I had to break up with a provider because our sex life was so bad. She was a high volume provider and she was much like a chef having to come home and cook. She just got too much sex to still enjoy it with me. Shallow pig that I am, I could not deal with being the only guy in town who could not have sex with her, so I broke up with her. We remained friends for years, but I have can't be in a sexless, or under sexed relationship.

Now this is not the case with all high volume girls, I had a Thai GF who was by any definition of the word "high volume" but she ALWAYS had gas in the tank for me. Every one's sex drive is different.

I guess you have to decide if you love her enough to accept a largely sexless relationship. I am too shallow to do so myself, but of course we aren't talking about me. I know some people will suggest counseling, but I am not one of them. Either you turn her on or you don't, I don't think this is something that can be "talked out"