*sigh*
Disclaimer: I'm not bragging about this considering the situation.

I have frequently been told (by civilians and providers alike) that I'm very well endowed. I'm not HUGE but I know I'm larger than the average guy. Now that's all well and good. Ladies often like this. The problem comes from having pleasured myself on a daily basis from ages 15-25 :p I last long... Very long. I don't help myself anymore, knowing that the act diminishes sensitivity. I saw a provider for the first time recently; having ordered 90 minutes, she asked me if I was looking to get three pops. I told her I last long and she laughed and said okay. How often do you ladies hear that?

Problem is its the truth. We had a good time, but then halfway through the session and she's asking that question.

"...are you done yet?"

I wasn't even close, but I was having a great time. I wasn't turned off or anything, so I told her "not yet. (insert dirty compliment here)." Despite that she asked me if she was doing something wrong, and her mission from that point on was Mortal Kombat FINISH HIM!(I really hope someone got that pun) Her determination was admirable, but it ruined the atmosphere and actually did turn me off, thus taking me even longer than I already do to finish. I think that's because I really honestly take pleasure in knowing shes having a good time to, so when I see that shes not, that pleasure is compromised. Unfortunately this happens more often than not in both sides of my double life, so I'm turning to the experts (hobbyists and providers) for help. What should I do?

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I think it depends on the chemistry you have with a lady and how comfortable she makes you fee.

Recently, I was able to pop 4x in less than 90 minutes with a lady I became very comfortable with.
I'm not able to pop more than once in new encounters.
Once I'm relaxed with a lady, I could pop.

I was recently with a lady who was great.  The third time I saw her, I booked longer hoping to pop twice.  I actually popped easy the first round.  And then I got hard and went for the 2nd round but couldn't pop, but remained hard for 30 minutes. And the reason was that she had friends outside the room, which tensed me up a bit.

So,  look for a lady who can really relax you and you can focus on cumming.

No but seriously this stuff happens with guys, just gotta put your big girl face on and make the best outta it... Have fun with the hard package in front of you and dont take it personal if 'he' doesnt POP..... But if you give it a good try then both parties  should be happy...

Happy Hobbying

Bit

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from the ground..LOL  Like Lil Bit said, find a new provider.

Some girls can go 90 minutes.  Unfortunately havn't figured out how to spot one.  

When you find one that can keep up with you it just insane passion.

I wouldn't worry about it be blessed you don't have to take any prescription drugs to get it up

I've never seen you before, Bit(trust me; I'd like to if not for schedule issues) but from your point of view, if you're faced with a guy who's big and lasts long, exactly how would you make the best of it? Also how would you like for him to make the best of it?

Im here to learn. Explicit detail is accepted and encouraged

How do you know "I'm not HUGE but I know I'm larger than the average guy”? Did you measure average guys? How many?

Well, as a provider, I'd make the most of it by just sitting back and letting us really enjoy it. A lot of guys want multiple pops, and it IS our job to please you, which I find most girls take very seriously. But, if someone came in and was totally fine with going the whole time without cumming until the end, I'd love to just slow down and let it happen. More foreplay, lots of teasing, lots of positions... Just really focusing on the different sensations and having a good time together without having to worry about if we'll have time for another one, or doing something too crazy and having you leave disappointed because you didn't make it past the bj. Just make the appointment early in the day and don't try and pound the crap out of her the whole time so she starts worrying about being able to walk later, and I don't think most ladies will mind.

I think that you'll get a "finish him!!" Moment during most appointments though. There's a certain "hell yes I did!!" Feeling from conquering this particular challenge, lol

Well hello,
I'm sorry we have not met yet.. giggle..

I found the average penis size chart...  by counrty.  
Maybe this will help?

Cheers,
Ms Kara

central & south america............ looks like there length is more than average

Kara, thanks for keeping it real !

If mine was any shorter I'd have a scab on my ass!!!!!!  But it works for me   Unfortunately all of these ladies are so breathtakingly beautiful that, with the ones that I have met so far,  I'm getting finished about the time they say hello.  

Lol
I was waiting for one of the guys to challenge me on that. The average size is well documented. I'm not one to take women by their word so easily; many like to spare a man's feelings/bolster his ego. So I looked it up and did comparisons.

There are so many myths out there and then exceptions too!

Not being a guy too big bothered me, plus take a look at porn and OMG!

I have found in my experience real big is not really an advantage,
bottom line it may look impressive but to most woman it is uncomfortable.

I have found having a little curve that slips in and stimulates the g-spot works
rather well.

Now there ARE exceptions, some women really like well endowed guys but not most.

Just like breast size for the ladies. Some guys really love big breastesesssss. Most fellas
little more than a handful is cool.

For me I could care less about size. I am interested in this being an area I can use to satisfy
the woman I am enjoying time with.

