Why in the hell would he "give you up" after 2 years? I'm sure he's seen someone else in the past 2 friggin years! He needs to find his balls and zip his mouth.

Grrrr...

Steph

You can still reach me by email for now.

The website is down.
I may change my number.

I have an angry wife on my hands...

Gentlemen.. I understand the need to save your ass but really, why throw the other person under the bus too

Men should never ever admit to anything.  and if you do it wa Ingrid from Denmark that was passing through.  

Jessica sorry to hear about it.  If you want, I will send her some lumber.  Then she can build a bridge and get the hell over it.

Seriously take care of yourself.

and threw me right under the bus.
she is making all kinds of threats..

He has told me. He has not a clue how crazy she is but he has to save his own ass...
I have not laid eyes on the man in 2 years...

2 years????  I was thinking regular.  Good grief,  once upon a time I thought it would be great to be a companion,  now not so much.

Hope things calm down for you soon, my thought is wtf was he thinking... DENY DENY DENY!

As my ex stood in front of me with 8 of 12 printed pages from my site, I stood straight faced & denied denied denied. As he waved my gallery page at me, my response was "Wow, yea that's my picture but how the heck did it get there?" lol  


I would NEVER admit to anything to anyone regarding what I do & who I spend time with.

and leave no damage behind.

He should grow a set.  I would like to think if I was ever in that situation I would either STFU or MAN UP to the wanderings but name no names.

If we can help, let us know.

Sphinx, we have a mission.  If you decide to accept this mission bla bla bla.  We sir need to create a new idenity for MJ.  New name, new phone, new website.  Remake her from head to toe.  Wait a minute --- she looks damn good so forget that last.

This happens on a monthly basis for me. Just ignore it. There is nothing she can do...I go right on about my business...block emails...phone numbers. It's part of this game we have to deal with.

This is a main reason why I do not have a permant incall location.


I wish the best for you Jessica....Just do not do ANY appointments out of your incall location...travel if you have to to other cities to work to make ends meet! There's really nothing she can do..it's all hearsay if she does call LE...but they could always watch your incall and make trouble for you.

Let me know if you need anything!

I did not meet him at my place..
that is my one saving grace.. He has not a clue where it is..
but I still worry....

Twice..I dont answer to them, I just ignore it, one sent me a lot of ugly email and threats but I just changed my email, my website address and my phone number.. I think all of us ladies will go through it at least once.

Ladies this is going to become a common problem.  With the readily available technology, it would be very easy for a suspicious SO to track her man right to your front door.

You need to come up with quick comebacks for situations like this; for example, “I wouldn’t see him when he told me he had tested positive for HIV”.  Or “I have never seen him----are you sure he isn’t using me as a cover for his affair with his gay boyfriend.”  Or "That SOB lied to both of us; he told me he wasn't married----why just last week he proposed marriage to me.

The objective is to confuse her and throw the ball back in his court.  Also be very sympathetic to her for being married to such a sleezeball.

Jeez, and I am always worried whether my cover story is going to work tonight when I walk in the door----or what cover story can I invent for next week's fun and games.  I would never be able to CMA for what happened two years ago.  I'd just use a very believable (for me anyway) "I can't remember that far back."

You should NEVER reply...with ANY kind of response. Just ignore it..and block the email address.

Not being rude...but this is part of being a provider and really...it happens everyday...

the great advice, well wishes and concern..

I suspect all will pass. This is a first for me and I very much appreciate everyone's help and advice.
I am still here and am not going anywhere..

I really hope this does all smooth out for you Jessica.  It's too bad he wasn't more careful.  
I believe in taking all precautions are imperative not only for my own protection but for yours as well.  I would never want to be the cause of such angst.  Hobbies are meant to be enjoyed and beneficial for all parties involved.  

If you just need someone to chat with, let me know.  I know it's been a while since we have been together, but that doesn't mean I can't be there for you when you need it.