playing my heart bleeds for you.
This goes for ANYONE reading this involved in the post above whatever side of this bullshit you were on. Grow the f up, folks on BOTH sides on this horseshit.
I Concur
Shifterp OUT Back to the Present, where it is all happening! Best place to consciously choose thoughts! Happy Erotic thoughts of my ATF! Goodness she is SEXY!
Not to be rude or disrespectful, however, good old standard English, grammar, and prose go along way. The hobby community and ter members deserve better! This is insulting to the American education system and the good ole USA specifically! The greatest country the world has ever produced deserves better! However, thank god for freedom of speech!
My Momma has a PHD in English was my English teacher in college.
Problem was I was drunk most of the time and not paying attention!!!!!!
Apparently!
LOL
Want to be a literalist, try a dictionary or a bible! hehe
What did you understand about what I said and how can it benefit you, not the words I chose, right? Better question? You looking at the forest or the trees?
SP back to NOW!
I'll give you credit. Read my other post in your "well" thread. Its very clear! I'm at ohare airport, headed to Jamaica until aug 2. I am done until then!
Any guy coming out of the room will cause me to cancel.. PERIOD.
Pimp or client, why would you even bother? If he's a pimp your hard earned money will be going into his hands, not hers and if it is a pimp she's most likely harboring drugs in her room or being forced somehow. I would hope that no one on this board would see someone if they knew she had a pimp, we really need to stamp that problem out. If he was a client I still wouldn't see her, because she's obviously running some kind of assembly line and probably doesn't take the time to clean up. Like someone said with all the options out there why would you even bother?
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