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Question on Making a appointment and no response from the providers?
nycprg2010 611 reads
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I want to know if anyone else has had problems with the problem of not getting a reply from the providers in raleigh , charlotte?  I am not new with this I have used top services in Nyc,Miami,DC etc. And I have all references etc. I pay for quality.  And since being stuck in North Carolina for business  and looking for someone and they dont respond to emails or phone calls even a day after?  That is bad business.  I want to know anyone thinks they should Give some kind of reply like I am not taking any new clients now or something?

Posted By: nycprg2010
I am not new with this I have used top services in Nyc,Miami,DC etc. And I have all references etc.
If you are using services (Agencys?) as a reference, most independents will usually not take them.


Welcome to NC.  A few thoughts:

1. Why not use a local agency?  There are quite a few excellent ones  in Ral, WS, Gsboro areas.  I have used several agencies' services before, quick and easy verification.  Plus, when you return you are already set up.  And you can use local agencies for a references to set up with the independent ladies.

2. It is a holiday week/weekend.  Maybe the ladies are on vacation?

3. If you are using references in NY, DC, Miami etc, maybe they aren't responding or the local ladies don't feel like calling a NY/DC/Miami reference????

Have fun.  Be safe.

Some may be out with family.  They maybe even have a sign up saying " On vacation " Everybody needs time off.  

There are plenty still working, maybe you ought to cast the net out farther. And I am sorry you are stuck in North Carolina.  I personally like it here.  

Gee imagine that ;)

Thank you Roadshow. I really feel many people think we were made in test tubes and have no families or lives outside of the hotel rooms we play in.

Posted By: Roadshow2
Some may be out with family.  They maybe even have a sign up saying " On vacation " Everybody needs time off.  

There are plenty still working, maybe you ought to cast the net out farther. And I am sorry you are stuck in North Carolina.  I personally like it here.  

nycprg2010426 reads

Thanks roadshow for your response , but i should have stated during a normal work week.. Stuck is just a saying sorry you took it the wrong way,  I am glad you like it in NC

I typically try to respond within 24 hours.
espeically if you have references etc.. But if you email me on a Holiday or a weekend
In most cases it will be Sunday evening or Monday before I get back to you..

I am assuming that you have sent a polite email and not something like
" Hey baby.. I am ready"

Those get deleted..

If I don't like the way someone comes across in an e-mail. I don't normally respond.

Also, I'm not from the state of North Carolina, but I will admit it is a beautiful state with many fun perks. Saying you're "stuck in North Carolina" may not be going over real well. Are you including that "stuck" part in your e-mails?

nycprg2010521 reads

Thanks for your response , but my emails and calls are very appropriate, i am sorry saying stuck in NC it was just a saying, sorry it hit you the wrong way.. I admit NC has some nice things.

I moved back to NC a few months ago I have experienced the same or similar problem nycprg2010 indicated.  Either no response or a much delayed response.  But let me note that doesn't mean every provider fits into this category.  In fact, a few ladies I've corresponded to have been very responsive.

So there may be a few reasons why you have not received a response from the ladies here.  You have not provided all the required information the lady is requesting. You may have not included your provider contact info.  The references you provided are from agencies.  The references you provided are not members of P411 or DC.  The provider you contacted may only accept or trust references from ladies in the Carolinas. Some even don't see men of color.  It could be the ladies you contacted were already booked or busy and didn't check emails for additional appts. And if you are requesting an appt this week, she may have taken this week off for R&R and to spend the holiday with their family and friends.  These are a few possibilities, but it doesn't imply that it applies to the ladies you contacted.

Btw, just in case anyone is keeping score...I have seen providers in NC and there are some great providers in this area.  But making initial contact with some of the ladies can be a challenge.  You may want to plan ahead next time you visit NC.  This would allow the ladies with really busy schedules time to respond to you.  

So don't let a few "no responses" discourage you from trying to make contact with the ladies here.

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