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Well as a provider I want to say this.... this is not a mechanical thing, I cant say I will do this as 1, this as 2 and this as 3.
Everybody is different, you might like massages or caresses while another man might want only kisses.
What you like is not what another person like.
How can you judge?
Some of my oldest clients have never posted a review about me simply because they dont do that, although they have been following me for over 5 years and we meet every week or so.
Someone else instead decided to say that I want a gfe...of course if you dont brush your teeth before kissing me I dont want to kiss you.
So c'mon now folks, a little bit of common sense and yes YOU HAVE TO DECIDE FOR YOURSELF if a provider
is good or not!
I am just saying....

Is it wrong to ask what is on the menu before departing with your donation?

that would be a very bad move.   You need to go in prepared. Read the website, read the reviews.  
Somewhere along in the conversation you may ask about boundries, which is a good idea.  You will find out what you want to know then.  Many ladies will even ask your desires.   That is the only time in the encounter that I feel uncomfortable.  The "first time"  is the only time that needs to take place, after that you know where things may or maynot go.

I concur with Sexy!

Shifterp out!  would concur with myself but already concurred with Sexy.

you are funny as heck
however funny that is you will have to concur with yourself
Go Duke :)

If you ask about "menu" items (especially if it's a first visit), you may end your date a lot quicker than you wanted........by the ladies choice, not yours!!! Reviews are invaluable & most ladies have them. You can always PM someone who has reviewed the lady you are interested in if there is something you are curious about.

Isn't that what reviews are for?

Ok here's my thing, not everyone has reviews. Some won't discuss plans on the phone prior to the meet. Everybodies Idea of open-minded is not the same. Plus what "X" will do for blank "Y" may not do for blank.

Well walking in blind isnt a good thing.  Been there, done that.  Then you get what is offered, could even be an upsell.  IF there is something you wants specifically, I would still check out reviews.  Dig until you find the answer, dont just call Zelda with those kind of questions cause you will hear a click.

Well here is the way I look at it. I have been hobbying for awhile now and I will stack up the women I have visited with up aganst anyone's.

Ladies I have visitied with, you were all scutinized and carefully selected and I want to thank you all once again for helping me to have the firm belief I am the luckiest fella in the hobby.

Then again it is not really luck because I work too damn hard at my job to have the dinero to make doantions to spend my moola anyway but wisely.

I know Beefeater has had more, tons and tons more but he has not had better overall quality.

Bold enough for yas? Maybe, maybe not!

What I am getting at is there is no reason to take any chances. I watch a TON of football and could possibly make a little money on the side if I was willing to gamble. I have a friend who asks me weekly for a few teams to bet on and I win for him almost every week. On the other hand I work too
hard for my money to throw it away.

Bottom line, the pain I anticipate losing outweighs my anticipation of gain.

With the hobby it is kinda the same. I could go to the less able to find info on places to look for a lady I might want to get together with. I could but I don't.

Why? Cause early on I did and a feeling I will avoid like the plague is driving home or pondering why I just did what I did when the gal is driving home is a feeling I am going to avoid at all costs.

So I do my homework and if a gal is not stellar I ain't calling. If there are not enough reviews I would rather wait till there are plenty than go take one for the team. The team is not making my donations if I take a chance and am extremely disappointed in my choice. I let the team take the chances for me. There are many more on the team and there will always be one of them ready to go do the field research so I can do the research online.

I do have a few hobby buddies who like the thrill of taking those chances. I would rather go see an ALL STAR again instead of going in blind.

I am not saying the way I go about it is what would work for everyone, just saying it has worked out nicely for me.

For anyone reading this, do it your way just be willing to change up how you are going about it if you get a couple of experiences less than you desire. I can promise you this, if you are diligent and patient and willing to put a little time into it you can have some of the greatest experiences you could ever imagine. The gems are there just go look at the list of gals I have reviewed.

To all I have visited I am eternally grateful and admire all of you great gals greatly, to all great ones out there I have not gotten to just hang in there and I promise I am doing my best to get by for a visit. Two real problems, too little time and too little dinero!

Shifterp OUT, yes I concur with myself!


Are you stacking women again?  They dont like being stacked more than 2 high.  

I also work at gathering info.  You know, as I start thinking a lady is a strong possibility I start reading ever word on her website.  Looking for those little tidbits that she may not think much about but I see something a little deeper. Sometimes the info is right out there other times buried.   Of course reviews are also very important but when I read a great review I start to study the reviewer.  How honest is he?  Is he just doing lip service to get 15 days? That is important.
(BTW love your reviews,  humorous but factual.  ;)
But to go on I then get lucky.  I know it cause I find everything is better than I expected.

