Well, actually two somethings, but first things first.  Julia posted a photo sometime this morning, of an outfit that a date had requested that she wear, along with a question.  It was so freaking hot that I just sat and stared trying to think of some clever reply, and by the time I fumbled around and actually typed a reply, the post had been pulled.  So that was one thing and I am still thinking about that photo

The other thing, and here is the real question... How often do you guys request that the ladies wear something specific for a date?  What is your favorite?  Ladies, what do most guys request?  What is the strangest request that you have had?  Any other thoughts or stories?

As for me, I guess I am easy (pun intended) because whenever I am asked, I generally just request that the lady wear whatever makes her feel good, or feel sexy.  I have not been disappointed so far!  Most of you ladies could wear a sack and look hot as hell, and besides I am hoping that whatever it is won't stay on too long anyway  But hey, after this morning I may be leaning more toward a request in the future.

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I said the other day the fellas ought to listen to ET!

I cannot agree more with letting a lady choose what she likes most.

Now thing is that makes perfect sense to me, MAYBE gals prefer

some DUDE telling her what he wants? Who knows? Speak up

gals?

I must say I don't really care all that much. The way I figure it

whatever it is it ain't staying on long. Having said that I DO SINCERELY

appreciate that a woman takes the time to do what she does to be sexy!

I mean I am there for intense mutual pleasure not a lingerie show! Just

saying!

And of course having said that the last two gals I visited with did look

incredibly awesome! One is nice white teddy, the other this school girl

thingy.

Anyway JUST DEEPLY appreciative of women in general, really wish I had

one with me right now and I would show her the depth of my sincerity.

Of all the great experiences I have had, life, successes and acheivements,

chemical experiences just right, right when you get them mixed up right,

do remember though I been sober and clean right at 29 years. Nothing

comes close to the feeling I have with the fairer sex. Just the greatest thing

since sliced bread!!!!!  Thank you ladies!!!!!!!! Wear whatever the hell you want!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!  Hey ET, we are visual creatures aren't we??  LOL

Seriously though, I can't imagine.  As hot as you looked in that photo, the outfit would seem to me to be more appropriate for after rather than during meal preparation.  That is exactly my point about wearing what you are comfortable in, resulting in a better time for both parties.  But, to each his own, which is why I asked for other peoples opinion.  

And, I salute your spirit and dedication!

Church Lady!!!!!!!!?????!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now THAT thought will make some damn wood stand straight up
let me tell ya!!!!!!!

Who Concurs?????

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!!

it was one of my B-day appts.

I don't see a problem with outfit requests especially if it is something she is wearing in one of her pictures or something simple like lingere, a robe, dress that she already owns.

and found it is so cool to find out what they are wearing.  Sometimes they are wearing nothing but a smile and that works for me too.  But for me and I dont know why but a lady in a dress is so hot knowing it is coming off.

I want to be Ward, read my paper, smoke my pipe, and listen to you talk about your beaver...

Now that you mention it I would be your Darren...

but only if you can wiggle your nose, lol!  Darren was such a goofball, but Sam was always really hot.  Reminds me of another photo I saw recently, just missing the cotton tail...  well almost.

you're both HOT!!!!!!!!!!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

I feel most comfortable and am most easily aroused when the lady obviously feels comfortable with whatever she chooses to wear. While I like to think that I'm as visually aroused as anyone, there's no way I am qualified to select outfits that make a woman look sexy. Every woman is different, and there's no one-size-fits-all formula for creating sensuality.  I truly appreciate it whan a woman has put thought into what she wears, but frankly the things that wind my spring the fastest are her eyes and her smile and how she expresses herself. The truly interesting and sensual woman can make me melt no matter what she chooses to wear.

Re: Now that you mention it I would be your Darren...

More than a goofball, Darren was gay.  Imagine having access to that - and not being aroused....