Here's my take on this: If you're single, a provider going to your place should be no problem. If you're married and you're trying to sneak around/invite a provider to the home you and your partner share, you're putting the provider at risk. There was a time (July of last year), I went to a guy's home for a ...rendezvous and guess who walks in during the ...b part? His wife! Mind you before I booked the appointment, he told me his wife died of cancer 3 years ago. I'll end the story there and say Guys, If you're married and you hobby - don't shit where you eat! OP, This may not apply to you but it's just a reminder to the wonderful married gents here.

Take that into consideration. To answer your questions.

1.) It depends on your situation. If I were a single hobbyist, I'd always want the lady to come to me.
I'm lazy and driving itself is sometimes a hassle for me lol. I would be very nervous about going to a stranger's place - especially with the nature of this business where you never know what's waiting for you behind the door. On the flip side, I understand some providers are ..not all there. I wouldn't want a stranger coming to my house/knowing where I live. Some guys worry about their neighbors .. but who cares - make em jealous .

2. A great provider is a great provider no matter where the appointment is taking place.

Last but not least, I'm guessing you're worried about LE. Fact of the matter is, LE can get you at anytime. You never really know a provider's situation/who's following her/who's watching you. Just screen, interact with the board members and let the big head do the thinking (most of the time), not the little one and you'll be just fine.

xoxo,
Z

My 3 answers  Yes.     Yes, she feels more in control.      Yes

Now for some thoughts.

First of all is your safety.  Where do you feel the most comfortable?  I generally am happiest with incalls because I trust the ladies I see.  Even the ones I am seeing for the first time I have researched enough so that I am confident they have no intent to harm me.

The thing you need to remember is that most of the women here are using hotels.  For them, I'm just guessing here, it's like an outcall.  It's not their home turf either.  I'd call it a neutral location that she is providing.

Outcalls at your home could be a hassle.  As Zarah put nicely, I will state bluntly.  If you are married, don't shit where you eat.  Your wife WILL find out and you WILL be punished.  Either emotionally, mentally, or physically, or in combination.  Second point here.  If you're single, how clean is your place?  You might be different than the normal guy and have a spotless man cave but it would take me a solid week of cleaning to be comfortable inviting a beautiful woman to share my bedroom.

If you prefer outcall, you might be better off renting a hotel room and bringing her to you there.  Great option for a single guy.  If you are married,  let her get the room and you reimburse her.  You'll have control of the location and there will be no paperwork trail back to you.

Also, incall is not always priced less that outcall.  It depends on the lady.

So the question you asked is one that only you can answer.  Look at all the options and make your decision.

Thats my story and I'm sticking to it.

Good luck