I am almost 60 (have been told I look 46) and have been enjoying this new hobby for awhile. Most of my dates have been with ladies in their mid to late 40's. I have found few providers my age that are still active, I know of 1 on the eastern seaboard of the U.S.

My problem is I sometimes find it difficult to "continue" after 10 minutes or so. I have been thinking about wearing a "device" to help with that, i.e. a c...k r..g.

My question is this. Do you ladies ever have men do that? Is it acceptable? Or is it time for me to retire from the hobby also?

I think it would be perfectly acceptable, especially if you asked her if she minded right before you put it on. There are some models out there with features that can add to both parties' enjoyment, in fact...

xx
Sabrina

You could probably be helped by getting in shape.  Go to a used bookstore and get "The Canadian Air Force Guide to Physical Fitness." It's definitely old school, but if you can do a light version of these workouts your stamina will increase.  You know those Canadians once had a world class military.

i agree: getting in shape, having your blood pressure checked, as well as your prostate are all good things to have done...

"Energizer bunny" wanna be)

Yes, in shape, will help---I got you beat in time on this earth by a good decade( If you see reviews, you will see that the young ladies seem to have a good time dancing with me. I wear myself out putting their enjoyment before my own, but boy O boy do I enjoy that cardio workout for as long as it lasts) In addition to cardio and strength workouts, I discovered the girly raincoats that feel like the real thing and that more than anything keeps me putting one foot in front of the other one. I did not get much benefit from the "rings" but some do, sooooo, ( wear them 20-30 mins at most) it's a circulation thing)try all three of the above, as well as ladies who love to dance) Thinking that you are old will affect your performance!!! The mental part of the dance is VERY important.

Not meaning to threadjack but...

Julia, I find that very exciting that you have those "toys" available.  I've wanted to try things like that but wasn't sure about going out and purchasing to find out it wasn't my thing.  Maybe I need to set up a "discovery" appointment with you.  

it has little to do with exercise and strength conditioning.  i'm soooooo tired of hearing that song and dance.  it is a fallacy people.  contrary to popular belief, and what society wants to push on people, slow metabolism (and low libido) can't be solved with exercise.  and it's not necessarily an issue of stamina either.  i do construction work, have since 1993.  i do hard manual labor, since 1993.  i do not over eat, i get plenty of exercise and muscle building activities on the job for 10 hours a day.  yet i am over weight and by appearance out of shape and have been half my life.  at the age of 35 i was doing the job of what it now takes 3 helpers of the age of 20 to do.  even now (45) i am stronger than them (can lift more, for longer period of time), and i have greater stamina.  i routinely out work them on a daily basis.   every time i turn around they are gasping for air while i'm still going strong.   but with all this, i know i can't hold a candle to them when it comes to sex.  it's difficult to get aroused and stay aroused, and gets more difficult as i get older.   my libido is dropping, which sucks because it's always been outstanding.  up into my 30s i could double cum, wait 15 mins, and get round 3 going, but not now.  then, i could climb on top, look down at junior and say "let's go" and he'd pop up, lol.  now it takes more stimulation, and with some providers you don't get that stimulation.  doesn't take much, little kissing on the neck, kissing on lips, some holding, etc., but some providers aren't capable of carrying this out.  
i don't know what the answer is, but it's not exercise and get in shape. lol.

But I guess it is different strokes for different folks.

Is it a fallacy or is it just phallic?

I absolutely agree.  I am in my late 50s and I can tell you it doesn't get easier after your 40s!  I am a very fit sea-kayaker and golfer.  I can paddle my 17' boat for hours and I hit a drive 275 yds last week.  So I am not weak or out of shape, but have definitely slowed down in the bedroom department the last few years.  The little blue pill (and his relatives) works for me pretty well and I highly recommend the pharma route for older guys who can take them - but lately even finishing once takes some time and effort and the pill doesn't make that happen any faster.  Ladies (mostly in Atlanta where I used to live) have been great and I suppose they see my problem all the time with older guys, but doubt I am one of their favorite sessions any more.

Growing old ain't for sissies - I just can't wait for the 60s - but I suppose its better than the alternative.

Re: I have a bag full of goodies you'd love - you know where to find me! xo

Julia, The last time I saw you I had no need for one and I can not imagine a man that would when he is with you. I doubt any man ever has when seeing you.

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The gel really helps with staying hard.

But most important, search for the provider who can get you really hard.

I found that there are some providers who can only get me semi-hard and some really rock hard.
Call it chemistry.   So, continue that search for that lady who can get your system up and running.
If you have not found that lady, continue the search.

Your ATF may not be the prettiest or most beautiful, but she's the one who gets your tool
to stay the 'hardest' and 'longest'.