You can often pick out the jaded, you're just another john hooker from the I'm desperate for business types and find the intelligent, witty and charming ladies that you really want to see.
I love a sense of humor in a provider and you can pick that up pretty easily

I always do now.  After a few "disappointments" I learned quickly that there is a big difference in quality and value and one simply cannot rely on the "marketing" that many ladies provide about themselves.  You have to check the reviews AND what the providers say on the boards, where their real characters start to come out.  At the same time, I am amazed every now and then to discover a lovely person who actually understates herself.  Definite keepers and worthy of stellar reviews.  Just goes to show that the range of nice and not-so-nice among providers is much like everywhere else and unless you do your homework it you are taking a big chance.

Relatively new to the hobby but I have to agree.  The things that a lady says and even the way she might phrase something can speak volumes about her true personality, intelligence, etc.  I've only started checking out the boards recently but I am already getting a better idea of who has their sh*t together. And personally I think an intelligent woman is about 10,000 times sexier than one who is not. Just my 2 cents!

Other than the ONE that I intend to see as often as I can the conduct on here has caused me to add some of the younger ladies to my must see list. Now to acquire the fun funds and convince them to see me.

I do as well.
I also choose my words/phrases carefully.  I probably type a bit more formally than I speak, but tend to be more formal/reserved in personal interactions until I get to know someone.  Thus when I first meet a provider, it may take me awhile to "warm up"

I like meeting the ladies behind the posts.  It's very interesting putting the persona next to the person, but they usually match pretty well if the lady has posted a lot.  Aria would be a good example, she is just as she posts - I can see her typing it.  Very bright (but feisty when she wants to be!) little minx!

If more of the ladies would post routinely (talk to us), it might help both sides.  I don't consciously try to don a different persona on these posts.  If someone doesn't like what I say, that's OK with me.  Trying to be someone I'm not isn't where I am now.  I'm not about to start lying to get points or to argue with trolls; I'd rather work on something constructive, like my bucket list!

Interesting.

I had been reviewed last fall- & a few more since then. I navigated the website, but because it wasn't as user friendly or pretty.... I found other websites to play on. But since being reviewed more- I guess I found myself putting more effort into the site, & exploring all links.  
I don't mind posting, especially if a topic catches my interest-  
However, I tend to shy from drama- & try not to feed the trolls.

They're everywhere, man.