I understand how you feel.
Consider for a moment how the girl might feel.

I am 52 years old and I started 4 years ago. When I was naive... just a few years ago..I had this thing in my head that my clients would look like RICHARD GERE and I was going to be PRETTY WOMAN. MY first social I went to, I thought I was going to be in the midst of "Raining Men".

Well it's not at all like THAT

Quite the opposite.

I have no idea what you look like Tigerwoody. But I can guess that for some ladies they might have a tough time adjusting to the "Stature" of some of their clients. I am thinking the younger the provider is...the tougher for her to "Swallow" some guys. The money might make it easier...but it will always be YMMV until they are able to accept you for who you are.

Even I had a tough time at first. The first few times I had a fella who was 300 lbs or so..I didn't know how to handle myself. But My brain and my heart got it. And I think that comes with maturity.
If I were a guy I would want to be with a WOMAN who enjoyed being with me regardless of the hair on my back, the extra pounds around my middle or the age on my license.
Just because you give a girl a gift does not mean she can deliver. Be realistic. Consider HER....when you make your choice.
And yes I get it. Some guys like em young...but I also get it that for some YOUNG ladies it IS tough...even with all that money. Just consider the OLD Fellars who have young hot chicks for wifes or lovers...and everyone thinks it and says...She is only in it for his money.
It is what it is. Try another flava.

-- Modified on 9/6/2008 12:17:23 PM

Part of the game

I see where you are coming from, earlier in my "hobby career" it might have bothered me, but now I'm at the point where I don't take anything in this hobby too personally.

For instance, when I first started going to strip clubs there was one dancer I was really into where I started to have feelings for her.  When I learned she was doing things for others but not for me, it did bother me. When she went back to her abusive boyfriend, it really bothered me.  As time passed, I realized I was just a customer to her.  If fact, I'm so lucky nothing ever became of us.

Another example, I used to have 2 different providers who would text me when they were in town.  At the time it stroked my ego.  One of them stopped texting me.  No biggie. I don't take it as she is unattracted to me.  

At my corporate job, I treat some customers better than other customers.  So naturally it doesn't surprise me that some ladies treat me better or worse than other hobbyists.  I'm much more realistic now in what I expect from strippers and providers.

That said, I am a little competitive so I would  wonder what the other person is doing that I'm not doing so that I can up my game if need be.