Im sorry that happens, jelousy is a hard thing to deal with.... I like to refer my guy friends to the other beauties.. Theres plenty for everyone, we shouldnt be greedy!!!  

Happy Hobbying
Bit

......the thirst can be very, very real.  
If she's whiny about you seeing another provider first make a note to self never to see her again and kindly let her know you hobby for less/no drama and not more.

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You have never met her and she is trying to make you feel guilt?

Just curious to how that works? How did you lead down that path with this ladie? I just want to know, these other ladies responses are to a rhetorical question. But your circumstance sounds kind of unique per say

Used to get a little jealous...

Ladies,

I ABSOLUTELY used to get a little jealous when MY regular clients wanted to see some of my other girls...
I never "guilt-tripped" them, because as someone else's response stated, I knew that they would be back. It took me a little while to get over the "I guess I wasn't good enough" feeling, but as an Agency Owner/Operator, I looked at it like this... Why not spread the wealth? I know they'll come back because basically, in my professional experience, hobbyists like a little trip to the "candy store" every now and then. I realized that just because they their "favorite flavor" is  Vanilla doesn't mean that they don't crave Chocolate or Strawberry etc... AND, I still make $$! Who could ask for more? Just how I look at it.  

Anna Leah  

Guys like Variety!

I think it's a real turn off for guys and adds unwanted pressure to have a provider be jealous and territorial . . I say keep it fun, keep it real, fresh and positive and be in it for the positive friendships and experiences that cum your way

Adriana~

I love giving Referrals for Providers, lots of ladies refer ppl to me also. Thank you Ladies!

There are sooo many wonderful providers out there! I can honestly say that there is only one Provider that I would not refer my awesome clients to. And only one!!! Out of all the states I travel to that's pretty darn good! She's in SC no less.  In all the yrs of being in this profession I have met so many Awesome Providers!! Hugs To All My Fellow Providers!!