Guys that have seen high volume BP girls typically are under the impression that since you are a provider (regardless of status) you too are are high volume. They want to get "first dibs" for a few reasons. Reason 1 is because they want you at your peak performance. Reason 2 is because they don't want sloppy seconds (third, fourth, fifth, sixth..etc) Reason 3 is they feel you may not clean up well for them if they are not "first"
Let's dissect this for a moment:
Ever see a guy check out your bathroom? He's looking to see how many used towels are laying around..to him, this means you have seen other people.
Ever see if a guy inspects the bed? He's looking for those "spots" and making sure he's not laying on soiled sheets.
Ever see a guy look around the room like he lost something? He's checking every place to see if there is evidence of previous activity. (trash bin, unmade bed, empty envelopes, "wrappers", Etc)
The difference is, are you clean? Do you see 1 or 2 people only in any given day? Do you maintain your location so that it's pristine, inviting and comfortable for others? If you cannot answer "yes" to these questions then you cannot produce the image of a guy being first. We all know those well seasoned, reputable providers can pull this off and tell us we are first and we believe it because the image portrayed supports it.
Personally, It's about selection. Seeking some of the more reputable providers is a best bet to avoid our manly mental issues.
The Jaded-
The mentality upon a lot of providers (that have jaded the industry) is:
"how much can I make in a single day"
"I'm available 24 hours (to maximize my gains)"
"Low rate to draw in more people"
"No screening to make it easier to get to me"
"Ads on bp because it's a high traffic mall"
"Book back to back to capitalize on time"
"Get you out as fast as I can(to get the next one in)"
These types have instituted a mentality to hobbywood that just about every provider works like this. The characteristics mentioned above are NOT providers. They are straight up cum dumpsters that you want to avoid even if she offers a very low attractive rate. It's been said before and will never end. Stay away from BP girls!
A story I once heard was a lady offered a low hour rate and saw 8-12 guys just about every day. She thought that that's how it worked because her friend showed her the ropes. Needless to say she burned out fast, stepped away for a few months. She reinvented herself, imposed policies, screening and higher rates. She now earns the same if not more than before seeing considerably less people. She is now a very reputable provider...giving first appointments every time.
Remember, it's all in your head and the image that is produced. However, meeting with the proper provider that suits your desires is the best option. Those that typically have a higher rate and reputation are in the mindset that they want to give quality time and put forth a lot of effort because you are probably the only person they see that day or maybe the next one is later on in the day/eve. This type of effort requires more mental and physical energy that could ultimately make a provider feel like she has seen a lot of people in one day. This is why she may elect to be low volume to enhance the quality she can put into a date to keep you coming back.
I probably shouldn't have taken that Human Sexuality Class in College. I'm too cynical for my own good. At most, I analyze probability of a good date versus a bad one. Providers enjoy my topic conversations though
, I could care less if I'm first, middle, or last. I know that may be important to some gents, but it's not to me.
