first appointment: she was 11min late (technically 16min late), I left.
second appointment: cancelled due to her family issue.
third appointment: conflict of schedule, not from my side.
forth appointment: conflict of schedule, not from my side.

In EVERY appointment with the same lady I sent a confirmation on the day of the appointment,
she wanted to change or cancel it. What odds are like that? four time straight!

Well, I believe that she and I have nothing to connect, like someone you never know in your entire life. Just my luck~~~

Probably wouldnt help in this case but I confirm the day before.  Makes everyone feel better with no questions.  Specially when you schedule a few weeks out.  Kinda like let us all jog our memory.  

But I think you done your best and move on ,  the ocean is full of fish.  You will get another date, a better one even.

It happens, probally a good indication not worth the effort. Sometimes the package just has a nice wrapper.