What do you gain from the relentlessness ???

I wish I had more free time, but I am thankful to run a successful business with many employees depending on me and vica versa.

The last time you ran an ad in the Carolinas on TER was 3 years ago. Help us to understand what is going on.

This message is for the men, Most of which are TER members  

???

So I'm wondering what your post is all about. I don't see any ads for you visiting the Carolinas on TER and I hope no one is bothering you. Are you okay? As a lady in the biz I've experience it myself from time to time, but certainly not a huge amount from the wonderful gentlemen here on TER.  

The Ter members who have contacted me are the leaders of the time wasting regardless of  where I advertise

Sorry you're dealing with time wasters, but don't lump all TER guys into that group. Steph didn't mean any harm, no need for snark.

Personally Katrina seems angry to me.  

When some things are better kept to ones self. Like that rant.

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Thank you to Steph and Gabby coming to the defense of the Carolina gents! I'm sure there are time wasters among us like everywhere else but to generalize all of us in a disjointed rant cannot be taken seriously.
Thanks again, ladies!

Sassy can be a good thing so after her rudeness to me and her basically calling out the NC guys on TER, I'd say she's being very salty! And that's putting it nicely!

And YOU are on my "must do" list. Looks like I'm gonna have to plan another trip to the Queen City, hopefully in September!

It does NOT however make me want to keep it. lol

I was surprised how many Ter members contacted me hence the reason for this post

Yes "DUDE" I am addressing the many Ter members who contacted me  

It needed to be addressed

and why do angry bitches always confuse harsh language with anger?

you are babbling about?  Jeez! Calm down!

More time wasters LMAO!!!!! 😂😂😂

Doesn't bother me at all

Because they gave me that info when they replied to my advertisement

Not just some guy who sees you *wherever* you are advertising and happens to have a membership on TER. IMO you are ranting to the wrong guys! But please continue to dig...

The men who contacted me gave me their Ter ID names, perhaps about 16  

I address this to Katrina.
Lady, what...in...the....blue hell.....are....you...on!?!?!?
What gives you the right to judge us NC hobbyists as a whole? I haven't seen an ad on TER nevertheless even heard of you before. You have no right to judge the hobbyists on TER if you don't advertise on TER. I'm guessing you use the doggie site or some other TER wannabe site for those with low standards. Yes, there are some time waster hobbyists (some of whom are on TER). But don't let a few bad apples ruin your impression on us hobbyists. You're being judgemental making false assumptions without actually looking into the facts. Maybe if you got to know us better, you wouldn't feel the same way about us. It's because of despicable women like yourself that I became a hobbyist. I got tired of hanging around women like you, so I mad one of the boldest and best decisions in my life. I've met many providers who are intelligent and open minded. I'm more different than most hobbyists based on the fact that I'm the youngest hobbyist in the carolinas. And even though most of the women you see on here prefer to see men that are only 35 and up, they were willing to spend their time with me. And for you to come along to falsely judge us TER hobbyists while also give providers a bad name , it's just plain despicable. I highly recommend you think about what you've said. After reading what you've said, I can honestly say that you won't be hearing from me or any other hobbyists in The Carolinas .  
Bye Katrina..........

I can respond if I want to, if you can't grasp what I'm saying (that the guys who frequent this board probably aren't even who you are talking about), then by all means keep complaining on the board about the Carolinas guys.

I even tried to understand where she was coming from and she got rude! I can only imagine how many DNS lists she's made in the last 24 hours.  

The mentality Ha Ha Ha

Thanks for your feedback

The ego's LOL

I'm new to this area, but not to the business.  Maybe it has something to do with how you handle yourself.  (It usually does.)

You have no idea about my accent but please continue to insult people on this board. BTW not everyone here is from the south!  Now who is being ignorant (hint you are). I started out being nice to you. Damn woman...

and then EVERYONE should pull an NCNS.  

As a woman I'm disgusted at the vile language and harsh put downs of this woman. She simply stated a concern with a particular area and, and suddenly bitch and all sort of explicitives started flying. Is this board run by men who will slap and beat women for having a bad day? Way to kick someone down!

Really, how hypocritical of you considering what comes out of you mouth. This is just ONE of your rants with the foulest of foul language in it. There are many more...

that you pull the trigger, lol? One thing is consistent with you. Whether it's Denver, Florida, DC, or wherever YOU are, you have the same problem. It never changes with you!

How about this gem from just a few hours ago

Perhaps I've just been fortunate, or maybe I do my research, but with only two exceptions over the years, this has been by and large a pretty polite hobby.  The providers I have met, and the few gentlemen, have been an amazingly considerate group...particularly with regard to time.  So then something like this post (and the equally bizarre thread on the Florida Board) comes around and all I can do is laugh and move on.  

yeah....isn't that an image to stick with you....

Riiight! Now her rant I posted where she's using THE most vile language, well I'll let you be the judge of what's "ghetto"!

The definition of insanity is (ya'll know)...Read link below!

I rarely post

I Hope they appreciate you

Damn Straight!

Omg can't believe you all dredge up posts from years ago. This is not the platform for anyone who wants to keep their self esteem intact.

Providers tour here and don't have a huge issue with timewasters.  It's obvious they are doing something right and you are doing something wrong.  Try taking some personal responsibility and ask yourself why the people who contact you in particular are time wasters.  Blaming your problems on a group of people never solves them.

Agreed. I get the feeling that the OP has maybe just had a string of NC/NS or Timewasters and at the height of her frustration thought she could vent on this discussion board where others have vented often before, on both providers and clients sides.  

Oh my, this whole thread went so south so fast.  I hope everyone is well, especially our swell Carolina fellas, and our fine Carolina ladies! Everyone have a wonderful rest of your week and take care! I love our Carolina fellas!

but I wasn't looking for a fabricated trainwreck. Same shit and same shit kickers as on the General Board. They get to insult and attack people they THINK THINK THEY KNOW based on an OP they have little interest in ... except to create a train wreck ... hookers and johns holier than thou ...  

See! Three years and she is just now finding the time to post because of the time wasters.

But I will say, I have had quite a few last minute cancelations.  A few being 3 hour appointments. My last one 3 hour appointment did not pay my cancelation fee.    
Any time I have to cancel like when I broke my ankle, I offered to extend the appointment if they rebooked.  Always make the best of life and I enjoy the nice ones I do meet and thank the wonderful Carolina men I have met.