I am in the Raleigh area and I would like to get involved with this hobby.  I have never done anything like this (other than a massage parlor in Vegas).  What do I need to do for references.  I am worried about a provider calling my work.  Are they discreet?  What do they ask?  The problem is that I work in a hotel, so I think I have seen some of the ladies checking in anyway.  But with my position, I have to be careful.  I could never see a girl in my hotel or acknowledge that I might recognize any lady checking in.  I just know that I can't meet any lady where I work.  Please let me know what I need to do.