It was brought to my attention this morning buy a sweet and wonderful friend that I had a glowing review. I was surprised and had no knowlege of it.. Since I don't read my reviews or obviously pay any attention to them..

So I went and checked it out.. Thank you.. it was indeed a very sweet one..

But,, then I see the other one... OMFG! I am so pissed.. why lie? what is the point?
I know exactly who you are and that never happend and you know it.. I just don't get the point of posting those big fish stories. What do you guys get out of posting lies. It does not make your D##k bigger.

It really bothers me that when reviews are posted. No one bothers to ask me what happend and what I did and did not agree to do.

what an A@@ hole.. You and I both know why I have not seeen you in 3 years and this is an example of many reasons why...

Ladies always trust your instincts....

I am mad as hell!

And let me be very clear to anyone new or old that walks into my door... the answer is NO! Don't even think that because you believe A@@wipe got away with it that it happened for him or will happen for you.

It does work sometimes, and if you can convince them that there are lies in the review they will pull it.  It's not worth leaving up, because it can affect other clients' expectations.  Good luck.

If the individual posted something that you do not do I believe you can have it removed.  TER has run into a few liars so far.  I would talk to them and get it off your profile.

I will work on that. I had no idea I could do such a thing....

It's the review process as it relates to the site. TER is NOT a non-profit, put up for the convenience of ladies and guys - it is a BUSINESS. The credibility of reviews is NOT TER's priority - the number of reviews is. There are many "adult" dating sites - most, if not all, are dominated by fake profiles. One has to think that, out of the 500,000 reviews on this site, a proportionate number have to be self-written, shills, or complete fabrications. You gotta be an Olympic figure-skater with this stuff - throw out the low, throw out the high. As for lower numbers affecting the numbers of callers you receive - well, someone who looks at a rack of 8's and hesitates due to a 6 probably isn't someone you want to see anyway.

I tried to understand your concern, but I must be slow today.  Are you unhappy about the score?  Or, is it the details about bbjcim?  Or is the entire review fabricated and there was no session at all?  Or something else I'm missing?

But seriously, any review in all caps says more about the reviewer than it does about who is being reviewed. It was a chore even trying to read it, and I would normally skip over anything written that way.

But not only will you want to get the review pulled if its false, but now you need to have TER make a change in the services offered section as well.

Good luck on your quest. It seems that TER handles these things in a purely random fashion. Here's hoping the coin gets flipped heads in your favor.

I could care less about the score.. To each his own about who and what is attractive.. I did see him and our session did not start or end that way or anything close to what he says.....

I can understand how that could be frustrating as well.

Although I have not taken the official plunge and made an appointment with a provider yet, There are things listed in reviews that they do / don't do that would make a difference in whether or not I chose to spend time with that specific provider.

An untrue review could make things confusing for the provider and providee.

I have to do it ALOT after reviews...you ALWAYS need to read your reviews. Ive had guys click yes to anal...yes to cim...I always have to contact TER and have these things fixed. Its a pain BUT you do not want someone coming in expecting something you do not do

It pisses me off that that a guy will flat out lie in a review.  It should be pulled.

NOT saying this about Jessica...because she's AMAZING. But from TER's side..women get bad reviews all the time... and then say they are fake. TER WILL pull a review..but you have to have ALOT of proof. I had a fake one from about a year ago...never could get it pulled...so just had to say screw it and know people will see thru it.

I do not understand why men lie about ACTS. I mean whats the point..if a girl does not do CIM...Anal..etc...DO NOT SAY SHE DOES. Period!

Hi Jessica, reviews are something I have used to my great advantage over the years. I have said before and I still believe it to be true that I am the luckiest guy in the hobby. Without having the benefit of the reviews I would have had to go on instinct and we all know that at times can go either way.

I have seen a few I wish I had not but just do not know what I would have done without the reviews here.

Now having said that if you got one you have issue with do what you can to get it pulled by all means.

