Lets be honest Ladies and Gentleman. The way I see it personally you just need to be you because you will be found out sooner than later.  

The Ladies aka providers you are not looking for jerks, nor a relationship, nor a quick lay. You have consciously made a decision to be a provider for either a living or as additional income. You have the right to do it on your terms. If you don't like what you see when you are they walk through the door you have the right to disengage. You hold the keys and you should. It is you that has the gift that we as men want. If we don't like what you have to offer we don't need to see you again and can write an honest review and sooner or later the average ladies or poor ladies will fade away.

The men aka hobbyists we are also not looking for stuck up non affectionate women. The majority of men concentrate on the GFE ladies, which is also why so many ladies offer that service. We are not or shouldn't be looking for commitments or relationships nor are the majority of us looking for a quick lay. If you want a quick lay you can look on Back Page and hope you avoid Law enforcement as you pay $100 to get laid.  

We should respect the ladies and allow them to have the control they deserve to have. They are ladies that chose this as a profession or a side business the same way we have chosen to partake in the hobby. We are no different than they are. Do not refer to them as hookers, whores or sluts. They are ladies that for the most part are offering you what you can't or don't get in your home or relationship. The bottom line is don't post things anonymously, give honest reviews and first and foremost treat every lady with respect. If she isn't your type, move on. If you don't hit it off, post a review saying so but don't lie. I for one haven't seen many ladies but I did see one that gets incredible reviews. She is beautiful, we just didn't click and hit it off and I will not see her again. But 99.9% of the gentleman love her so my post simply said we didn't hit it off but I believe it was just me and her not clicking. I didn't bash her or call her names. She loves what she does, she is great and beautiful, we simply didn't click.

In finality, gentleman realize we are all in this together. If you don't like who you see, don't see her again. Ladies, if you don't like what you see, you do not have to see us again. But lets be honest we are all in this together and need each other. Respect the ladies and treat them like ladies and you will not have problems getting together. The ladies are not looking for 10's but we are and that is why the women show pictures of themselves. We have the advantage, we know what we are getting when we meet, the women have no clue how ugly, fat, good looking, athletic etc... the men are. Let the ladies be in the drivers seat. They deserve to be in control. Let them. Lets be honest.... we need them much more than they need us......

Yeah why some guys refer to the ladies with unflattering names is beyond me.  
Look at it this way if you're hanging with "whores" etc. what does that make you? To steal a word from another fella who isn't hear much I prefer companion. And yes you are not gonna click with every lady you meet. That's just life. But most of the guys here will tell you when you do really click together it's freakin awesome!! I've never had a bad experience here but have clicked better with some than others. Just natural I guess, I for one am thankful that the ladies are here for us. Where else can a guy who honestly is closer to a 6 than a 10 have this much fun with no strings attached?  

On a side note it sucks that we don't get as much involvement here as we used to from the ladies. Think the drama makes them shy away. That blows because without the ladies there is no reason to be here. Y'all guys are great and all but just not the same as a flirting it up with a hottie!!

hen I am in the heat of the moment and I am banging her real hard, "Ahhh you are such a fuckin' little whore!" just seems to roll off the tongue

ooooohhhhhhh!, ooooooohhhhhh! UUUUUHHHHHHH!!! Followed by several deep breaths and couple minutes of quiet breathing) Then when able to speak I say---Thank you baby gurl!, followed by a sweet kiss to the forehead, or nose-O

That's a good one I think we have all said some crazy stuff in the heat of the moment. I think I even proposed marriage at one point with a lady. I don't remember it but she said it was funny as hell. Good thing she knows I'm full of crap anyways.

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Hehe- seriously though, all kids of things are sexy/fun/ hot to say during sexy time- calling me a dirty whire is ok in the midst of hot and steamy sex...calling me a dirty whore seriously, in other contexts, is just silly.  

I'm always happy to see any post encouraging more respect towards both the ladies and the hobbyists!

You're a trip Grace!! Be careful what you ask for remember who you're dealing with here. You just gave me a great idea for next time. If you haven't figured me out yet I'll say anything for a gag it's on now!!

Part of maximizing pleasure when we get together with a lady is knowing what she likes and doesn't like. That includes verbally as well as physically. If the lady is wanting to be more aggressive verbally or physically and opens the door then I agree more colorful language is appropriate. But my main thought was treat her like a lady because she is, choosing this arena for additional income does not change that. I believe that the vast majority of ladies in here are just that ladies that love what they do. If you want to call woman in this industry degrading names go hook up with someone on Back Page and have at it.  

I do agree that if the lady opens the door and gets turned on by colorful language then color away. My bottom line is the men that call the ladies names need to look in the mirror and realize we are in the same boat and all headed in the same direction. We aren't looking for relationships but I believe if you treat a lady like a lady your experiences with her will be taken to new heights, if you don't well then you should be happy you get what you paid for....

That while this biz/hobby is frowned upon and society is quick to judge those of us who partake, with the ladies being scorned the hardest, they are still ladies. Honestly there is an overall attitude problem with society outside of Hobbywood as well. When I hear a group of young guys referring to women as "hoes" or "bitches" I just want to kick the shit out of them. A little kink can be fun if she's up for it and some folks enjoy a little aggressiveness nothing wrong with that, but a little respect goes a long way. A lady willing to meet the likes of us is certainly deserving of respect, and the things that happen behind closed doors are the stuff dreams are made of at the end of the day that sexy lady you're spending time with is not just an object for you to treat how you wish no matter what she feels. Every lady is somebody's mother, daughter, etc. and should be treated as such. Again a little kink is cool at times but to disrespect is just pure BS in my book. Ok I'm off my soapbox now y'all have a nice weekend, great group here anyways so I'm preaching to the choir!

It's pretty nice reading a thread like this on here. As a longtime provider I totally agree that the better you treat us, the better your experience will be. At least w/ me! lol xoxo, JJ

Which is exactly my point Jasmine. A little respect and kindness gets you a little lovin' but a lot of respect and kindness gets you a whole lot of lovin'.......

And you would immediately be kicked out if you did that to me