I don't know what to do and need your help. I realize the importance of reviews and have used TER for years when I am thinking about meeting a lady. My question comes from trying to be sensitive to the ladies yet honest in my assessment for the men.

Here is a 'for instance'. I visited with someone not too long ago and we had a very enjoyable time. She is attractive and delivered better than I expected. Here is my issue. Her complexion was a bit rough and she used a bit too much makeup to cover. She's a cute girl but her teeth could use a good cleaning (I love a nice bright white smile). Finally, as we were exploring she was a touch less than fresh.

I like her and would probably see her again so I don't know how to be honest in my review without hurting her feelings. Any thoughts?  Thanks.

-- Modified on 2/12/2010 2:13:34 PM

After mentioning three things that you were less than pleased with, you still say that you would see her again. That, in itself, tells me that none were unbearable. Now, what makes it particularly touchy is the fact that you asked the questions under your real handle. This might have been a plausible use of an alias. Anyone making a mental note of this might be looking for your next review. Bottom line is that there really isn't any way to convey all of this honestly, without hurting the lady's feelings.

If I had to suggest anything, I would say hold off on the review. Think about mentioning your concerns to the lady directly, when you ask for your next appointment. Of course, this may also backfire. Either way, the lady's feelings may be hurt, but telling her, rather than telling everyone who has access to the reviews may be a little less painful. If the next meeting proves to be an improvement, then write your review.

On my site it says for you to tell me what you like or dislike. I don't want to read it in a review later.. I want to learn from my mistakes or experiences.. When I book a Sub/Dom session I ask what are your limits, as I'm still learning about you..When my sessions are over, I like to hear your feedback in an e-mail so I can better myself for others or our next visit.. I think you should tell her in an e-mail. I'm sure you can word it where she is not too upset.. Especially if you tell her you would like to see her again if she would just change a few things.. Also you want to help her improve her business..

PS> Excuse my spelling just not one of my best assetts. I ask for a small dictionary for X-mas, but Santa forgot that one.. .LOL

Edited for misspelling

-- Modified on 2/14/2010 2:08:03 PM

Thanks for the thoughts. After an earlier suggestion I switched to an alias. I have been very honest in my previous reviews so I didn't want anyone to diminish them because of this question.

This is the first time I've encountered this type of scenario.

Thanks for your help.