I will tell you this, most guys you want to have calling on you were born at night but likely not last night.
From my perspective if a woman has caught my attention and I do my research then a good number of reviews need to be there. A website is nice. I want to know beforehand what is on the menu and how the gal is like to spend some time with.

I do all I can to take all the guess work out. If you take a look at the gals I have spent my time with it is a hell of a list. All thanks to being able to do valuable research before taking a leap.

So I am trying to say the REVIEWS, plural have great value. One bad review with info not consistent with the other reviews automatically tells me more about the dork who wrote it than the lady I might want to see sometime.

Anyway, just know some of these guys can read. The ones that can will read though the good and the bad and make a decision. If a guy is spooked off by one bad review is that really the kinda guy you want calling on you?

Good luck and just always remember the creme always rises to the top.

Shifterp OUT!

I don't hobby often and review even less - so I do like to see reviews to help me get up-to-speed on the current "landscape" when the mood strikes, which is not all that often at my age.  I would agree just about 100% with the comments by shifterp above - and I don't take one "bad" review to mean that this is a provider I would avoid.  (He obviously has some writing skills with the comment about most guys you would want to call you not being born last night - well written and right on-target.)

I saw the non-VIP part of the review in question and I would agree that it could have been written differently - and the price comment was uncalled for.  My primary take away from the review was that there was nothing wrong with you at all, the writer just decided he liked a different kind of woman, which is what he could have said in a much nicer way.  

DWW

She's not upset about the score....it's that he's claiming that she did things in the appointment that she does NOT do. That IS a problem..if a guy goes in expecting something she does not do.

Guys, I have followed this one rule. I always write the review and send it to the provider first. I want her to make sure I do not say something we did that she does not want to get out as YMMV and she may be in the mood for something that is usually off the menu. If I said something that she did not want, I would take it off. This way, there are no mistakes or issues. They seem to like to be able to read it before anyone else does.

Only an idiot would take a detail described in one incoherently written review, and assume that to represent her menu in the face of all other reviews to the contrary. Granted, there are a lot of idiots reading reviews, but you can't always control what conclusions they jump to.

If you just tell them how WORTHLESS their reviews are, they aren't likely to see your side with much sympathy.

I took a peek at your reviews, and if it's the one I suspect, his credibility was already lower than a snake as far as I'm concerned. He has PMd me with some pretty retarded questions about providers I've reviewed. I've ignored him, of course. The way his review is written shouldn't make it too difficult to refute. However, you never know with the editors or admins here.

Good luck. And if it doesn't work and you still believe reviews are WORTHLESS, you can always put your money where your mouth is and get de-listed.

I never said anything about her being upset with the numbers, aka score as you put it.

The point I was trying to make IN SUPPORT of the Amazing Mistress J is that there are some knuckleheads out there. Reviews are DA BOMB! They are taken into context IF the fella reading it is actually the kind of a guy you gals want calling on you. It also lets the gals know if a knuckleheaded liar is writing reviews, DO NOT SEE HIM! He is a liar and a dumbass!

I could be wrong there. Maybe there are some gals who just want you to lick it and stick it and it be over ASAP. Where is my donation, got the next payday coming over. Not really the kind of gals I am hoping to see but it takes all kinds to make out little thing work, right?

The greatest experiences I have had in the hobby have actually been more that there is some business involved but with the right gal, YES, provider, it then becomes about a little time shared between HOT talented folk in search of a mutually satisfying time well spend playing "I can pleasure you better than you can pleasure me"! Then of course it can also be, "you are extremely talented, show me how well you can DO me"! Either way a GREAT TIME!!!!!!!! Right? I concur with myself here by the way!

Anyone remember Family Affair????  Buffy and Jody singing, "Anything you can do I can do better, anything you can do I can do best", "yes I can", "No you can't" llllaaallllllllaaalllllllllaaaaallaallaa!!!!!!!

Now that I have dated myself with no fricking lube by the way, hehe, back to my point!

As imperfect as it may seem to some what we got here ROCKS! That was me showing all reading this I can be hip with my prose!!!!!! LOL it is hip to be round! For the slower witted, huey really sang, "Hip to be square"! Get it saying round was like a joke.