Myth 2, go all night. Average coitus about 15 minutes. Dude can't pop for long time
wears a gal out. Make something happen with that thing Sparky dayum!

So while most might think Dude with large equipment that can go all night would be
dreamy and to die for. Reality, it hurts and hurry the f*** up.

If it was me I would find a provider who says up front the larger the johnson the
more I hope you call on me and if you plan on taking all night then pay for an overnight,
Sparky!

I have also found it isn't the equipment the woman brings but the attitude, personality
and brains. Something often overlooked is the biggest sex organ any of us have male
and female is sitting on top of our shoulders. Or at least some of us.

Anyway, the point of view from a shortish, smallish, curved-ish, g-spot educated,   hell I could go on all night!!!!!

Lastly, everything above is just my opinion based on years of relentless research and it is all subject to be completely just a bunch of whooey!!!!!! It does make me happy though!!!

Ok quote from The Big Lebowski, the best movie in the history of mankind.

From the Nihlis..."We believe in nothing, Lebowski, nothing. Tomorrow we come back and we cut off
your chonson, yeah your wiggly penis".

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!!

I somewhat get what you are dealing with.  I believe I'm of average size, so you can put that one aside for now.  But due to my situation, have been taking care of myself daily for way too long and can last a long time.  I also just had my first provider experience that I believe was very good for both of us.  I did my best to please the lady who took good care of me.  I was feeling very good, but it seemed like it would take forever for me to pop.  To move things along, I helped out and took care of biz.  After I popped, she was somewhat surprised that my guy didn't go limp.  We moved on to the next course and as enjoyable as it was, I could have gone for a long time.  Hope this wasn't too much detail, but I'm wondering how much of this is the chemistry and the provider using her brain and how she is able to talk and help her gentlemen get there quicker?  The brain is the #1 sex organ after all, right?  Looking forward to exploring and finding out the answers.  Who wants to help?

If I really like the girl then i just want to go at it the whole time. On the other hand, some women take control and do the Mortal Combat and finish me which is nice too. And then we go back for more. It's not a marathon. Have fun, just enjoy it dude!

I have a hard time relaxing until i'm comfortable which does translate into length of duration and then you're like wtf am i doing here.. Spending and extra few minutes talking and building up some rapport usually eases everything. I rarely book less than 2 hours, because unless i show up ready to pop it aint going to happen. Most ladies are interesting, can carry an intelligent conversation... just have fun man...  Walking in a room and just going to town without much interaction is kind of pointless. You'd be better off wanking it at home. Spend the extra dollars and get the real deal and establish some sort of bond is probably the best advice i can give.

Umm reread your post again and I may have hit on it the first time. So, real quick..... talk... talk.. communicate.. nobody is a mind reader. It's your hour or whatever, wtf do you want? Obviously be a gentleman about it, but at least know what you want before you go. To me it sounds like you guys have aspirations for something and not communicating what really gets you off. maybe you don't know what gets you off. Dunno, communication is key though...   Your brain may be tops of the sex organ but you have to relay what it is it likes within reason. Otherwise yes, you probably will go home unfilled and give a bad review to a provider that deserves more.

Cheers

Your soo funny!!! Hey I cant wait to sit on your sweet package again... And boy you sure can write a book lmao.... Luv ya!!!!

See ya'll sooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Sammy Girl.

Being in a long, sexless marriage that I've been faithful with up until now, I don't really know.  With that in mind, i booked two hours allowing me to get comfortable with both the idea and the provider and allow me ample time to sample the menu.  I will say that my first hobby experience was very pleasurable and I could have enjoyed the attention given to me for a long time.  Obviously, it great to reach the peak.  Yes, I think that communicating how you work and what you like is very important.  What I believe I was trying to say about how the provider can help you out is probably based on their personality/ persona, how she would talk to you before and during and then it probably comes down to her physical talents.  I would think that the really good providers are the ones that are very gifted with the mental, interpersonal and physical skills.  I'm looking forward to meeting a few.  I have a couple in mind.

It was a hell of a work out, but a lot of hot, erotic, fun!!  And this is the absolute truth!!  Good thing he is a young guy (late 20's)!!    He was able to do it!!  Me?  I was having so much fun and wasn't ready to quit!  LoL  

You are passionate, sexy, hot and interesting!

You fit right nicely in my lap, my opinion.

Take care!

Shifterp OUT!

I will never forget our time together. You are awe inspiring. Purely majical!!

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret

And that is meant sincerely.  

First of all Ive been doing this 10+ years, you dont think Ive had this a time or two?? Did you read my post?? I said make the best of it and put your big girl face on.. So yea Ive done this before, this shit happpens and I do what I gotta do and make the best of it.. Nice cheap shot,cutehunkie.. What else ya got??

LB

Yeah, everyone knows the average length is 2 inches.  That's how I know I'm HUGE!