Dude the average male penis is between 5 and 5 and 1/2 inches.  Just because you see male stars with big dicks doesn't mean you are small.  And all African American males do not have big parts.  There are some ladies who are size queens and some who claim to love big ones but 90% of the ladies I know and speak too don't really enjoy big ones.  Most of them have issues keeping them erect.

my experience

well, thicker ones can be ridden better.  I lost my greek virginity to a short  thick one as the long candle size can cause the stomach ache.

just bump and grind more than pound it in.

I think I need to chime in on this....

Size has never been a issue to me because its not about your package but the way you deliver that package to me (giggles) I know you guys have heard the saying "It's not the size of the boat that counts, its the motion in the ocean" well that is so true.....

Miss America has spoken!!