The point is some can, some can't, some shouldn't! Not sure why I threw that in but I am on a roll!

Another point is where is the TER review love? I mean how many providers phones and emails and text's do their thingy's off the hook BECAUSE a dude, not THE DUDE, GOD BLESS THE DUDE, anyone writing ANYTHING anywhere anyhow with a chance to pay homage to THE DUDE and don't ought to have their nutsack yanked off. OUCH!

Back to the TER REVIEW love? Where is it? Dudes sometimes spend an awful long amount of time crafting the most complimentry description of what it is like to spend time with a wonderful woman. Then what happens? Other dudes read the review, get wood, scratch their nuts, and MAKE THE CALL!!!!!
SEND THE EMAIL, TEXT THE REQUEST, TWEET the whatever!

Where the hell is the fricking referral fee? LOL So I am not sure how many great reviews MJ has but I am sure it is a gaggle! I met her, GREAT....., you all know what(tush ok baby got amazing back)! I am sure time spent with her is worthy of a great review. Hell I have tried 3 times!!!!!!!  Long story!  LOL But it is cool I think she is a nice gal.

My point is you can't take the good without stomaching some of the bad. You got a review with info on it that wasn't true! All the other ones were pretty accurate and how much b-ness did you get from the good ones?

So the reviews are worth-less, worth less than what?

The way I see it it is GREAT stuff! guys, ok like me, get to relive a SPECTACULAR time with a Goddess in my choices, hehe, and the gal gets some great advertsing. So if you were an ad agency and you pitched 20 GREAT commercials and one stinker YOU WOULD BE RICH!!!!!!! You have ANY idea how much money you would make it you hit a baseball for a living and went 19 for 20? ZILLIONS!!!!! The football quarterbacks going 19 for 20.....TRILLIONS!!!!!!!!!

So I am being supportive to MJ but we all have to realize what we got here and that it of great benefit to all of us. Heck I have been a member on this board since 2006 and you know how many VIP days I have gotten for writing reviews? Reviews ROCK! Charlie only had two Godesses, I have had MANY MORE!!!!!!! YYYIIIIPPPPPEEEEEEE!!!!!!

So just like everything else in this crazy life we all got to take a deep breath, relax, realize what it really important, sing cumbaya(is that spelled right?) and get on with it!

Fellas, go read some reviews, get wood, scratch, MAKE THE CALL!!!!

Gals take the calls, screen, invite or not and then........BANG!!!!!!!!!!

Play the "I can make you feel better than you can make me feel" game and HAVE FUN!!!!!! We are all going to expire folks, how are you gonna spend your time till the music stops is up to you! It ISN"T WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU THAT COUNTS, it is HOW YOU CHOOSE TO PRECEIVE IT! Choose wisely for yourself, you are the only one who can!

Shifterp OUT! I concurred with myself over and over writing this, just thought ya'll should know.

is a terrible idea. Reviews are for sharing intel with other mongers, not for promoting providers according to their desires.

There's a place for promotions: advertisements. When reviews cross over the line into being that, their credibility suffers and nobody gains. This is already happening too much on this site with all the suckup reviews trying to curry favor.

While I agree with asking a provider if she doesn't mind being reviewed, and if there's a service she would like to have omitted, actually letting her see the review is.....well your subject line says it.

shifterp has laid it out pretty clearly. While, I am sincerely sorry that MJ is having to deal with bogus review. Lets not forget as many have already said. These reviews serve a purpose.

I know from personal experience. That if you have a bad experience. Write it up. I am also aware that TER as a whole. Doesn't take kindly to hobbyist. No matter how long you've been around or if you are VIP or not.  TER doesn't like it when reviewers write up negative experiences. As I had it, pleasantly put to me by an old friend who's agency I have used repeatedly.

They as in TER take a dim view of negative or more to the point repeatably negative reviews. I personally have since learned simply. That if the woman doesn't have reviews on TER. That no matter how attractive she might be. How good her game is. You have to look at the source. If you are seeing someone from craiglist/backpage/freepost/cityvibe or whatever other resources you are using to get a "date". Then you are getting what you pay for. . . So don't be surprised with shitty service, attitude, or whatever negative experience you have.

