This is directed at those providers who do CBJs--STOP IT!

Ronn_...., I was thinking about the above when your post showed up)
Perfect lead in to helping these lil ladies help us fellows have a more enjoyable experience for our donations for their time, should two adults decide that they like one another well enough to take the time to another level)
There is, as the old saying goes, more than one way to skin a cat, don't know where this saying comes from, but is kinda, sorta offensive to those who enjoy the company of the lil fuzzy things^..^
If you ladies have an absolute fear of having a sausage totally engulfed how about following the steps below. I would be willing to work with the ladies who do such, rather than have one of those pinchy, sensation=killing guy hats suffocating my buddy Johnson(
1. Go to Miss Foxy's website and blow up that pretty face with those seductive eyes and red lips making like she is gonna get after your Johnson:/;P~~~ Make sure your partner can see her on your screen.  
2. Have another computer screen directed at your partner with the volume turned up of a lady giving a sloppy BBBJ, with a smile on her face;P~~~
3. Get on your knees(pillow, of course) between partner's legs and  coo and TALK DIRTY) Soft hands roaming over the package, of course ;P~~~
4. Now for the cou de gra(sp?) Your tongue DOES NOT HAVE TO BRUSH OVER the volcano opening, just tickle the boys, while all the above is going on, and go up and down the shaft, licking, nibbling, kissing, AND SLOBBERING like a rabid FOXY all over his lil buddy, but BELOW the volcano opening.
5. There you have a nut in a nut shell----NO CBJ needed to get a response, o, yeah, put on some clear safety glasses to keep the "lava" out of your eyes in case he blows---LOL, OR, if you are doing this to just get his lil buddy ready for some CG, RCG, doggie in the window,Mish, etc., mission accomplished)~~~

I believe if I really wanted a steak, I'd go to a steakhouse. Not a drive-thru.

To me, seeing a lady with very limited options is kind of like using another person to masturbate. And only slightly more satisfying. Sometimes not even that. And for the few ladies I've seen like this, it was obvious they weren't enjoying me, my company, or what we were doing. Zero personal connection. Needless to say, they didn't see me again. And from what I've seen, these ladies aren't around for long, unless they are fortunate enough to find clients who like lousy sex! lol. I know each lady has different comfort levels regarding safety, but it seems to me the very things that would make the act more enjoyable for her (i.e. manual and oral stimulation, kissing, etc.) are the things she is unwilling to partake in. I don't get it. But I'm not a woman, so what the hell do I know? Ladies, would you care to way in on this one?