I actually have never had the pleasure of playing I can make you feel better than you can make me feel with more than one woman at one time. Some real deep shit has kept me from putting myself between two beautiful sexy, sexually stellar superstars.

LOL I kind of like to think of it now with humor as I type out another note I am going to concur with myself about!  hehe  Kind of like my sweet little doggie Pepper. My bed is a little too high for her to jump on now so I bought her a doggie step! Now she studder steps every now and then but she gets right where she wants to now with little trouble. Before the doggie step though before she was not quite able to make it unless deliriously excited about a treat on the bed.

I kinda got tired of watching her sit on the floor perched wanting to be on the bed with Daddy but not quite being able to anymore. She would get a running start and look like she was gonna go for it and then stop, dejected. Therefore, two for me, just do not want to be trying to go-go-go and just not quite being able to get there. I know it is silly cause I have talked to enough gals who do doubles but "HOLY CRAP Batman" aren't we all just a little bit nuerotic! So shoot me for being brutally honest in my own self deprecating sort of way.

I also know therre are DREAM doubles out there! Whew! I know of two , no make that three in particular that after those, any of them I am sure the endorphins would be swimming around my little body to the point I would be ready to head on to the bunny ranch on the sky!

I know this may seem silly and probably is but one of the things I am hoping to get out of an experience is that the woman I am with says to herself, the first time, "Wow seeing him walk through my door I never quite expected that"! How am I gonna do that if there are two? Just the thought is a bit overwhelming! See how beautiful the male ego is? Even though it is obvious I am aware of the true pitfalls of the male ego I am still controlled somewhat by mine! Silly, huh? Evolved but not quite enough for my own good! Damn that nasty ego!

I know a lofty goal that mutual toe-curling and maybe even foolish, for some reason I know there is a lower end to our hobby but for me, ok even if I am fooling myself,  I believe there are mutually pleasurable experiences out there. I am just trying to sound like I am covering my bases, truth is there are some extremely, incredible, wonderful, completely mind-blowing mutually gratifying experiences out there. Not just a cheap, pump and dump is what I think those who do that call it.

Ok enough about me and my mess between my ears! Reviews, websites if they have one, hobby buddies who may have visited with them, a gut feel, twinge between my ears(gotcha), then make the call and take the plunge! Using this strategy I can count on one hand since I been hobbying the times I felt I wish I hadn't!

Just me determined not to ever have that feeling ever again!

Now time......Shifterp OUT concur with meself!

Ladies,

I agree that being prepared BEFORE the meeting is important, if not critical. However, the ladies need to be sure their reviews are accurate (and hobbyists need to be sure they tell the TRUTH!). The reason I say this is that a few times, the review said BBBJ, but the provider only gave CBJ, the review said CIM, but the provider said spit, the review said no to anal, but the provider almost begged for it. There have been other discrepancies, too. A hobbyist can only be prepared so much. The first time I'm with a lady, I always give the donation and we get started. During the early stages, I then ask what, if anything is "off limits" and I've never had a problem with any provider by doing this. There's no need to ask anything much after the first time!  LOL

Jim

but I'm very unlikely to discuss anything detailed ahead of time.  I won't say never, because if someone is SUPER screened - like one of my provider friends have vouched for him - I may be willing to talk.  But if you're a typical guy being screened, it ain't gonna happen.  My reviews are accurate, my TER profile is accurate, I show my face in my pictures, and there is even a list of activities on my P411 profile.  If that's not enough for a guy, sorry.  I'm more worried about being arrested than just about anything else, and I have to draw the line somewhere.  I'm taking a risk meeting you, but I screen to mitigate that risk.  You're taking a risk in meeting me, but you research me to mitigate that risk.  Nothing in this hobby is 100% guaranteed.

......... a ladies TER profile (assuming you are VIP) shows what she allows and/or doesn't and usually her reviews do also. Sometimes there are ladies like me who may not have everything she does in her reviews but has a detailed menu (some don't like that but I'd rather have it than being asked do you do this, that, the third lol) on her website. If you must simply send her a what she does and doesn't like in a date/session if you still can't get enough info from her reviews or TER profile.

Well as a provider I want to say this.... this is not a mechanical thing, I cant say I will do this as 1, this as 2 and this as 3.
Everybody is different, you might like massages or caresses while another man might want only kisses.
What you like is not what another person like.
How can you judge?
Some of my oldest clients have never posted a review about me simply because they dont do that, although they have been following me for over 5 years and we meet every week or so.
Someone else instead decided to say that I want a gfe...of course if you dont brush your teeth before kissing me I dont want to kiss you.
So c'mon now folks, a little bit of common sense and yes YOU HAVE TO DECIDE FOR YOURSELF if a provider
is good or not!
I am just saying....

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