There are always gonna be people who will smile to provider face. For whatever reason that might be. Then after their ride home. Choose to simple write up a less then favorable review. Sometimes its chemistry? Sometimes people are having a bad day. Be that the hobbiest or provider. If its the provider, then she shouldn't be taking appointments. As a hobbiest should find something else to do too.

It is really a shame where a decent provider has to deal with some jackass as Mistress Jessica did. There are several ladies on this board who are highly reviewed. That you can simply read two or three of their reviews and tell. If she is the right woman for you.

There is a provider that recently came through the area. Who's reviews read almost exactly the same. So you can tell she has a mechanical aspect to how things are gonna go. If that is what you want cool. If you want something different. Read the reviews of some other ladies till you find what you are looking for.

But for gods sake. If your gonna write a review. Write it out while it is still fresh in you head. Wait a day or two. Edit it as you see fit to do so. Then cut and paste it for review. There maybe things you forgot to add. Or something you may wish to reword.

A great many of the ladies that take the time to post on here. Are sincere and good people. I am sincerely sorry that such an individual was able to bother MJ. I understand why she is upset. But, as many have already said look at the source. I have no doubt that our moderators will do what they can to resolve this issue for you dear mistress.

I believe the reviewer did not only do a disservice to Jessica, but also to the community, For instance if you are looking for GFE; and he marks DFK pn mis Zelda and talks about all the kissing he got and Zelda doesnt do it you got a train wreck ready to happen.  Nobodys happy.  It wasnt the numbers that pissed MJ off it was the act that didnt happen.  

I have used the search and clicked my preferences and hopefully the list that came up was valid.  I personnally am not swayed by a bad set of numbers.  But I have seen profiles that had lets say 'more than one guy at a time'  or 'anal'  marked as yes and no review ever mentions it.  Do you accept the check mark as valid or invalid.  

You cant ask the lady unless your laying on her couch during your analysis.  Or does that just happen to me?

If I don't have anything nice to say I don't write a review OR I would write a review and just say we did not click and move on. I would never write a " BAD" review unless the pics were so opposite of what was displayed AND she was terrible.

Your dead on. MJ has received a lot of solid advice. I for one hope that the administers and Mods are dealing with this guy. I'm certain they are.

But like roadshow stated. When you review try and make sure you only check what you experienced. Because, it isn't like we can really ask them. Unless we are already in a sessions.  That is a hell of way to start your date. Granted, if your looking to establish and find an ATF. You got to communicate with the provider. Like in life. If you don't tell them what you like or don't like. Then you get what you deserve. That goes for hobbyist as well as providers.

There are a very few providers out there. That actually don't want any reviews. That they wish to keep not only themselves off the radar. But, there clients as well. While, I can appreciate the providers need for privacy. I sure as hell am not gonna through down any large amount money on something I can research. Let Captain Kirk go boldly where no man has gone before! An when he comes back from back page or whatever place he found this "supposed" goddess. Don't be surprised, when turns out to be a post op transsexual!

I am so thankful for the kind words and the support from everyone. I had no idea I would get so much support. For the most part, Yes I was angry and venting and I still am. On most days I can it go.. This one I could not..

Thanks everyone for the advice, kind words, input and support..

Sending Jessica HUGS!

New Pictures and Blog update will be posted 1 week from today....

A bad review could ALSO come from Someone who desired a service YOU do NOT advertise. ..so they're all pissed off.(I believe that would be their OWN fault)....OR,...somewhere you worked before that put someone up to it cuz you're taking their Bizzznesss....lol... ; Reviews are good for one thing...knowing the person is REAL, and SAFE. Whether or not the person is your cup of Tea or not,  really depends on the connection you two make. Men can ruin a connection right off the bat by HOW they present themselves when trying to make the appt to start with...IM JUSSSS SAYIN>>>>>

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