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I think it's hot when a lady posts/emails links to scenes she enjoys watching.  Sort of gives a different twist to the relationship.  Good way to set the table for the kind of encounter she prefers - soft and slow, or aggressive and passionate...or both.  Or an excellent way to spice up a future repeat performance!  I think any gentleman with an imagination would enjoy an email from a Lady saying "Next time I see you, this is what I want."

I get chills just thinking about it, honestly.

I do not know if this is a topic that has been beaten to death or not, if it has then we can let this thread die quickly.

I am simply asking what are your thoughts on porn during your time together. Ladies, do you like it and why? Guys, do you like it and why?

I have only been with one lady that had it on when I got to her place and she insisted that we leave it on. I stayed because her reviews were for the most part great. It was a huge turn off for me. She was really into what was on the TV and I could not focus on us because she was turned on by the porn. Yes, maybe some of you are thinking she needed the porn to be with me and that is fine if you feel that way. But I felt she was more into the porn than she was into me. I do not want it on when we are together, I do not need it to be turned on. I have never done it again and never will. I have had other ladies ask if I wanted it on and I simply say "no thank you, I came here to be with you not the ladies on the TV".  

I would love to hear thoughts from both sides. If some of the ladies need it on to be with the guy then I simply know if I one day am that guy it is time for me to hang it up for good....

I don't want to watch it with everyone. I think it depends on the comfort level between the couple and chemistry.........

I also like porn but it's more of a private thing. Everytime I watched porn with a client I just feel odd, as I do with the dirty talk requests.  I find it difficult to do somethings with a client that I'd never do in real life.

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I can ignore the visuals, but the sound is annoying. The only squealing I want to hear is the provider who is under me or on her knees.

Mute is a good option..  
I am with you.. I am not a fan of the fake, sounds etc..
Just the visual

A major turn on with the right connection and chemistry! Can be hot during foreplay! Never during intimate time, like jess said can be very distracting!
However have enjoyed it a few times during the complete session, when making our own!! Also have enjoyed it with ladies that like to watch movies that they have made professionally or as a amateur.

I think it's hot when a lady posts/emails links to scenes she enjoys watching.  Sort of gives a different twist to the relationship.  Good way to set the table for the kind of encounter she prefers - soft and slow, or aggressive and passionate...or both.  Or an excellent way to spice up a future repeat performance!  I think any gentleman with an imagination would enjoy an email from a Lady saying "Next time I see you, this is what I want."

I get chills just thinking about it, honestly.

i love porn and have always wanted a companion that was into it as well. fantasy is what this is all about, and anyone that is offended by it because it may diminish a guys interest in them for the hour is maybe missing the point IMO my fantasy is for a dream girl that wants to imitate what i like watching and do it better, time it just right so I explode when the guy in the scene does, then have a great laugh about the whole thing while shes covered in .................  you asked lol

I would never have it on prior to my guest arriving, but if our conversation heads in that direction, I would be happy to plug into some videos. I have several clients that I am very comfortable with in watching porn, we sift thru some shots and immediately I am aroused. The talking parts do nothing for me, but the body to body sounds are hot!

I had a 4 hour that was adamant on wanting porn in the background cause he felt the visual would help him throughout our time, but for me it's not necessary and can be a distraction and disrupt the chemistry and flow of things . . . needless to say . we quickly clicked and, being the energetic active kitty that I am lol, he turned to me when we had to say good bye and said . . "that was amazing and we didn't even have the porn on!" I personally enjoy tantric and erotic music in the background that really sets the pace and mood and making your place interesting and sensual, even adding a toy show I think is so much more fun, real and up-close! ;)

Just my two cents . .  

Adriana~

Thank you for the replies. I simply look at it as I am there to be with a beautiful lady and want to be fully into her, I also want her into me. I feel that the porn is a distraction and an avenue for both to be distracted and focused on the porn and not each other. I know there is a wide variety of likes and dislikes, porn is one for me. If I can't be fully into the beautiful lady I am with then I would just leave. I do agree that candles and music set the tone but the only visual I need is the lady I am with at the time.

Posted By: AdrianaSoJuicy4u
I had a 4 hour that was adamant on wanting porn in the background cause he felt the visual would help him throughout our time, but for me it's not necessary and can be a distraction and disrupt the chemistry and flow of things . . . needless to say . we quickly clicked and, being the energetic active kitty that I am lol, he turned to me when we had to say good bye and said . . "that was amazing and we didn't even have the porn on!" I personally enjoy tantric and erotic music in the background that really sets the pace and mood and making your place interesting and sensual, even adding a toy show I think is so much more fun, real and up-close! ;)  
   
 Just my two cents . .  
   
 Adriana~

ell  I love Andrew Blakes work.... smiling... :)  

Very erotic....  

Love the background moans and music.. during dessert time...  

Kisses,  
Kara

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