All you can do is be honest and explain your side of the story. Dont pressure or stalk her to try and convince her that you are a good guy or are in the right. It will only convince her that you are "that" guy. You can either wait it out or move on. Given enough time the real "truth" may make its way to her, or not. good luck.

Ya know you and I have had our ups and downs and are usually very honest with each other...
I know you better then most.. I think?

It seems to me you have upset or rubbed a number of ladies the wrong way.. Maybe part of your repuation is accurate?? We all have things about our traits and personalities that we don't like..
May I suggest.. taking a look at the common complaints and making slight changes....?